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You are a teacher, and it feels better to communicate.

You can also feel that the crux of the problem lies in being a father. There are so many reasons for divorce that it is difficult to judge whether it is right or wrong. Since it is a fact, there is no need to delve into it.

It is inevitable that your son will have an opinion of you, and every child will react in this situation.

However, the father's handling method aggravated this situation. Adults are always mainly responsible for such things, please allow me to say so.

I think you should convince your husband first, no matter what means, to make him give up interfering with your idea by violent means. You can be emotional, you can even threaten, of course, you should be measured, that is to say, try to reach an agreement between husband and wife and be kind to children. I think this is also very difficult to do, so you should be more wronged and find some good friends of your husband to convince him.

As for this child, I think he has misunderstood you and has a biased view of family. You must forgive him and understand him. I think you still want to take care of the children, why don't you solve it yourself? Take the initiative to find his ex-wife, both women, and their respective sufferings should be understandable. Persuade her and try to make her your confidant. I hope you show more sincerity, suffer more grievances and put the overall situation first. If you have the opportunity to get close to your child, sit together and have a good talk, let him realize that you are really good to him, protect him and try to give him a warm family. Even if you can't solve it for a while, he will be grateful to you for a long time.

Finally, please don't bring emotions into the classroom, or is it inappropriate to deal with family disputes with your patience with students?