The man didn't put down your performance.

Men don't let go of your performance: active care, keeping in touch, listening, physical contact, etc.

1. Take the initiative to care: He will take the initiative to care about your life, ask about your recent situation and pay attention to your physical health and emotional changes. This concern may be manifested in phone calls, text messages or face-to-face conversations.

2. Keep in touch: He will always keep in touch with you, share his life, and try to close the distance. This connection may include daily greetings, sharing interesting things or asking for your advice.

3. Listen: He will listen carefully to your thoughts and feelings, care about your needs and give patient answers to your questions. This kind of listening shows his respect and attention to you.

4. Physical contact: Without letting you go, he may look for opportunities to make physical contact with you, such as hugging and patting you on the shoulder. This kind of contact expresses his love and warmth for you.

A man lets go of a person's performance

1. Reduce contact: He no longer keeps in touch with you frequently, and may gradually reduce telephone calls, text messages and face-to-face conversations. This does not mean that he no longer cares about you, but that he has accepted the status quo of your relationship.

2. Focus on his own life: He will devote more energy to his life and work and pursue his interests and goals. This shows that he has begun to adapt to life without you and strive to make himself better.

3. Emotional withdrawal: He no longer reacts strongly to your life and emotional fluctuations. When you are in trouble, he may give you care and advice, but he will no longer show excessive worry and tension.

4. Physical distance: He may gradually pull away from your body to avoid too much intimate contact. This change does not necessarily mean that he no longer has feelings for you, but that he realizes that the relationship between you needs to be repositioned.