A letter to my husband before the divorce.

My wife and husband are about to divorce, and there is still a lot to say before the divorce. Write a letter to my husband! Below I sorted out a letter my husband wrote to me before my divorce. Welcome to reading.

A letter from my husband before the divorce:

Please allow me to call you that for the last time. It's been ten years, but I didn't expect it. Husband? Will arouse infinite tenderness in my heart. Maybe you will disdain to read this last letter I wrote to you, maybe you will tear it to pieces in the middle. But I don't care anymore. Sitting in an empty house, I have nothing to say and I don't know where to start. I know it's impossible to talk to you face to face. I have to use this letter to move the big stone that has been weighing on my heart.

Today is Melissa Zhou's sixth birthday. I went to your house, sat there and saw your family together. I feel unspeakable pain in my heart. I used to be a family, and the relationship is relatively close. But now, I am an outsider. Seeing your indifference, I have no patience and my heart aches. I understand that our fate is over and the road has come to an end. In the ten years together, I don't want to say who has paid much for whom. I just want to say that when I 10 7 received your phone call saying that you had another woman, I was very scared and uneasy. It was a feeling of sudden collapse. Suddenly, I found that everything about you disappeared, and the world is no longer yours. It's like a dream. Wake up and find that everything that originally belonged to you has returned to nature, and you can't catch any trace. That kind of helplessness, that kind of pain, can not be described in words. I'm so scared, I want to save everything that belongs to me. I came to Wuwei for your theory in the most irrational way. When I first got on the bus, I only had hate in my heart, which was that kind of shame. I don't understand why you stabbed me in the chest and let that woman stab me at the same time. I don't understand the purpose of your calling her, but you know I've been competitive all my life. But I don't know what to say. After more than five hours' journey, I am much calmer. I just thought, since you love her, you should love her. I can't live without Melissa Zhou. I will give up everything here, and I will have a good life with Melissa Zhou. When I get home, I face your cold face for the first time, and my heart is so cold. It's been ten years, and this is the first time you've done this to me. I still questioned you everywhere as usual, but when that heartfelt fear came to me again, I was afraid. I knelt on the ground and begged you to forgive me. Please don't abandon me. I really want to save our feelings. I was so scared for the first time, so afraid of losing you, but I never found out why I was so scared. After quarreling again and again, I understand that I am pushing your heart out step by step. I don't know. I don't know what to do. I panicked. At that time, as long as someone gave me something or a hint, I would try to do it, no matter what. Wisdom? Or? Not wise? I don't want to lose you like this. I tried everything to save it. I did what the stupidest woman in the world would do. I want to threaten you with material things. I think, without these, women will not follow you, and you will come back to me. But in fact, I was wrong. I pushed you to that woman again. When you were in conflict, I took your mobile phone and followed you all the time. I said? I want to be your shadow and follow you all my life? I want to hold you tight, and I think maybe if you don't contact her, you will gradually forget her. Facts have proved that I was wrong again. You are like a handful of sand in my hand. The tighter you hold on, the faster the sand will leak through my fingers. Time and time again, you told me that she could not live without you; You told me that I can live without you, but she can't live without you. Honey, do you know how broken my heart was at that moment? Do you remember? That night, I sat on your lap face to face. Although I know in my heart that your heart no longer belongs to me, I still try to save your heart. I know what you are thinking and what you want to say. I blocked what you wanted to say to me with my mouth again and again. I'm scared, really, really scared. I said with tears, I will give you another one. I'd like to use a child if you like. However, I saw your tears flow down. I thought you had some change of heart. Unexpectedly, you said that she could not regenerate because her uterus was removed. Honey, do you know how much this hurts me? Seeing my heart broken, I want to step on it hard. I thought I was completely defeated, so I drafted a divorce agreement with you. After that, you go to sleep, and I'll pack my things bit by bit. I can't bear to part with this, and I can't bear to part with that. I want to take everything here, including you, including the children, and I want to take you far away so that the outside world won't interfere with us again. We will still be a happy family and live happily for a lifetime. I woke you up the next morning. You saw the big bags I packed, but I didn't expect your reaction to be so great. I think I have hope, and I am waiting. Later, your father and your sister came. The first time I knelt in front of your father and sincerely begged him to save your heart, but you still left angrily. Yes, you can treat me as your lover. At noon, you took me to Daoxiao noodles, and I was deeply moved. I think, in fact, you still love me You left like a plague, and I lay in bed in a daze, stinging in my heart. I think if you look down on me, you will leave me. I will cheer up and return to my original self. I struggled and took a bath. When the water rushed down, I understood that I was going to fight for it. After all, we have ten emotional foundations, and I will win. With this belief, I temporarily put away my heartbreak, impatience and fear. I don't know what I will face next, but I will go all out. I went to the store, and soon after, you came. Maybe you saw my cheers and you weren't so afraid of me at noon. The next morning, you suddenly told me that you were going to teach me how to drive. While I am happy, I have a particularly bad feeling that you will leave me. When I was trying to learn to drive, I was thinking about how to make you give up this idea. In the evening, we have dinner together, and you are in a good mood. I told you all the consequences of running away from home and my determination. I will always wait for you. I finally persuaded you to go to Kowloon Port at night. That's when you are most relaxed. I hold your hand tightly and secretly swear that I will cherish it and hold it tightly. They ordered a song for you. Hope? Mr. Love? Miss 10 thousand years, really, I was so moved at that time. If it is really ten thousand years, I will cherish every minute to fall in love again alone. Maybe when a treasure is around you for a long time, so that it is ignored, others find it and take it away, you will understand how important it is to you. So you care so much about this treasure. It turns out that you can only have one treasure in your life. The next day, I put on makeup and changed my hairstyle. I invited you to lunch and bought you a rose. I told everyone that from today on, I will chase you, and I will catch up with you. They all cheered for me. I think it's a orchid, and the yellow leaves have become beautiful. That was 14, remember? I know, okay? A lot of words will be lost? This sentence, perhaps at the dinner table, I said something you didn't like to hear, which changed your attitude towards me a lot. Only then did I understand that love can't come. Actually, I'm still trying. I set a deadline for our marriage, 1 1 month 1 day, which is tantamount to death for me, but I think maybe you will change in the remaining fifteen days. Later, Yan Xu came to see you. You told me again and again, give me a break, give me a break in this case, but husband, I just want to save my lost love. Is this also wrong? Do you think I will feel better when I see your cold eyes and cold words? It turns out that my life is not like this. Originally, I had a husband who loved me, a smart and lovely daughter, a warm home, and a shop that didn't make much money but got by. But all of a sudden, all this doesn't belong to me, just because a woman appeared. You said you should bring her happiness because she is too poor. But have you ever thought? Love comes at a price. You do not hesitate to ruin a complete home, the happiness of a woman who has lived with you for ten years, and the desire of a six-year-old child to be with his parents, just to fulfill your promise to her. This price is too high. Quarrel again and again, hurt each other again and again, let me get up again and again in autumn. Why do I still hate you now? By rights, I should hate your guts. By rights, I should disdain to look at your cold face. You can beat the representative I gave you. For life? Dear Ross, you can throw me ten dollars before having sex with me and take it away, saying that I am only worth fifty cents. You can trample on my self-esteem and self-confidence for more than 30 years, and I can kneel down to beg for mercy at any time. Just, I beg you, don't trample on my feelings again. My feelings for you are real and I don't want to leave you. I really love you. Today, I dare to face up to my feelings Today, I understand that what I really want is you, your daughter, your home, everything that can bring me warmth.

I lost in this battle, and I lost miserably?

Melissa Zhou followed me for four days. At 9: 30 that night on the 19th, you brought her to me. I was really grateful to you. I didn't expect the child to accompany me for four days, and one more day would mean more. In these four days, I gave all my maternal love and left nothing behind. I wonder if she will be with me next second. In these four days, almost the whole night, I sat beside Melissa Zhou, staring at her and touching her little face from time to time. This is a mother's reluctance to her children. For these stores, I neglected a lot, your feelings, the feelings of children. Now, when I want to ignore everything and cherish you wholeheartedly, I find that I have no such right. I want her to be the happiest little princess in the world. I don't want any harm to her. I don't want her to be the next girl or the next girl because of us. She is wise. I don't want my baby to be upset because of us, so that his mind is distorted. The child is innocent. Why should children bear the fault of adults? Children can't live without fatherly love and maternal love, which is irreplaceable by anyone. So I said yesterday that I hope Melissa Zhou has a complete family. You may not love me or hate me, but I only ask you not to go too far. Go home every night and let Melissa Zhou see that there are parents who love her at home. However, when you left last night, I thought maybe you would go to the store to sleep. I thought maybe you would go to the hotel for one night. You can avoid me like this, but have you ever thought about children? Your own child. I can tolerate your indifference to me, and I can almost convince myself to admit the existence of that woman, just to maintain a seemingly complete home, just to make Melissa Zhou's heart no longer hurt. I want to gamble on the happiness of the rest of my life, just to give Melissa Zhou a chance. I don't want her to lose to other children before running. I don't want her to think only about why other children have a father's love and a mother's love, and all she gets is incompleteness. None of us can be too selfish.

I don't know what kind of mood you are in to see here. Whether you hate me or blame me. I don't want to regret it in the future, so I wrote the above to you. You have your decision, and I have mine. It's been ten years, will you give me the freedom to make the final decision?

XXX

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A letter to my husband before the divorce. Dear husband:

Let me call you dear again, because I once loved you deeply. I told you, you are important to me, even more important than my son. You smiled indifferently, I know you don't believe me. But it's true. I can give my life for you.

? Divorce? In the past three years, this word has been put forward many times among us. Three years ago, when I learned that you had a woman outside, my heart ached. Do you believe that I have been in such pain? You said that the mistakes you made were only those made by men, and you would change them slowly. This change is three years. I'm ready to forgive you. Actually, it's impossible for you? Forgive? This word, because you never think you are not wrong, that's right. But what I can't let go of most is that during the Spring Festival three years ago, you and that woman went back to their hometown and you stayed there for twenty days. You haven't called me or my son for twenty days. On New Year's Eve, I called you countless times, but? My son asked me again and again? I miss dad, when will he come back? I think maybe the phone is out of service. In these twenty days, I am full of worries about you, and even wonder if anything will happen to you. Full of ideas. At that time, missing was also a kind of happiness for me. But who knows, in every night when I can't sleep because of worry and missing, you have an affair with her? Looking forward to, looking forward to, finally, you came back, I almost cried with joy, because you came back safely and healthily. But I saw you wearing that woman's sweater (I didn't know they were spending the Spring Festival together). Our divorce war has also begun. You take that woman out for the night again and again, and come home wearing the clothes that she bought (with your money, of course). You said that no woman has ever been so kind to you. You said she was gentle, and you said she would marry you. I said? Let's divorce. ? You don't know. You said you'd have time, and you'd end it. I waited for three years, which was a terrible three years. Last August, after we had another quarrel because you were wearing the clothes she bought, you said it was over. I'm going to forget everything and continue to live with you. But just a few days ago, I heard that you spent the Spring Festival together, and my heart still hurts like that. I ask you: Why? What were you thinking? How can your parents accept it? I just want to hear you say, well, I was wrong, and now I regret it. ? But no, you're angry, angry at my questioning, don't you think? It is all over now. Why do you bring this up? For you, this may be the past, but you know what? For me, this is a pain in my heart forever. What do you say? It's not my fault. I have another woman because you are not gentle enough. ? What is tenderness? Is that woman's sweet talk (coaxing you into money) gentle? We have been together for more than ten years. How many times have you washed clothes? You hurt me for so many years, but you didn't even wash your socks. You've never even touched the ground (maybe once, but never twice).

I always see you sitting there playing computer games when I get off work by bike from ten miles away every day. When the water pipe cracked and leaked, my son asked me to repair it, but you were indifferent; I advise you not to smoke at home, so you must promise to fry melon seeds for you. We build a house, you rest at home, I let you drink water to change bricks, you said you went home on holiday, let me go? Sometimes I get angry when I meet these times. You said I was not gentle enough, I admit it. You called me stupid and corny. I admit that. Not long after we met, I didn't give up when you wanted to spend 100 yuan to buy me a dress. I just bought one from 30 yuan. You call me stupid?

Yes, I'm not gentle enough, I'm stupid, and I'm corny, so you have to go out and find another woman. It's not your fault to find another woman. Besides, isn't it over now? At noon the day before yesterday, you received a phone call. Listening to your flustered tone, I asked, who is it? You said it was XXX's, and I said, how do you hear women's voices? (Actually, I didn't hear you clearly.) You said that YYY's daughter called her father's cell phone and asked you to contact XXX's shop to work. So we quarreled again. At night, when we lie down, I want you to hug me. I want you to save my strength, but you say I don't trust you and ignore you. I asked: Don't you have feelings for me? You say yes, I say? Me too. We will go through the formalities tomorrow. ? You said yes.

I went to the relevant departments for consultation yesterday. They don't go to work on Sunday, so let me go on Monday. Stop writing, you will go home soon.

XXX

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A letter from my husband before the divorce:

Please allow me to call you that for the last time. In the near future, maybe another woman will call you so soon. I wrote this letter to you in tears at home. I have been listening to the theme of Song Like fog, rain and wind << Have you loved me >> Sad music hangs over me, and my sad mood is buried in sad tunes.

You repeatedly forced me to divorce you as soon as possible. I don't know if you have found someone outside, or if you are afraid that I will soon get a house where I can live. We have been married for almost three years and have rented a house outside for three years. Seeing that I finally have my own home, it is out of control. From acquaintance to love, from love to marriage, from marriage to childbirth, from childbirth to divorce now.

I'm married, no wedding car, no formal wedding. In order to save money, I only chose to buy one of the three kinds of gold that girls usually want, and I didn't even buy a good ring. People wear platinum, so I lingered for a long time and finally chose a palladium one. We don't have a new house. We wanted to rent a decent one even if we rented one! In order to save money, I gave up renting a good house in 600 yuan and only chose to rent the one in 400 yuan. In order to save money, I took the bride's makeup home by bus, and I was reluctant to take a taxi.