Chatting with girls never returns my messages. What happened?

Some time ago, a brother said, "I get along well with a girl." I like her very much and intend to develop with her. " But I found that when I chatted with her, she sometimes replied slowly, and sometimes even deliberately did not reply. I saw that she sent a circle of friends and ignored me. Teacher Ye Zi, why is this, girl? Are you testing me? Still don't like me? "In fact, this problem needs specific analysis. If you are interested, please take a look with me.

If this girl is the girl you are after, then she deliberately does not reply to your message, or deliberately replies slowly, then her purpose is actually very simple, or she is not interested in you. It's normal to tell you this way.

In the process of pursuing girls, it is inevitable to hit a wall. Sometimes a girl doesn't like you at all, so it's normal that she doesn't want to reply to your message. If you still don't know how to restrain yourself and continue to send messages to girls at this time, then the girl's little dark room is waiting for you.

Either girls want to be reserved and use this method to test and test your sincerity. See if you really like her and have enough patience and gentleness to share with her. So this is the psychological idea that girls deliberately don't return your messages.

Maybe some brothers have something to say, so what should I do in this case? Don't worry, you can't come. Pick up your notebook and write it down.

1, you can send another message and do a test.

When the girl doesn't reply to your message, you can send another message every once in a while to test it. You can choose to send it immediately after sending the first message, or you can choose to send it a few hours later to see how the other person's attitude is.

Maybe some brothers have something to say, and she won't return my messages. Why should I send it to her again? The purpose of sending her a message again is actually to determine whether the other party really doesn't want to talk to you. If it takes a girl a few days to reply to your message, you should ask her if anything happened. Sometimes something really happens to a girl, and she ignores your information, so you need to ask her why.

2. The second is to turn the waiting time into the time for you to improve yourself.

Many brothers are always anxious in the face of this situation, so they can't do anything well, just thinking in their minds why girls are like this. I'm telling you, if you are like this, it means that you have feelings for girls, which will not play any role in your pursuit of girls.

What you have to do is not wait for her to reply to you, but use this waiting time to make yourself better. For example, during this time, you can read a book or watch some inspirational videos. You can also send some friends to show your personal value and see if girls will take the initiative to chat with you.

In fact, in general, sometimes girls disappear without replying to you. Don't be suspicious. There are many possibilities for not replying to your message. Maybe sometimes I don't pay attention, or there is something wrong with my mobile phone, and so on. Generally speaking, as long as a girl does not hate you, she will reply when you send her a message. After all, replying to messages is also a kind of respect for people. If the girl hasn't answered your message for a long time, you should ask her if anything happened, or think about whether you did something wrong.

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