My girlfriend sent me a message asking me why, what is the subtext?

A woman asking "What are you doing" is equivalent to "I need you".

Is it because women are bored and need men to accompany them to pass the time? Or is it because women are sad and need men to be listeners? When a woman asks a man "What are you doing?", she has already explained the position of this man in her heart, at least it is trustworthy.

After determining the relationship between boyfriend and girlfriend

When the dust settles, women will still ask men, "What are you doing?" What is the reason?

1) Care about you

When a woman who has established a love relationship can't see each other, she urgently needs to grasp the current situation of each other. You can't help wanting to know the truth when you need it. This is a concern, but also a woman's protection of her love.

2) Women are insecure

Some men are particularly afraid of hearing their girlfriends ask them, "What are you doing?" Because when they care more than a certain degree, it will become a bondage to men.

No matter how much two people love each other, they can't always be together. Everyone needs their own living space, and things will happen that the other party doesn't know.

If a woman keeps asking what a man is doing, it shows that she is a particularly insecure person. She must hear or see what a man is doing to dispel her doubts.

It also shows that women are too idle to think about business.

3) You snubbed her.

Many women are embarrassed to say "I miss you", so when she misses you, she will ask "What are you doing?" Why didn't you call me for so long?