I'm bored! Husband doesn't like work, but he has to build a house at home and has no money. My in-laws asked me to borrow money from my parents to build a house. I don't want to borrow money I'm under

I'm bored! Husband doesn't like work, but he has to build a house at home and has no money. My in-laws asked me to borrow money from my parents to build a house. I don't want to borrow money I'm under a lot of pressure. ... The happiness of life depends on yourself. Know how to trust and try to take care of your home. Every family has its own problems, and there is no contradiction between them. Why should people live in harmony? Try to understand your family and communicate with them. The home is going to be renovated, and many things have happened, but the goal is to make the home better. We don't borrow money. Basically, we are welcome, friends help us, and some are on credit. We usually emphasize credibility. Bit by bit, it may be 10 year. At this time, I really relied on my friends for help and didn't borrow money from my relatives. To tell the truth, I talk too much to my relatives. It is still useful to be good friends.

Good luck. How to do it specifically, we are not the parties and it is hard to say. There are many solutions.