What should I do if I am rejected by a girl after confessing my love?

Hello, I am Zhou Xiaopeng, the director of Baihe.com Marriage and Love Research Institute and a psychological counselor. I use professional knowledge to solve complex emotional problems.

Pursuing a girl’s confession is an act full of romantic feelings, yet mixed with adventure and shyness. The premise is that you don't fall in love with someone when you see them, but you love them based on "sincerity and integrity."

Unfortunately, the confession failed, and the person was indulged in the feeling of loss, unable to extricate himself, or felt ashamed, angry, or pretended not to care and gave up easily. In fact, it is not a good experience for both men and women. The most important thing is to calm down and analyze the reasons for rejection.

The first thing to review is whether the time has not come or the situation is not right.

When you fall in love at first sight, the two parties may not necessarily see each other immediately. Although love sometimes seems to be cast by magic and comes in an instant, but two people must have a good impression of each other. Usually "time" ” occupies the vast majority of factors. When men and women interact with each other, girls often look at the subtleties. Your care and consideration are the most basic conditions. Once she is willing to accept your kindness or invitation, at least there will be something to play. Sometimes, confessing too quickly or too openly can lead to bad things. Even if you are rejected, you can still maintain the original interaction, and I believe it is still possible to continue pursuing it.

Sometimes the reason why a confession is rejected may be a test by the woman. She not only wants to test your true feelings for her, but also attempts to establish her correct position in your heart during the rejection process. It is extremely common for men and women to become casual friends in today's society. However, boys are prone to psychological thinking and often overestimate girls' kind responses and spoil them. Girls, on the other hand, often underestimate boys' love and enjoy care and love as a matter of course. Thoughtful; she uses rejection to temper passion and clarify the facts. Therefore, the relationship does not end abruptly because the confession fails, at least the opportunity still exists.

Carefully examine your own heart to see if your love for the other person is true and whether you can continue to give. This will also allow the girl you are pursuing to understand your demeanor and magnanimity, and increase your favorability. Exchanging time for space and getting closer can help you understand your thoughts better. I believe that the confession will come true again in the future.

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