In the workplace, how to tell whether you are incompetent or PUA?

Mainly depends on whether your own emotions are trapped in a state of being unable to extricate yourself all day. PUA in the workplace is often a set of thoughts that control you, so it is not the same thing. In short, when you meet such a boss or colleague in the workplace, you will feel useless, which is almost impossible for this normal person. Whoever has no shortcomings is useless. At this time, you may just meet PUA in the workplace. Pay attention to stay away from such people.

In addition, analyze whether this person is so good to you or whether everyone is so good to you. If the ability is not good, the feedback from colleagues is similar. If everything else is normal, just a colleague or boss thinks you are not good, or maybe it is the boss PUA. If you stay away, don't talk about it. Resignation is necessary.

Also, did this person interfere with your behavior outside of work? If it is a PUA in the workplace, besides work, he even points at your personal behavior, and all kinds of insulting words will be brought out intentionally or unintentionally. Therefore, we must be cautious in the workplace, improve our ability to constantly improve our colleagues, and also improve our understanding of people. Be highly vigilant and don't be used by some people with ulterior motives.