What if my wife doesn't want to talk to me?

My wife doesn't care about your performance. You sent her a message, but she didn't bother to reply to you. Even sometimes chatting is a reply in a few words, and there is no enthusiasm. Sometimes you are full of blood and want to invite her out for a walk, but she thinks you are bored and doesn't want to move at all. You want to care about her life or work, but you just say it lazily. You can no longer feel her dependence on you before, and you don't need your feeling all the time. What if my wife doesn't want to talk to me? 1. Find the reason from yourself first. When your wife doesn't want to talk to you, first think about whether she did something wrong, or what she asked her to do, or because her tone of voice is bad. In short, first find the reason from herself and find the right reason to solve the problem. I lose my temper with you easily. When everyone is in a bad mood, there are always some ways to vent their unhappiness. But even such a woman who loves you will not always lose her temper with you, but will also restrain her emotions, or just tell you that she is unhappy; If she always loses her temper with you easily, she just doesn't like everything about you, thinks everything you do together makes her disgusted, but just doesn't want to talk to you. 3, know how to observe the state of his wife, carefully observe some subtle changes in his wife, such as whether there are changes at work, or other factors. Then, I will work hard and take the initiative to undertake the housework at home. When I see that my wife's ingxu is a little better, I can choose a suitable time to sit down face to face with my wife, communicate well and open her heart. Women's moods are always changeable. Don't worry about what my wife will do if she doesn't want to talk to me, and don't be afraid if she doesn't love you. Pay more attention to your wife, find out her inner thoughts, and always take care of her emotions, so there will be no big problem. What if my wife doesn't want to talk to me? 2 1. Comfort her more and apologize to her. When your wife ignores you, you must apologize to her immediately, because you must have done something yourself at this time, which caused your wife to ignore you, so the first thing to do is to apologize to your wife first. When you find that your wife is not angry or ignores you, apologize to her at the first time instead of being indifferent for a long time, which may make her more and more angry or sad. You don't love her anymore, and you don't even comfort her or apologize to her, so you can apologize to your wife in a gentle and sincere tone, using some intimate titles, such as "Baby, I was wrong". "Sorry, wife, please forgive me." These words of apology, so when you ask your wife to ignore you, you should apologize first, then pester her to forgive you, and don't be angry again. 2, don't deliberately cold war when your wife is angry, don't be angry with her at the same time. Never ignore him. If you have a cold war with him, leave him alone. Please don't do this. Because over time, if you keep doing this, your feelings will definitely change, which is likely to lead to your division. If your wife loves you at this time, she will take the initiative to find you. Although she has taken the initiative to ask you to please you, she must be very disappointed in her heart, because as her husband, you have been afraid to ask her for an apology, so she will hide these sad feelings in her heart. However, if you really love your wife, you will definitely apologize to her, not deliberately cold war. If you have a cold war with her at this time, it is obvious to ask yourself if you really love your wife. If not, please don't hurt her, okay? If so, apologize to her and comfort your wife. We can't have a cold war, so what should we do? That is to coax her. , coax her, coax her. Yes, it's such a simple thing. If the wife is angry, of course she should be coaxed. Whether she is angry with you for something else, sad or in a bad mood, you should coax her at this time. Anyway, it's just coaxing 3. Create a romantic atmosphere when your wife feels unhappy or doesn't want to talk to you. You can prepare something romantic for her. If your anniversary is coming, you can arrange a candlelight dinner at home. But if you cook by yourself, you will be more sincere. Put some candles, buy some roses and put your wedding photos. You can give her a surprise when she comes back. Or take your wife out to play, take her for a ride, or go to an amusement park or something. Buy him something she wants to eat or what he wants to eat, so that your wife won't be so angry. 4. Communicate well together. Of course, communication between husband and wife is the most important. When there are contradictions and differences, we must communicate more. Smelly husband, you should take the initiative to apologize to your wife, then communicate with her and say what you did to make her feel unhappy, and promise that next time, you will definitely get rid of this problem. If there is any contradiction between husband and wife, don't keep it in your heart. Speak out boldly and communicate your inner thoughts with each other. If you keep these troubles in your heart, it will affect your love life. What should I do if my wife and I don't talk after quarreling? We can make her happy. We can take a step back to soften the relationship. We can say some humorous words to ease the atmosphere. Two people who can become husband and wife because they get along with each other all the year round must have deep feelings, and each should cherish their feelings for the other. Then, comparing two stable people, how to recover after quarreling is the way. For the man, this side is definitely relative to the active side. At this time, it is necessary to formulate methods and plans according to the wife's personality. You can start with Doby's wife. When you're in a good mood, what's the knot will naturally open. Or take a step back and take the initiative to talk to your wife. At this time, if you take a step back, he will step back, and then you two will naturally make up. Or if you are humorous enough, you can say something against easing the atmosphere, and then slowly admit your mistake when the atmosphere eases, even if it is not your fault. But girls will want you to admit your mistake first. After you admit your mistake, he will be relatively soft, and it is natural for both sides to admit their mistakes and make up. 1, there are many ways to make your wife happy. For example, buying gifts to make your wife materially happy, of course, is based on a stable material foundation. Otherwise, otherwise, coaxing your wife once may make your wallet bleed profusely. Of course, you can also take your wife out to play or something, but only if your wife is still willing to talk to you. If your wife doesn't listen to anything you say, no matter what you say. 2. You can take a step back to soften the relationship, or if the relationship between two people is very anxious, you can take a step back and talk to him and soften your attitude first. Admit your mistake to the girl first. At this time, girls will also reflect on your mistakes. Is it her own fault? When two people calm down and reflect on their mistakes, it will be much easier to make up for them at this time. You give him a good attitude. Then you should know your mistake from him. But he made it clear why this quarrel happened. What is the cause of the quarrel? At this time, the woman will of course realize that she is also wrong. After two people have confessed, it is not a problem to make up again. 3. You can say something humorous, of course, if you are humorous in real life. You can also say something when the relationship is deadlocked. Funny things to ease the atmosphere, funny words. When your wife can't resist the temptation of your jokes and smiles. The settlement plan is half successful. The two men sat quietly on the sofa and began to reflect on their problems. After apologizing to each other and reflecting on their mistakes, they began to feel that they had quarreled over these things for their own reasons. Feel sorry for each other, and then laugh at some of your jokes. This quarrel will be solved perfectly. My wife doesn't talk and ignores me. 1. Find the reason from herself first. When the wife doesn't take care of herself, look for reasons from herself first. Is it because she didn't follow the family rules set by her wife? Or is it because you have a bad tone? Or did you unintentionally hurt your wife? Still didn't swipe your card, so you're angry? In short, it is to carefully find the reason from yourself first. 2. Observe the wife's mood. When a wife ignores herself, she should pay attention to some subtle changes, including whether there is any change in the commuting time, whether it is because the workload in the class is heavy and she is too tired to speak, or because of other factors. I believe that if you observe your wife so carefully, your wife may talk to you. 3, looking for a wife's colleague to understand the situation When the wife ignores herself, you can find a good colleague in the wife's class to attack by innuendo, ask the wife how the class is, whether the workload has increased recently, and so on. People always talk to others when they are in a bad mood, so you will definitely find useful information for you. 4. Take the initiative to do housework. When your wife ignores you, you should take the initiative to undertake some housework activities at home, and do housework when your wife is in front of you. Although, you don't usually do it, because you are not good at it. Sometimes, when you do housework, you will make some jokes in front of your wife. Will her smile create conditions for your next communication? 5. Communication Pick a time that is suitable for both of us, then find a good place or home, sit down face to face with your wife, communicate well, pay attention to your attitude, and be sure to open your wife's heart. This is what a qualified husband should do. 6. Husband and wife need to understand each other. In the marriage life, the husband and wife are together, living a life, and enjoying the dull and happy life. What are the problems between husband and wife? When encountering some minor problems, one party should first take a warning, understand each other and consider the problem from the other's standpoint, so that the husband and wife can live in harmony and live a rich life.