A shocking diary of moral kidnapping.

My roommate who hasn't spoken for four years and three years suddenly sent a text message: "I'm going to have a birthday, come to my house!" " "I looked at this short message, sitting alone on the playground, crying silently, and someone said to me," What's the matter! Forgive me! I will graduate soon. Don't let my youth leave any regrets. Who will remember who after graduation? " Some people say, "You are too melodramatic. People bow their heads with you. Who has no self-esteem? "! Almost done! "However, I stubbornly sat alone on the playground and looked at the text messages on my mobile phone. Every word is full of overflowing pain, and these words are deeply engraved in my heart like knife marks. Every knife is fatal!

Yes, everyone thinks so. I should forgive her, no matter what she has done to hurt me, I should forgive her. No one can see how I have come over these three years! When I ran wildly in the whole school to vent my inner pain, when I wanted to make up with her again and again with great expectation, I was completely cooled by a pot of cold water; When being accused of swearing, a wronged person cries alone in the quilt; Every time I see her, I carefully try to avoid conflict. When I was injured alone, no one accompanied me, but when I was kidnapped by morality, every one of them was there! They pointed their forefinger at me, accused me of being selfish, complained that I was narrow-minded, and said that I should forgive her, look forward, don't immerse myself in the past, and don't hold a grudge. And I, hiding in a small corner! I looked at them timidly. I dare not contradict them. I'm afraid I might even lose my last friend. Morality, who kidnapped my morality? .

In life, we often hear such words: "Why don't you forgive her?" "Why don't you do it?" "Why don't you? . . . "But who knows, when the parties touch their own moral bottom line, they will always consider more things than those on the sidelines. So you are not qualified to say this about others, and no one is qualified to evaluate others' behavior choices with their own values. If you do this, it's moral kidnapping! Everyone is an independent person, and no one wants to be a puppet of others' behavior. Even if she likes this person again, she can't be his puppet, let alone a moral kidnapping.

There was once a bosom friend who recalled the mistakes he made when he was young and said that he had a good friend and a very good boyfriend when he was in junior high school. But because his family is a single-parent family, his family is poor, his clothes are always in rags, and his classmates look down on him, and no one wants to sit at the same table with him. But she has a good relationship with that boy and takes the initiative to sit at the same table with him. In fact, there is no special reason. She just thinks that this boy is particularly kind, and that she is particularly congenial to this boy. Later, I don't know what happened. Everyone said behind her back that she liked that boy and that they were a pair of slackers. The man playing with this boy is a fool. She was so fragile in her heart that she couldn't stand the harm of everyone's nonsense, so she took the initiative to ask the teacher to transfer from her seat and separate from that boy. From then on, she didn't dare to look at the boy's eyes, just because she felt particularly cruel and sorry for the boy. On the day of junior high school graduation, at the class reunion, the boy gave the girl a crumpled note that read: I have nothing to miss in this school, the only thing I miss is the day I sat at your desk. Thank you for sitting at my desk. Boys always feel that it is their own reasons that keep girls in the shadow. But my friend told me that in fact, after the graduation party that day, she went back to school and sat at the same table before, crying all afternoon. She thinks that boy is the most sorry for her three years in junior high school. When everyone is mocking, sarcasm and hurting the boy, she is also mocking, sarcasm and hurting the boy with them in order not to be isolated. This is not what she wants, but she has to do it. She can never forgive herself. Even if she knew she was a moral kidnapping.

People who have never experienced harm cannot understand the pain of moral abductees. The feeling that no one forced you to do it is better than the feeling that someone forced you to do it. It's like a rich second generation who goes to the vegetable market to buy food and bargain will be accused of saying, "You are so rich, do you still care about this money?" Empathy; It's like a young man taking a bus after a day's work, but he has to give up his seat to those old people who have rested for a day and done nothing, so he will feel the same as public opinion; It's like the feeling of trying to earn money to buy jewelry to wear on your body. When you meet a beggar who asks you for money and you don't give it to him, he mumbles, "You are so well dressed, but you are so stingy." No one is holding a bright knife rest around your neck, but there is an invisible rope and you can't breathe.

Everyone is kidnapping your behavior choice with one moral standard or another. They can't see your past and don't want to listen to your story patiently. They will only use their so-called sharp weapons to hurt you as much as possible. This weapon is public opinion and the reins!

I don't believe you, what a shocking moral kidnapping!