What should introverted girls do?

You can do this: if there is an opportunity, let him participate in social practice more, that is, deal with people in society more. This is the best way. Our neighbor has a little girl whose personality is similar to your sister's. Later, she stopped going to school and dropped out of school for a year, that is, she didn't like studying L herself, so she went out to work. After working for three months, she exercised well. Secondly, she is encouraged to talk more when there are many people, not once or twice.

Lesson one

Chasing a girl, of course, you must first know the girl's mobile phone number, and then you must have that meaning to her.

Send a message: I enjoyed chatting with you last time. Can I invite you out to chat again?

Note: if the girl agrees, she needs to spend some time to find a place, which can be a quiet bar. Don't go to the restaurant for the time being.

Lesson 2

Don't forget to send a short message when you come home after the date: Nice talking to you, and I look forward to seeing you again. Good Night!

Let her know that you are a lovely person. You can send her an interesting message the next day. For example:

1. Today is the panda's birthday. Someone asked him what his wish was. The giant panda said: I have two wishes in my life. One is to find a Chinese doctor to get rid of my dark circles, and the other is that I want to take a color photo.

2. I am Yuanmou from Yunnan, and you are from Zhoukou, Beijing; I hold your furry hand and bite it gently. Love, let's walk upright.

Let her know that you are a humorous person.

Note: Don't send yellow jokes!

Lesson 3

Girls are vain. You can send some messages like this at ordinary times:

1, I see you're wearing something special and cute today.

2. Seeing your beautiful skirt today, my eyes will fall.

Don't be stingy with your beautiful description, be as beautiful as you want.

Lesson 4

I've been in contact with it for some time, and now it's time for you to show your treasure. Please the girl you like with your short message.

1, (hint) If there is an afterlife, let's be mice, love each other stupidly, live stupidly, snuggle up and be silly together.

2. (Warm reminder) Are you busy? Nothing, I just want to tell you that I miss you in a way that doesn't bother you. I hope that when you receive my message, you will have a smile on your lips and let your friends around you know that you are happy.

3. (Ask her to answer the question) Do you know what I am doing? Give you five choices: a, miss you; B, I miss you very much; C. I miss you very much; D, don't think you can't; E, all of the above

4. (Issue weather forecast) Tomorrow's minimum temperature 1 degree and maximum temperature1degree. Let me tell you: caring about the weather means caring about you. Don't forget to add one more dress (XX, that is yourself).

Lesson Five

The advantage of texting is that you can say things that you usually dare not say to your face. Even if it is sour to death, girls like sweet talk and care about others. But pay attention to the following matters:

1, the number is small, girls should not like the boy with mother-in-law, is it very tired to be around you all day?

Don't always send short messages copied online, use your own thinking.

3, occasionally rain for three days and dry the net for two days, playing hard to get. After repeated SMS bombardments, I suddenly stopped texting for a day or two. When your message becomes a part of a girl's life, she will wonder why you didn't send me a message today. When she sends you a text message, no matter what she says, you have already succeeded half way.

4. After giving you enough SMS care, the first message a girl sends you is often complaining, such as I'm bored to death, I'm about to collapse, I'm depressed and so on. Hey, hey, what are you waiting for? Girls need success most, so encourage her quickly: in fact, the sky is blue, the clouds are always scattered, in fact, the sea is not wide, and even on the other side, the tears are actually sweet. I want you when your heart wants it.

How do boys chase girls?

It's too easy for boys to chase girls. After reading this article, you will become an expert.

Don't say anything until it's cooked. Some boys have only dated people a few times, and then they propose to establish further relationships. Nine times out of ten, it will spoil the soup. The beauty of love is that everything is self-evident. Clear, clear, but not beautiful. It turns out that people are willing to come out and talk to you alone, which shows that girls have a good impression on you. But sometimes this feeling can't even be told by themselves, but you are eager to point it out and destroy this hazy beauty, so don't blame others for staying away from it. Look around at the love that died before it started. Many of them are caused by boys not mastering the temperature.

Put away your fists to attack better. What should I do if a girl refuses me? Some people say that we should pursue hard and persevere. Actually, it is not. Unless you are a person who doesn't care about anything, it is hard for you to bear the dirty eyes of girls and the mocking eyes of peers. Better stop and retreat for a while. This not only protects your dignity, but also leaves a way out, thus creating opportunities for future counterattacks. Let her wander in the crowd. When she hits a wall, go to her again, and she will realize that you love her the most. Even if you really can't give up, you should pay attention to the ways and means to find her. Don't let her find you annoying. And this is usually difficult to do.

Don't be too explicit and learn to care about her quietly. Treat her with your honesty and kindness. Only in this way can you attract her attention among a large group of boys screaming around her. Remember, only you who are special will attract her special attention.

Don't enter unless necessary. A boy who always runs to the girls' dormitory will not attract much favor from girls. Some student union cadres often run to the girls' dormitory under the pretext of work, and then they stay there, which brings a lot of inconvenience to others and the effect will only be counterproductive. The root cause of this result is still too obvious.

Strategic contempt ... tactical value ... Sometimes the girl you like will have some contact with you, such as talking, chatting, working together and so on. You'd better look at these things with a normal heart, and don't have a burden, you'd better suffer from loss. For example, don't pay too much attention to what she accidentally said. Some boys are easy to be romantic, which is the reason. However, we should pay enough attention to every such opportunity. For example, the first conversation should pay attention to discretion, and it is best not to involve the scope of love. Let's talk about childhood. If you go straight to the point, that's too bad! Girls must be as alert to you as wolves.

Better kiss up less. You praised her for her beauty. If she is really beautiful, then you are only the 700th person to praise her beauty, and the most impressive person may be the first person to praise her like this. If she is plain, no one can say what will happen if you praise her like this. If she finds out you didn't mean it, you're dead. Remember, you can only coax a girl after she becomes your girlfriend. This is a sign that you didn't master the heat before catching up with her.

Don't be so macho. A boy finally invited the girl he had long admired to dinner, which cost him half a month's living expenses. Later, when he went to pay the bill, he found that the girl had paid for him and he wanted to pay her back. Girls don't want to. The girl stripped him of his face and he was very angry. The girl cried with anger. The girl paid the bill for him, which showed that she had a crush on him. He lost his temper instead of trying to please him, so it is no wonder that he is going to be single. Few girls will have a good impression on boys who don't respect women, remember! Remember!

Unite the majority. Almost every girl has one or two closest girlfriends. When everything else is blocked, they are your road to success. You can know whether girls are interested in you through them, and you can also convey your meaning through them. This is much better than what you said directly. Don't ignore this new force. I have seen the boy succeed in this way more than once.

Finally, I want to remind you that there is never a fixed formula for love. The way others succeed may be your failure; The way others fail may be your beauty. I only ask some questions of principle here, and I must not copy them mechanically. If it ruins your good deeds, don't come to me. If a girl doesn't like you, even the Jade Emperor can't help it. The ancients said: it is the best policy to defeat the enemy without fighting.

A girl wrote: how to chase girls, super classic.

First, what kind of first impression should I leave on MM (time: I just started to contact MM)

1, I think the most important thing is to let MM see your self-motivated.

The greatest charm of a man lies in his successful career. Young people can't be "successful" if they don't work long hours. At this time, you should make MM feel that you are a self-motivated person.

Others can talk nonsense, but this question cannot be vague. You must tell MM that you are full of confidence in the future, that you are not satisfied with the status quo, and that you have a long-term plan. In a word, your future is not a dream.

2. Self-confidence and responsibility.

Don't be such a child. Girls are lazy and want to find someone to rely on. You should show your confidence and sense of responsibility.

It's better to have a wrong choice than no choice at all.

Not too formal, but not too casual.

Be serious where you should be serious, and ridicule when you should be ridiculous.

Girls like men who are a little cynical, so don't seem to care about nothing, it's too dull.

Step 4 look mature

A leisurely man has fatal attraction to mm.

Second, how to further contact MM (time: the stage of starting to chase)

1, the most important thing at this stage is not to worry, not to make things so clear that people can see at a glance that you are chasing others.

Think about it. Most people don't like you at first sight, but they don't hate you at first sight. They are all children of ordinary people (unless you look like Chow Yun Fat Andy Lau or kevin costner). Good feelings need to be realized through constant understanding, so the key to the problem is the opportunity for further development you want.

Think about it from the girl's point of view: if you rush directly to have sex, the girl must be under psychological pressure. If I find that I don't like you after a while, wouldn't that be a trick? So if you come out with a firm attitude from the beginning, you will basically get bored immediately.

Step 2 start with a low profile

First of all, we should position the relationship as a "friend", which is originally an "ordinary friend". You want to be a good friend with taste.

You can also ask the other person to be a "confidante" or something. In short, don't say "chase you".

Think about it, if you don't mention "chasing" at all, then the chances of a girl "rejecting" you will be reduced-how can you refuse if you don't chase her? !

This can relieve the psychological pressure of girls and enable you to communicate smoothly. Don't imagine agreeing to marry you after three days of knowing each other. You should communicate fully and understand that feelings don't come out of thin air.

Don't be too impatient in the process of communication.

Relax, don't pester others all day. Anyone who does this to you will get tired of it. A good friend of mine told me that the key to chasing girls is eight words-"hot and cold, playing hard to get" (this is the crystallization of my classmates' efforts for many years).

If you pester people all day, you naturally don't think you are good. If you are properly indifferent for a day or two, the girls will remember the benefits of your presence.

Also, don't take out the ambition of "you must marry". The price is too low. Sometimes you can play tricks.

4. Create opportunities appropriately.

I said before, don't turn things into "you are chasing others" right away, you need to get close to girls. At this time, it depends on your creativity.

You can collect information and find ways to turn waiting for rabbits into an encounter; You can also pretend to be careless and find out the best reason to invite someone to do something with you.

In short, this is the most technical place. If it is really not feasible, you can ask your predecessors.

5. Never: It is impolite to give gifts to others casually.

Some people are eager to chase girls and like to buy things for others often, but they don't know that chasing girls is the most taboo.

As the saying goes, "You get something for nothing". You are putting pressure on others by giving them something like this. People will feel indebted to you, so they will find ways to repay you. If they can't, they will try their best not to associate with you, so as not to always owe you one.

If you want to show your sincerity, you might as well invite girls to spend it together, for example, find a good restaurant to eat or an expensive place to play together. Girls can naturally see that you spent a lot of money, but after all, the money was spent by two people, not taken home.

Third, what is a "girlfriend"?

1, "girlfriend" is a fact, not a promise.

You start dating girls, from "ordinary friends" to "good friends" to "very, very good friends who talk about everything". On a sunny afternoon, you "accidentally" held her hand; "On the moon, willow shoots", you suddenly attacked and kissed her. At this time, she is already your girlfriend. Whether she admits it or not, she already thinks you are his boyfriend. I know the best. I didn't ask "Would you like to be my girlfriend" until I went to bed. Finally, the girl was anxious: "Why don't you ask me to be your girlfriend!" " Therefore, don't rush to break the window paper, the more hazy the situation, the better for you.

2. What is a "confession"?

As I said before, confession is actually just a form, and the correct order should be: in fact, you have become your girlfriend, and you can confess to others. Many people don't understand this problem. They always think that others promise to be their girlfriends first, and then what happens? I can only say that he is very, very "simple" and very, very "stupid".

3. Have you ever had to confess?

Yes, for example, there is a third party, or your relationship with a girl is immature, but two people may be separated for a while.

At this time, confession is immature and risky. This is similar to the grim situation when playing Go. The backward side was forced to hand over the "winning hand". If you win, you win. If you lose, you can only say that you are born with bad luck.

4. Don't export the word "love" easily.

I often see a "bold confession" in the forum. To be honest, I really think this is a very immature performance. "Love" is a sacred word, which means pursuit, commitment and even a responsibility.

A man who casually says "love" is irresponsible.

Fourth, civilized love cannot be forced.

1, not every MM can catch up with good girls, there will always be many people chasing them, it is impossible to fulfill everyone's wishes, and there will always be losers. For example, even if you study hard and master the principle of chasing MM, you can't catch up with either twin. Look at the problem from another angle. Even if a rural nanny who didn't graduate from elementary school is very kind to you, you won't fall in love with her if she earns 600 yuan a month to buy you 700 yuan as a gift (overdraft) and is willing to be a cow and a horse for you. If she cries and pesters you every day, you will be bored.

So love needs a material foundation, at least a balance.

2. Chasing MM is a serious social activity.

Don't bother others, leave yourself a way out. Why don't men have wives? Some MM are snobs (minority). If you don't believe it, you can prove that "she was blind" with facts. Never mistake others for yourself.

Finally, don't be cynical in front of MM, cynicism sometimes means "you are a failure".

Tips for chasing girls

The more times you touch a woman, the easier it is for her to fall in love with you.

After touching a woman, you can enhance each other's intimacy (physical contact is the best way to get closer to a woman, but how to touch a woman without trace requires excellent skills). If you can have a chance to touch her knees or hands, it will be quite perfect. But if this is your first date, don't do it. In coffee shops and restaurants, you'd better choose juxtaposed positions (that's how opportunities arise). If you choose a seat facing each other, you won't have a chance to touch each other. As far as women's body is concerned, the left side (roughly the left side, yes, but for left-handed women, it is the right side) is a non-daily area, and it is easy to feel itchy. Therefore, it is best to have a woman on your left. If you hold her from the left rear with your left hand, she will fall into your arms. Then expect further good results. The difference between a popular man and an unpopular man: a popular man always keeps an idealized woman at a respectful distance, while a desirable woman has a way to put her by her side. Women are bound to be curious about men who attract attention (curiosity is a fatal wound for women). This curiosity can be used for interesting conversations and fresh intelligence information. If you are unpopular, even if the other person is curious, you can only try your best to avoid it when you see you. Unpopular men are always lonely around you. Whenever you want to be in an active atmosphere, you must have confidence (self-confidence rather than arrogance is the only way to chase your girlfriend, remember! ), and good interpersonal relationships, I believe that in this way, a good girl will belong to you.

From friend to lover, I finally got a chance to ask her out, but I didn't know what gift to bring. On this occasion, it is best to bring a flower, so that you can pin it on her chest or hair, which naturally forms an opportunity to kiss each other. As for dining, you may be a little cautious for the first time, but after the second time, you can choose food for two people to enhance the intimacy between them. If you can eat with her, then your relationship is not just friends, but lovers. Give yourself a chance to step into her inner world. After the other person becomes your girlfriend, many people are worried that their relationship can't go any further. In fact, these people either don't care too much, or often let the opportunity to enhance their emotions slip away. In the female ethnic group, we attach great importance to boys who want to help women with their coats, because at the moment when they take off their coats, if there are men present, women can easily have the illusion of lovers. If you can say, "Put things that are easy to forget on my side" when you take the bus, it will bring you closer to her. But if these behaviors are not used properly, they will be self-defeating. It is very important for women to create unexpected mystery. Compared with men introduced by others or met in the workplace, men who occasionally associate are more attractive to women. If this accidental situation happens repeatedly, then women will be convinced of the existence of fate. But can you create a second chance? In fact, everyone can do this. If you want to meet a girl anyway, you can check her commuting route and other related matters in detail, which will make it easier to create a second chance. Only by accepting women's eyes can you become a successful man. Women always pay attention to the essence of men's true colors, so when they know that men's true colors are not their favorite type, they are likely to take the opportunity to escape.

If it suits her taste, it's better to make some changes. In addition, excellent memory is a characteristic of women. Some men forget a sentence, but women remember it clearly, so you must remember everything you say to her. What kind of gift does she want? As for giving gifts, if your girlfriend likes small things, you can give rings, watches or flowers. If she likes big things, you can send big dolls or big bouquets, which will win her heart. Generally speaking, people who like small things are mostly mature people, because these things can be placed within their control, so most of them will not do whatever they want. Most women who like big dolls are a little childish, so when she is happy, she may stick to her boyfriend. However, it is also possible that after hugging a doll, I don't want to hug you anymore. In this respect, although women who like small things will make you pay more, it seems easier to cultivate long-term love. There is a principle when kissing a woman, that is, press her against the wall, and the woman can find the steps by the reason that I can't hide from the wall (right! If you want to kiss a girl, give her a step, even a strong kiss is very easy to succeed! ) come down. The unavoidable situation is a very important factor psychologically. Before you want to become an expert in erotic hunting, you must be familiar with all kinds of techniques and understand the psychology of women in order to win the final victory. Finally, when choosing a bar or restaurant, you'd better choose one with steps, because it will give you more excuses to approach her. If you can hold her hand, you will let her peel off a layer of defense, and the rest is to kiss her. If you give in to women's words or attitudes too much, you are sure to fail. Women are lovely and terrible animals. The main difference between women and men is that they both have two personalities. On the surface, they look quite soft, but inside, they can be said to be mothers' nights. Men who are not good at pursuing women can easily succumb to this horror. Men who are not used to facing such women will succumb to women's words or smiles and become opinionated.