How to test whether blind date men are reliable?

How to test whether blind date men are reliable?

How to test the reliability of blind date men? Nowadays, blind date has become a national topic. For various purposes, we have all experienced blind date more or less, and we don't know whether the other party is reliable or not. Let me come with you to see how to test whether the blind date is reliable.

How to test whether the blind date is unreliable 1 The best way to judge whether the other person is unreliable is to see if the other person knows how to respect others. If the blind date knows how to respect your opinion when communicating with you, it means that such a blind date is reliable. On the contrary, it means that the blind date is not reliable.

If your blind date always talks about how capable he is when dating you, as if you are climbing high, this time it means that your blind date is unreliable. Because a reliable blind date knows how to respect others and listen to their opinions and opinions. Under normal circumstances, when dating, you should say a word to make the other person respond to your words, instead of saying a word alone, and the other person can't get in a word at all. A truly reliable blind date will tell her own conditions and give you a reference. Then talk about what kind of partner you want. If it's appropriate, I will continue to communicate with you. If it's not suitable, I'll tell you directly that you two are not suitable. I think a truly reliable blind date will not waste other people's time, and a reliable blind date is also very polite.

I remember my friend met a particularly unreliable blind date. My friend's blind date is a mamao man, who thinks that everything my mother said is right. In the future, I must honor my mother with myself. Moreover, the money earned by my wife must be handed in, because my mother said that money is safest only in my own hands. But when I heard my friend talk about this situation, I felt that something wonderful had happened to him. Because it is difficult for such a man to find a partner in today's society.

I think there is another way to see if the blind date is reliable, that is, you feel relaxed when chatting with him. He is a reliable man. If you feel embarrassed when chatting with him and want to escape immediately, then he is an unreliable object. You'd better find someone who is comfortable with you.

How to test whether the blind date is reliable? 2. The first point: honesty is the mainstay.

If a person has no integrity, he will accomplish nothing. Even if you are in contact with people, you will stay away from them. In real life, cheating is the most common thing. When a man lies to you, even a small matter is enough to show that this person has a bad character. If the same thing happens to a woman, you may just be playing with you, so be sure to stay away from this kind of man.

The second point: clothes and clothes.

Men in fashionable clothes are more proud and don't like conflicts with others. I never hide what I say to women, but only some men do. Men who wear casual clothes are mature men, who like to meditate and react quickly, but their style is lazy and not suitable for dependence.

The third point: principles and bottom line

If a man has principles and a bottom line, he won't do anything wrong. In work and life, if you betray a friend or lover because of one thing, then he has no bottom line. Principles are not for others to see, but for yourself to abide by. A man with no bottom line principle, where did he come from?

The fourth point: filial piety

First of all, filial piety is China's traditional virtue. A person doesn't know how to be filial to his parents. It is conceivable that even if he muddies along in society, he will not achieve anything. A man should know how to be filial. If a woman finds a filial man, she must be happy in this family after marriage!

How to test blind date? Xiaomei recently dated a boy, who works in a public institution and has a well-off family.

The family advised her to hurry up when she met a nice boy.

She wondered herself: how can she be a good child?

"Decent job?"

"Will the parents of rich families be stronger?"

"They are abroad all the year round and won't interfere with you too much. And I have prepared another new house for you, with only a bowl of soup away from home. "

"He has a decent job. Will there be a sense of distance between us? "

"After marriage, your future father-in-law can also arrange an easy job for you."

From the material conditions alone, such a beautiful thing is really impeccable, but I can't feel Xiaomei's happiness. She also struggled for her future, and finally one day, she couldn't help but confide in me.

She said, "He is very kind to me. He will send me a message to be caring and attentive; He will pick me up from work and take me to dinner; He will take me to the movies; He will buy me water to drink; He will show me his fishing gear, SLR. He will do everything a boyfriend should do.

However, caring messages will not be available every day, but will be contacted once every two or three days, so that the contact will not be broken; Take me to dinner several times, all friends have dinner, which feels like a decoration; Every time I see a movie, it's Wednesday, because the movie ticket on Wednesday is only 9.9 yuan; Buying water has always been only bottled water; I haven't touched fishing gear or SLR, and I'm not interested in what I can see and touch. "

She doesn't know if this is love, and she's not sure if she can spend her life with such a person. After listening to her description, I probably understand the entanglement.

Xiaomei is actually not satisfied with this relationship. This boy can't give his boyfriend the care and love he deserves. But she is reluctant to let go of this relationship, because the boy seems to have a good family condition.

Boys, in fact, don't like Xiaomei that much, so why not set her free? Such a state of riding a donkey to find a horse, girl, you have been spared, you know?

People who hold hands all their lives can make a hasty decision as soon as they meet, and there are many ways to test, explore and get along. You can't deny that love at first sight, crackling love is unhappy. However, if you can think more, you can think more, which is also a guarantee for the future.

It's not good for your hot and cold man. Some people say, "when a man is hot and cold for you, maybe he is going through fire and water for others." I'm not advocating that both parties in love should stick together all the time. After all, we are all independent individuals and need independent space.

But like Xiaomei's' boyfriend', he won't keep in touch every day, but he won't keep out of touch. Rationality is well controlled. It can be seen that he is not fully involved in this relationship, and he is not so concerned about Xiaomei. He took Xiaomei to dinner, whether Xiaomei likes it or not. He chatted with his brothers, completely ignoring Xiaomei's feelings.

A man who cares about you is unacceptable. If you really like someone, you will really think of her instead of helping her make all the arrangements.

It's very tiring to go to work during the day. Why do you walk to his movies every Wednesday night? Wouldn't it be better to go out for dinner, shopping and watching movies on weekends? What he lacks is not a girlfriend, but a playmate who can accompany him to watch discounted movies.

In tea shops all over the street, it is a gentleman's behavior to buy a cup of hot tea for girls, let alone a girlfriend.

Although people who are willing to spend money for you may not love you, men who are unwilling to spend money for you are definitely not worth your consideration.

Men who show superiority in front of you are not accepted. Xiaomei's blind date boyfriend showed Xiaomei something she had never touched in her simple life, which is a good thing in itself. However, such superficial knowledge is only for you to see, not for you to play, but also to show his rich sense of superiority in material life.

With such a man, he wants to conquer, and you choose to surrender and gradually lose yourself. This is also an alternative contempt.

Correct love must be based on mutual respect, admiration and independence, and maintain a mutually beneficial relationship.

If it is only for money, such a man is unacceptable. Looking to the future, there is nothing wrong with finding yourself a man with good material conditions. But marriage can't put the cart before the horse, it must be based on the oath of mutual love. Good material conditions can only be regarded as icing on the cake, not as the primary condition for mate selection. Excellent personality and love for you are the first choice.

My former colleague, Sister Qin, once met a boy with good family conditions. It is said that on the second day of their blind date, the man took her to buy a diamond ring, which just scared my sister Qin away. She said that this man is either simple-minded or conceited. But either way, it is not suitable for him to step into marriage. His family has money. I married him, not money. Swearing is not rude, that's all.