After having an affair with his first love, he ignored me and didn't answer my phone. He said he would see me again when he had the chance, but generally he wouldn't.

In short, after the first love had an affair, he ignored me and didn't answer my phone. He said that if he had the chance to meet again, he wouldn't contact me at ordinary times. In fact, if it is an extramarital affair, it is normal for him to handle it this way, because after all, you both have your own marriages, which is really not suitable for them to meet again, or what is involved. This is irresponsible to both families, is a kind of blasphemy to both families, and is also his way of dealing with it. This is not good for both your families.