There is a boy beside me now. If I text in front of him, he will ask me to show him what it is, or call him, and he will ask who it is. ...

It shows that this boy is too insecure. Lack of self-confidence leads to lack of self-esteem, so he doesn't respect you. This boy's typical heart is not mature enough, and the amplification of small things will have an impact on your future. Boys like you can't stand on their own feet in the future, and you will feel insecure.