How to apologize with sincere words

1. Say "sorry" or "sorry". Apologizing to others is actually not a very simple thing. Sometimes even if you know that you have done something wrong, you will have an instinctive reaction and feel that you refuse to say sorry to others. But the words "I'm sorry" or "I'm sorry" are very important in apologizing. Sometimes your attitude may be reluctant, but when you say "sorry" or "sorry", it also shows that you have given in and are willing to solve the problem. There should be no further insulting words. Have you ever experienced a situation where when someone apologizes to you, he immediately explains why he did it, and then makes you feel that you should not forgive him? For example, "I'm sorry I spoke ill of you behind your back, but the truth is that you are lazy and careless." This apology is really unacceptable, isn't it? Such behavior shows that your friend knows that he has made you sad, but he doesn't want to take responsibility. It is impossible for the injured person to accept an apology that further strengthens his insult or injury. Don't expect the other person to recover soon. Many people think that as long as they apologize, things will pass. If you are friends, you can make up soon. In my opinion, this actually shows that your apology is not from the heart. Because apologizing is one thing, and the person you hurt can forgive you is the first step to end this matter. I'm really sorry. I won't think the other person is okay so soon. I will express my sincerity in order to make the other party forgive you, or make a wish to make up for it. 4, will not find other reasons. You must have encountered such an apology, "I didn't mean to, I did it because of XXX." A sincere apology will admit your mistake, instead of using others as a shield or finding other reasons as an excuse. Because people who make excuses but apologize actually know that they have done something wrong, but they just don't want to take responsibility for it. So such an apology is also insincere. 5. Don't use "if". If there is a word in the apology that needs to be banned, I think it is "if". For example, "I'm sorry if you think my joke offended you." The person who said this knows very well that he has offended you. So he tried to apologize to you. But "if" is added, so the purpose is to alleviate our own problems and make a perfunctory apology. The subtext of this expression is, "You think I offended you, but that's not what I meant. You are too petty. " How to apologize sincerely? 1, "Sorry!" The first thing to do when apologizing is that you need to say sorry for what has passed. You need to express your regret. If you don't even express regret, then the person you are sorry for will definitely think, "He doesn't care at all!" " Or "he doesn't care about it at all", or "he doesn't think he is wrong at all!" 2. "Why?" In the next stage, you need to explain to the person you need to be forgiven the real reason why this matter has developed to such a bad state and what you have done to make it happen. Instead of making excuses or blaming others, find reasons from yourself and make it clear. State the facts objectively, don't try to lighten yourself, exaggerate the influence of others' behavior and distort the facts. 3. "What can I do to correct it in the future?" This is an important part of sincere apology, and it is often overlooked. The solution should be the focus of your apology. What has happened cannot be changed. On the contrary, what should be done in the future is the most important. For example, at work, because of your problem, the customer's goods have problems, which leads to the damage of the customer's trust in you. Then what you should think is "How can I restore the customer's trust in me?" For example, if the data in your report is incorrect, all subsequent reports need to be changed, which increases the workload of many departments, then what you should think about is "how to improve your skills and avoid the same thing in the future." 4. "Please forgive me!" Only by doing the above can you seek forgiveness from the person you wronged. Many people prefer to take shortcuts and ask for forgiveness immediately after completing 1 or 2. However, the study found that if you skip any of the above stages and directly ask the injured person for forgiveness, it will not bring you good luck, but may make things worse. Finally, when you apologize to others, please apologize for what happened. When apologizing, describe what happened and apologize for specific problems, instead of apologizing for all the actions you have caused in the past or done before. Because it may make the person you need to ask for forgiveness feel that you don't think you did anything wrong. They hope to concretize this apology and then get a feasible correction plan. How to apologize sincerely? 2 think about the angle of apology. Apologize can be role-to-role or person-to-person, depending on which situation is easier. For example, two executives of a company have a language conflict. If one of them is still angry with the other, he can stand in his own position and express to the other: "We both work in a good company, and I should know more about our differences. Sorry, I was rude just now. " In this way, even if the other party is still in Yu Nu, the atmosphere of opposition has been relatively relaxed. Apologize first and then explain. When apologizing to others, if you want to make your apology look especially sincere, in this case, you should apologize first, even if you say a simple apology first, and then explain it, which will make you apologize sincerely. If you are eager to explain to others and then apologize, this scene will feel like an excuse. When apologizing to others, if you want to make your apology especially sincere, you must take responsibility for something in this case. For example, if you do something wrong and dare to take responsibility, you will make others think that you are a very real person. If you don't apologize for taking responsibility, maybe people will forgive you. A written apology. Sometimes just saying "I'm sorry" is not enough. Writing on paper carries more weight than saying it. You can write an apology letter or email to the other party to express your sincere apologies. This face-to-face conversation can not only achieve the purpose of apologizing, but also avoid some ugly scenes of the other party scolding you and venting their anger. It is a good way to save friendship. Otherwise, dissatisfaction will accumulate in your chest. If you persist for several years, you and the other party will never get back together. Watch your words. Words should be clear and accurate, not provocative. Apologize should be quick and direct. This is the most important part. Speak clearly, don't hesitate, and don't beat around the bush to find excuses to defend yourself. When the other party sees you taking responsibility and reflecting on your wrong attitude, they will think that similar things will not happen again and will be willing to forgive you. If you can't get to the point when apologizing, apologizing is also a formality, and the other party may not forgive you from the heart. Explain the reasons for the mistake. When apologizing to others, if you want to make your apology appear especially sincere, in this case, after showing your mistakes, you must explain the reasons for your mistakes, so that others can fully understand the whole story of your mistakes, so that you will appear more sincere. When apologizing to others, if you want your apology to be especially sincere, in this case, you should make some corrections to your mistakes after describing your mistakes and the reasons for them. Let the other person know that you have really realized your mistake and want to correct it with action. The way to express sincerity The story of "offer a humble apology" in ancient China has been passed down to this day. I believe everyone knows this story, which tells the historical fact that Lian Po, the general of Zhao State, apologized to Lin Xiangru, a civilian in the Warring States Period. While people admire Lin Xiangru's magnanimous mind of putting the country first, they are often impressed by Lian Po's courage to face up to his mistakes and "plead guilty". If Lian Po didn't have the heart and action to admit his mistake, he wouldn't admit it frankly and take the initiative to make up for it. An effective apology that dares to take responsibility is not a trick to excuse yourself, let alone a trick to cheat others to forgive. You must have a sense of responsibility, dare to blame yourself, and dare to admit your mistakes in order to apologize sincerely. Think about what you did wrong and hurt others. It would be better to recognize the mistake clearly and apologize in a targeted way. How to apologize? Sincere words 3 sincere apology sentences 1. Only when the sky forgives the faults of the dark clouds will the rainbow be beautiful; Shells forgive the offense of sand grains and get the legend of pearls; Dear, can you forgive me for making a beautiful marriage? 2, the year is approaching, the pressure suddenly increases, the mood is really annoying, the temper becomes smelly, and occasionally a little emotional, which is really not what I want. I couldn't help bumping into my friend, texting to apologize and looking forward to my friend Han Hai! 3. Abandon self-esteem, personality, stubbornness and pride, and beg for your understanding. The injury is really unintentional, and everything is because of love! Love you so much, care about you, become so stingy. Honey, will you forgive me? There is friendship between us, and there is a covenant between us. Because of my willfulness, it has added a scar to our friendship. I'm sorry, will you forgive me? My actions will prove my reformed heart. 5. People really know the value of possession only when they lose it. I don't want you to be valuable, let alone lose you. 6. There are two things in the world that are the most beautiful, one is lost, and the other is not yet obtained. One is your love, the other is forgiveness. 7. I feel guilty looking at your photo. I must study hard how to be a considerate person in the future. Forgive me. 8, I'm sorry, although I didn't meet you, but I have been thinking about you in my heart, I have never forgotten the time with you is so happy! 9. Maybe my willfulness hurt you accidentally, but I want you to know that I didn't mean to. For you, I will change. 10, my fault, I cut your heart, and at the same time, my heart is broken. Now, I use my sincere love to mend your wounds and sew up my soul. Please accept my sincerity.