What do girls think of men deliberately not returning your messages?

Matthew Hussey, a British love expert, said from the perspective of boys: Girls should be more active. If you are just waiting for a man to come to you, you are probably waiting for love rat. ...

Why do you say that?

Matthew Hirsch divided men into three types:

One is that a man will actively pursue a woman who attracts him. In this kind of man, some men will pursue all the girls who attract them. Most of these people are summarized as "love rat"

One kind is a man who will never take the initiative, commonly known as "fish-eyed man"

The other is a man waiting for the right time and the right object. What these men have in common is that they can't pick up girls.

Most of them don't dress themselves up, chat or provide emotional value. Most of them are cautious. Even if you like girls, you will observe whether it is easy to chase. So, if you are waiting for someone who can attract you, and this person will actively pursue your love, I can only tell you that the probability of this dream coming true is extremely low. If this happens, this person is likely to be love rat, just like the person mentioned in the question.

But the initiative I advocate is not initiative in the traditional sense, but that girls should take the initiative to guide boys to take the initiative. In other words, the correct "initiative" is that you are the initiator, but in the end, the implementer of this matter is the other party.

I believe many girls have this experience. Just added a boy, he took the initiative to chat with you almost every day, and disappeared after a while. Of course, the reason for this is not only that he cast a net in a large area, but that you were released. Another reason is that you are too passive.

Passive women sometimes really make people love, because passive women are sexy and cannot attract men's interest. Passive women make men a one-man show.

Most single girls are passive. Passive girls are mostly good girls. In her education and contact environment, "initiative will bring down the price", "sexiness is debauchery, which is a manifestation of self-love" and "you can only respond when a boy speaks well to you", all of which have deeply influenced her. Therefore, after taking the initiative for a period of time, the boy thinks that you are too difficult to chase, that you are boring, and that you seem not interested in him.

A man's attitude towards you depends on "your attraction" and "pursuing cost", if:

Your Attraction > Pursuing Cost Men will pursue you crazily.

"Your attraction"