How to communicate after a successful blind date?

How to communicate after a successful blind date?

How to communicate after a successful blind date? Many people don't meet people they like in their daily lives or are urged to get married by their parents and relatives, and our circle is getting smaller and smaller. Therefore, we must master the skills of blind date in order to attract blind date objects in a short time. The following is the way to communicate after a successful blind date.

How to communicate after a successful blind date 1 1. The process of communication between men and women after a blind date

1, for more information.

Be sure to contact more after a blind date. At least one text message every day is a must. Of course, it's best not to call every day. It is enough to make a phone call every two days, otherwise it will be easily rejected. Besides, we just dated, and we haven't known each other that well. We may not know what to say on the phone, but it's different to chat on WeChat or in the evening. Even if we don't know each other, we can speak freely.

Step 2 surprise each other

Give each other some unexpected surprises, such as giving some lovely and intimate gifts, movie tickets and so on. Buy some snacks that the other person likes to eat, talk about life from work, and talk about the past to the present, so that each other can have a start of trust. This is a way for you to always care about her and care more about her daily life!

Second, how to skillfully promote the relationship between blind date objects

1, clearly indicating that you care about each other.

Many people chat as ordinary friends after they meet each other. After a while, they met several times like ordinary friends. There is no chance to be together like this.

Because blind date is a very clear behavior of finding an object, and everyone knows it.

Therefore, after you have dated each other several times, you need to make it clear that you care about each other and let them know that you have a good impression on each other. It is possible for you.

Step 2 call it ambiguity

If you chat online or make a phone call after the first blind date, the other party is willing to continue chatting with you, indicating that there is an opportunity. Try to call it ambiguous.

Take advantage of language, give each other a unique nickname, a intimate nickname, such as dear, baby, cute.

Through the ambiguity of appellation, you can get closer to each other, and then your relationship will be ambiguous when you meet next time. You can try to be ambiguous.

3. Body ambiguity

After several blind dates, you find that each other is very cooperative every time they come out, without making any excuses. Try to hold her hand when you are together, when crossing the street or at other suitable opportunities. If the other person doesn't break free, it means that the other person is interested in you. You can't be too vague about these limbs, you can only test them.

However, this temptation should not be too hasty. For example, when we meet for the second time, we will touch each other's heads, pat each other's shoulders and shake each other's hands. At this time, if the other party pushes you away, it will be very embarrassing, so it is very important to choose the right time.

When you have been in contact for a long time, you can try to find a suitable opportunity to express your love to the blind date directly and express your thoughts about falling in love with each other.

Generally speaking, it is easier to determine the relationship between men and women through blind date. Everyone knows it very well when dating, so through a period of contact, address performance and physical performance, if the other party does not refuse your little moves, it is likely to develop into a relationship of love, and then into a relationship of husband and wife.

How to communicate after a successful blind date 2 1, take the initiative to contact. Don't be afraid that your initiative will disgust her. If you don't take the initiative, she won't take the initiative, and her feelings are slowly fading. After the kiss, strike while the iron is hot if you like.

2. contact more. Be sure to contact more after a blind date. At least one text message every day is a must. Of course, it's best not to call every day. It is enough to make a phone call every two days, otherwise it will be easily rejected. Besides, we just dated, we haven't known each other that well, and we may not know what to say on the phone. Wechat or chatting at night is different, even if you don't know each other, you can speak freely.

3. Give small gifts. If you are familiar with each other, you can also give each other some small gifts, such as dolls and flowers. Most girls like flowers. However, when sending flowers, we must pay attention to the different meanings of the types and quantities of flowers, and there are tips for giving gifts.

It depends on the financial conditions of the girl's family. Giving her something that makes her feel a little expensive, but not too expensive, will increase the girl's financial burden. You should let her know that you love her, not with money. Of course, you can't send something too cheap and sentence you to death directly. People will think you are stingy.

4. Physical contact. Women are tactile animals, so take the initiative to shake hands. Another example is walking together and touching your arms, accidentally touching your hair, and touching your fingers when handing things. In short, there are many opportunities. But you must pretend that you didn't mean it. You don't have to apologize. Pretend nothing happened. Mastering this will soon break through the first line of defense and eliminate strangeness.

How to communicate after a successful blind date? 3 skills and methods of blind date.

1, meeting schedule

It is particularly important to control the time of blind date. It is best to meet for the first time in about two hours.

As for the time, it's best to have tea at 2~4 pm, which is not expensive, and let each other spend more time on communication. According to psychology, when men and women meet for the first time, the best time for them to talk is about 1 hour, because it is usually the first time to decide to meet again.

2. Location selection

First of all, you can't choose Mickey, KFC, or any park. If it was possible five or six years ago, but the times are progressing, the choice of location should not be ignored.

It is generally recommended to choose a coffee shop or a tea restaurant. On the one hand, the environment is good, on the other hand, the price will not be too high. If you order two cups of coffee and add a little dessert, 100 yuan will definitely be settled, and the small payment will also avoid embarrassment for both parties. Secondly, the blind date location must not be noisy and the seats should not be too close. For example, if you talk, everyone around you can hear you, which is silly. It's best to keep your distance, and everyone will feel natural.

3. How to say the opening remarks?

Many times, when men and women meet for the first time, they always like to ask: Have you eaten? Is it convenient to come over? In fact, this case should be placed in the third and fourth sentences. The first two sentences should be: Hello, nice to meet you, and you speak with a natural smile.

Don't underestimate this sentence, it is far warmer than words like "I have feelings for you". It's not that you can't say those words, just say some natural language on this occasion. Eating and convenient transportation are some conversation topics, which are not suitable for opening remarks.

4. Chatting skills are not cold.

Chatting will affect the emotional communication between the two sides and whether we will meet again next time. So, can we really chat? What principles should we pay attention to when chatting?

5. Leave your phone number at last.

The first blind date, regardless of whether you have any intention of further development with the other party, you should politely ask the other party for contact information. You don't have to call, but don't answer. Don't think that there is no idea anyway, forget it. If nothing else, another single friend hidden behind TA may be your MR/MS RIGHT! Don't cut the back road.

And when you leave your mobile phone, don't feel indifferent, just report it directly to the other party. The best way is to try to call your number to the other party's mobile phone and save it.

When both parties feel that they are having a good chat, they can also invite each other and look forward to the next meeting.

Finally, please remember all single friends that no one is "so bad that no one wants you". Only by getting better can you open the door for others to know you.

If you are not good enough and don't work hard enough, it is useless to see more skills and kiss more. I wish all single friends find true love soon.