Boys love coquetry. Is it love rat?

Is love rat a spoiled brat? Everyone's personality is different, so you can't look at others with your own ideas. So how can we understand those who love coquetry? What kind of people are they? The following is about love rat who loves coquetry.

Boys love coquetry. Is it love rat? 1 Not necessarily, but they should know how to please women.

If a boy is coquetry, you still have to look at his face. Imagine if Park Baogen spoiled with you, do you feel heartbroken and want to satisfy him? But what if it's Yun-peng Yue? Did you wake up a lot in an instant?

Therefore, a man's coquetry may not be love rat, but may be more dependent, indicating that he has emotional dependence on you and should love you very much. Actually, it's nice to have a boyfriend with a little suckling dog.

What are those slutty men like?

First, this kind of rogue man likes to take advantage of calculation, refuses to take responsibility when something happens, tries to let women down their guard by coquetry, and is willing to spend money on it, which is the real love rat.

Secondly, this naive man is quite childlike. No matter at any age, there is always a little boy in my heart who likes to be spoiled and lovely from time to time in front of his beloved woman in order to get understanding and support.

Third, the happy man at this time has no purpose, but a state when his mind or emotion is satisfied. It is usually expressed by asking for a kiss, asking for care or hugging.

Needless to say, when a woman meets the first man, it may be a disaster if she doesn't open her eyes to see the true face of the other person. It is a woman's happiness to meet a man who has the latter two forms of expression, because these two men usually spoil their wives, are open-minded and have good endurance.

The reason why men love coquetry.

First, women are the object of men's coquetry.

In terms of gender roles, women mostly play the role of mothers, which is why men are more likely to coquetry in front of women in private. Even though men have always played the social image of tough guys, in fact, their psychological pressure is also great, because men have been educated in this way since childhood. If you are a man, a man should be strong.

In the face of nature, men and women are the same, all have their own fragile side, and need comfort when they are hurt inside. In addition, men have always played an important role in society. Compared with women, they have few opportunities to vent, so when they go home, they will expose their vulnerability to "psychological mothers" to get spiritual comfort.

Second, career is the capital for men to coquetry.

Experts say that under normal circumstances, career is an excuse for men, not to say that spoiled men have no career, on the contrary, career is often the capital they rely on to spoil. This is just like monetary capital and image capital. They have high-end brand-name suits, Rolex gold watches, coarse gold bracelets or necklaces. When these capitals are accumulated to the actual stage, they will feel that this form of expression is vulgar, and as they become real big bosses, their clothes will become casual.

Usually, when no one is around, when you recall your past years, there is usually a loss of gain and loss. In the long-term fear, it will gradually rise to an anxiety that often leads to endocrine disorders. At this time, they will act like children to the woman they love deeply. Some wives will think that their husbands have done something wrong, leading to a deadlock in the relationship between husband and wife.

Third, coquetry is not a man's killer.

Experts show that men's tears are not their killer weapon, and they will not make such a move easily. For a responsible man, a lot of responsibilities will be listed when coquetry, such as family, wife and daughter, parents and career. At this time, a woman will understand the pressure he is under, and then she will have a feeling of "cherishing the fragrance and cherishing the jade".

Boys love coquetry. Is it love rat? What does it mean for a boyfriend to love coquetry?

The boyfriend in love has these three coquetry performances for you, which shows that the more sincere his love for you is. In love, girls and boys express their love in different ways. Girls are more emotional and boys are relatively rational. But in fact,

When a boy likes you completely, he will also become less rational and behave like a child. If you are a clever girl, you should be able to see the difference between him and others.

What kind of experience is it to have a spoiled boyfriend?

The first lady said that her husband chased her himself, and she was very fulfilled and sweet at the same time. Every time I want to go out, he will ask me piteously, where is my wife? What time are you coming back? Less than half an hour after going out, I will definitely receive a text message, wife, I miss you.

When I get home, I will fly to hug me with flashing eyes. Miss said that sometimes we quarrel. I am a typical Scorpio, paranoid. When I wouldn't let him go, he said angrily, "Why can't I control my little temper?"

Haha, I was instantly laughed at by his "small temper" and "what". Yes, I really laughed at his tone. I feel that this is really a kind of coquetry of strength. The third little sister said, a boy who is more than one meter long holds your arm, buries his head on your shoulder and shakes your arm. He will suddenly hug you from behind and rub his head between your necks. Sometimes he complains about you and you ignore him. In the eyes of others, he is a cold male god. In my eyes, he is just a spoiled and scared child.

The last couple called me my wife every day and called me cute when they were not together. Then he really fried the chicken. Maybe he taught me how to grow up. He is three years older than me, and the time together is not very long, only about two weeks. He taught me how to do it step by step, and he really likes him.

He loves you and plays with your performance.

First, see if he is willing to pay for you.

Of course, every boy who wants to attract the attention of girls will definitely pay a little. At this time, it depends on whether boys will be willing to pay something more practical for you. It's like taking you to his relatives and friends. Boy, if he really likes you, he will definitely be willing to introduce you.

If he is not sincere to you, they may hesitate. Because they will be afraid to go too deep with you. If so, it will be more troublesome to solve it in the future.

Second, is it honest?

If a boy loves you, he will be honest with you and won't hide anything from you, so his mobile phone should also be open to you. If he always looks evasively at the movements and eyes you want to see on your mobile phone, it means that he must be hiding something from you. Maybe he flirts with other girls besides you. So whether a boy loves you or plays with your obvious performance depends on whether he is honest with you.

Third, whether I am willing to give you a promise.

After two people get together, they will definitely say some sweet words. Sometimes when they get along well, they will also hope that the other party will make a promise. If this boy simply promised you without hesitation, it means that you actually have a place in his heart, so he has plans for your future. If he is busy trying to change the subject, obviously he can't give you any promises, because he knows that he is not sincere to you, so you will part sooner or later.

Fourth, whether I care about you.

If a boy really likes you, he will show concern for you, and sometimes even show that he wants to enter the marriage hall with you as soon as possible, because then he can leave you at his side with peace of mind. A boy who wants to play with you, he won't give you a promise of marriage. Even if he usually shows that he cares about you, it is only an act.

What would it be like for a boy to really like a girl?

First of all, rule number one: spend time and energy and money to prepare gifts and surprises for you. I just want you to be happy every day. I remember all the anniversaries better than you, because if you say anything casually, or you say that you like snacks, he will buy them for you even if you queue up early to run a few blocks.

Number two: Give you a nickname that belongs only to you two. I also like to call out at many times, taking you to meet friends is not shy, and showing love in a circle of friends gives you a sense of security.

Third: childish, especially in front of you. Every day, there are many sweet words for you. If you don't answer him for a few hours, your mobile phone will explode. When you get close to other boys, he will be particularly angry, but he will not be angry with you.

Will only spoil you, yes, boys will spoil you. He will linger with his head buried in your neck, call your nickname and talk to you softly. I will hold you and hope you can spend more time with him. In front of others, he is a very cold gentleman, but in front of you, he is a little suckling dog.

Boys love coquetry. Is it love rat? Men also love coquetry. Why?

In fact, it is not puzzling.

Men coquetry because of Oedipus complex. Everyone has a vulnerable side, and everyone has a need to be comforted. So who is the most suitable person to meet his soothing needs? Mother, of course. This is the mark left by our brains at the beginning of life, and in later life, our mother has repeatedly strengthened this mark with her own actions. So subconsciously, a complex is formed: mother is a person who cares for us unconditionally, nourishes us and comforts us.

We became attached to our mother and she became the object of our coquetry. But mother can't accompany us all our lives, so we subconsciously regard people who are similar to our mother as mothers and play the role of mothers. This "mother" can be anyone, not fixed.

For example, a daughter can become a mother's psychological "mother", and a brother may also become a sister's psychological "mother". Although sometimes the husband may become his wife's psychological "mother", more often the wife will become her husband's psychological "mother". In the division of gender roles, women themselves have the characteristics of motherhood. This difference in gender roles is one of the reasons why men are more likely to coquetry in front of women.

Furthermore, coquetry is the need of psychological adjustment. Although we have repeatedly emphasized the equality between men and women, it is undeniable that men have always played a powerful social role. When the image of a strongman brings some privileges to men, it also brings more psychological pressure to men. Men have been educated since childhood. If you are a man, men should be strong.

At home, even the newest family inevitably regards men as the psychological center of the whole family. Many ordinary families regard men as the backbone of the family. When encountering storms, the first thing is the shelter of men. You are the strong, and the strong is the social role of men.

However, this role of men is only the product of social culture. People are not made of steel. Like women in nature, they all have a fragile side, mental pain and a longing for comfort. Moreover, it is precisely because men have to play a strong social role, bear more life pressure than women, and have few opportunities to vent in public.

People always need psychological self-regulation, so when they get home, men will expose their fragile side to their "psychological mother" to get spiritual comfort. So men are more likely to be spoiled in front of their wives.

Therefore, understanding men and being kind to men are women's wisdom in facing life.

Can you see that men are coquetry?

Usually when a man is coquetry, he will make the following actions. Do you know what they mean?

1) lean your head to one side and hold your face with your hands.

② Hold down cheeks, head and hair.

(3) fiddle with your lips with your fingertips.

(4) Cross your arms on your chest.

⑤ Hold hands by yourself.

Analysis:

(1) Hands holding cheeks represent warm arms and chest. A man holds his head in his hand, hoping to be hugged and comforted by his lover.

When you find that you made a mistake, you put your hand on your cheek without thinking. This is a sign of regret and guilt, and it also shows that you want to be tolerant and comforted.

(3) Fingertips of forefinger and thumb are used to fiddle with lips, indicating that they are seeking relief while overcoming anxiety and stabilizing emotions.

Hands around the chest have two meanings. One is to imitate the mother's coaxing and shaking when the baby is scared to cry. The other is to show a sense of defense, such as not wanting to see anyone, wanting to refuse something, and also using this action to cut off the intimate expression with the other party.

When you hold hands tightly, one hand represents yourself and the other hand represents the hand of the person you admire in your heart, hoping for strong support.