My mother is an affectionate love rat.

Fang's most annoying person is his own mother.

one

My name is Fang. I was born in 199 1 at the foot of Songshan Mountain, a small town in Dengfeng, Henan, and lived in an unhappy family. All the misfortunes in this family are due to Yan Qinghe.

Yan Qinghe is my mother.

According to relatives and friends, Yan Qinghe was a great beauty when he was young. My father never forgot her when he met her on a blind date. Yan Qinghe is three years older than my father. She loves beauty and is proud. She never looks at my father. Relatives and friends don't like Yan Qinghe, but my dad is blinded by lard and wants to marry Yan Qinghe.

Grandpa saw the way Yan Qinghe and my dad looked at Yan Qinghe, so he sighed and said to his grandmother, "In the future, you will suffer."

It is really a prophecy.

After Yan Qinghe got married, my father set up another door opposite his grandparents' house. In order to please Yan Qinghe, he bought her all kinds of fashionable clothes and jewelry, and even spent two months' salary to buy Yan Qinghe a small brooch. However, Yan Qinghe was not moved at all.

Dad used to take over from grandpa and work in a state-owned factory. After getting married, he quit his job and drove a truck to dress up Yan Qinghe and have fun. I was over six years old at that time. I remember that every time my dad came back from the car, whether in winter or summer, he must have walked into the house barefoot in a vest. Yan Qinghe's red mouth flew up and down and shouted, "You're back from Saturn? Dirty! "

At the request of Yan Qinghe, he must take a bath before eating. I was particularly afraid that my dad would come back from the car. As soon as he comes back, I will have to wait for a long time to eat. Just after dinner, Yan Qinghe must have said, "Wen-ting fang! How many times have I told you, can you have some? "

Every time, my dad explained while picking rice: "I'm in a hurry, I haven't eaten for a day, and I'm hungry." Yan Qinghe scolded again: "Are you starving? Shout shout ... "

However, the more she scolded, the happier my father laughed.

The world of adults is so strange. However, the neglect and beatings I encountered were all my personal feelings. On the first day of primary school, I peed in bed, and Yan Qinghe slipped me out of bed in the cold winter, grabbing the sticks and smoking. After being beaten by her, I had a high fever. According to my elder sister-in-law, from then on, grandma took care of me with all her strength. At that time, Yan Qinghe yelled at her grandmother in disgust: "Take it away! Take it away quickly! "

After I lived with my grandmother, she drove me to and from school, made me lunch and attended the parent-teacher conference. Yan Qinghe only knows how to read romance novels with red nails.

Yan Qing and my dad have been quarreling and talking about divorce. Grandpa has always advocated divorce. After seeing my dad's spineless appearance, he fell ill and fell on the bed. Uncle also waved his hand: "We can't control two enemies, and we don't want to control them."

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Although relatives and friends hate Yan Qinghe and I am often scolded by her, Yan Qinghe is really different from ordinary women. She is very talented in literature and art.

Once, she argued with my dad to learn the electronic piano, saying that she could teach me. When the electronic piano was just bought, she pointed at the staff all day and scolded: "These bean sprouts really understand. Why don't they know me? " Several neighbors complained to me that Yan Qinghe felt uncomfortable playing cotton at home every day, but he was afraid to tell Yan Qinghe that he was not to be taunted.

Neighbors talk too much. I am a boy. I want noodles. Go home and tell my dad. When Yan Qinghe learned that, his carefully painted eyebrows immediately twisted into two caterpillars and shouted at the top of his lungs, "I can play whenever I want." You go and tell them to put cotton in their ears and I will listen to them if I don't play in the future. " My dad said cautiously, "Why don't we play less? ! "Yan Qinghe sneered at my dad's suggestion:" Look at your little promise! "

After a few months, she can play music skillfully. Several times, I saw Yan Qinghe playing her favorite Irish Thrushcross, humming and playing proudly, while my father sat there and hit her with his hand. What a delightful look!

Yan Qinghe also loves to sing Henan Opera. At the beginning of 2000, I played games in the game room. The beautiful lady and sister of the neighbor's house led a group of friends and shouted at me: "Square, square, go and see, Yanqing River is famous!" " I quickly followed my friends to the Cultural Square. As soon as I arrived at the Cultural Square, I saw a large group of people cheering around the stage.

I was puzzled. I glanced around and saw the performance card: "Playing Golden Branch" Princess Shengping-Yanqing River. This woman is fat and ugly, and she actually staged Princess Shengping on stage, and there are so many people watching! What a pity!

After this scene, Yan Qinghe got angry and began to perform with a group of men and women. My dad's house finally stopped. Grandma is a cowardly person, always worried that my father will get divorced, so I don't have a complete family. Since Yan Qinghe began to sing, grandma has relaxed a lot and told me several times, "Your mother is finally not divorced, but your family is saved."

In order to comfort grandma, I didn't expose her. Because, I found out, Yan Qinghe has secrets.

Once, the school had to pay the information fee, so I went to my dad to get the money. I found the atmosphere was wrong as soon as I entered the door. Yan Qinghe sat in front of the dresser, drawing a face. My father sat on the sofa next to him, sulking, and said in a pleading tone, "Can you not go?" The children are so old, can't our family of three have a good life? "

YanQingHe turned his head, face powder uneven. He shot at my dad with a ferocious face: "Will you come to me again?" What did you say before? I tell you, if you dare to stop me, I will die! "

Seeing this scene, I finally couldn't help it at the age of 9. I rushed in and shouted, "Get out if you want!" My eyes hurt when I shout out what I'm holding in my heart. I am very wronged, for myself and for my father.

YanQingHe leng for two seconds, and then grabbed a comb and threw it at me. The comb missed me. My dad got up, kicked my ass and pushed me out of the door: "Hurry up, smelly boy, it's none of your business!" " "

I slammed the door angrily and left. Behind him, is Yan Qinghe sharp cry bristle. That bitch is performing again.

That day, I wandered alone in the street for a long time, and my neighbors' grandparents talked to me, but I ignored them. Later, I watched Yan Qinghe walking towards the railway station from a distance, pedaling high heels and twisting his fat waist. She is wearing a brooch on her chest, which is very shiny.

When I came back in the evening, Yan Qinghe looked like a slouches, and his eyes were swollen like peaches. She always does. On a fixed day every month, she will go to the provincial capital in a special grand way and go alone. When I come back at night, I will be swept off my feet. When I meet my dad at home, I will have another big fight.

After Yan Qinghe's acting became popular, rumors spread that Yan Qinghe disliked my dad when he knew rich people outside; Some people say that they saw Yan Qinghe dating a tall and handsome man and spread it with his nose and eyes. What I know is that in those days, Yan Qinghe did ask my dad for divorce many times.

I was wronged when I heard rumors outside and was laughed at by my friends. One day I went back to my dad's house and ran into Yan Qinghe's divorce. My dad asked Yan Qinghe to bow his head and mock him. I really can't stand it. I grabbed this bitch by the neck and told her to fuck off, but my dad slapped me in the face: "The rumor about your mother outside, you are her son, and you are following her!" " Young, don't worry about adults! "

At that moment, I really felt that my dad deserved to be bullied by Yan Qinghe over the years.

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My hatred for Yan Qinghe began from that moment.

Yan Qinghe ignored his family and children and ruined my father, a 24-year-old man with filial piety. What a bitch!

200 1 After the Spring Festival, Yan Qinghe finally divorced my father. She didn't ask for my custody. On the day she left home, her father sat on the ground drinking wine and said nothing; Grandma is wiping her tears. She came to hug me, and I dodged and looked at her coldly. She wiped her tears, packed some clothes, pinned a brooch, carried an electronic organ and left directly.

After she left, my father loved to drink and cried when he was drunk, and my grandmother secretly wiped her tears.

Then Yan Qinghe came to me, and I refused. My grandparents will pick me up to play, and Yan Qinghe will "happen" to go home. I'll leave as soon as she comes back.

I will never forgive her for abandoning her husband and children.

In 2004, my dad was driving at night and had an accident on the expressway, and he died on the spot. Grandma grew old all night.

At my father's funeral, relatives and friends were complaining about Yan Qinghe's crimes. Even several cousins who are several years older than me can't help complaining about Yan Qinghe: "My second uncle is handsome, nice and can make money. Why do you have to marry a demon like Yan Qinghe? "

Yes, if it weren't for Yan Qinghe, my dad wouldn't drive a van; If it weren't for the divorce, my dad wouldn't drink; If it weren't for Yan Qinghe, my dad wouldn't have died!

On the day of my dad's funeral, Yan Qinghe came with the brooch my dad bought for her pinned to his chest! No sooner had she arrived than her aunt menstruation stopped her at the door. But who is Yan Qinghe? She bumped her head against the door. Cousin immediately rushed over to form a human wall to stop her. Finally, grandma said, let her in.

As soon as Yan Qinghe came in, he threw himself on my dad's crystal coffin and cried and shouted, "Wen Ting, don't hate me ..." My relatives and friends watched her acting coldly.

After the hearse came, my uncle wanted to drag my dad to be cremated, and Yan Qinghe went crazy again. Despite everyone's obstruction, he opened the coffin and took off the brooch and pinned it on my dad's chest. Uncle threw her over and scolded, "Are you good enough for him? Would he have died if it weren't for you? " In Dai Xiao, she came at me and tried to put her arms around me. I dodged and she closed her eyes. I cried out in pain, "Get out!" Do not let me see you again! "

I hate her. She didn't give me love and killed my father. That day, everyone was very busy, and she was the only one sitting in the corner, crying secretly.

After my dad's first seven games, Yan Qinghe came. She wants to take me to live with her. Delusion! Since then, she will come to grandma's house every once in a while, and I always avoid it.

One day in 2006, Yan Qinghe came again. I didn't shy away that day. The atmosphere was awkward. She asked me about my study as before, and I ignored her at all. Grandma had to answer for me and hesitated to say to me, "Your mother wants to talk to you." I'm bored: "tell me what's going on!" "

Yanqing lowered her head and didn't look at me. He took the bag around in his hand, hesitated for a moment and said, "Let your grandmother tell you?" Grinding! I got up to go again, and she quickly grabbed me. As soon as I stared, she let go. Grandma said, "Your mother is getting married next month. Would you please take a day off? "

I exploded as soon as I heard it: "Do you still have face?" Yan Qinghe quickly explained: "No, Le, listen to me …" My grandmother explained first: "Son, you are the only mother, she is the only one."

Out of anger! I ignored grandma's stop, grabbed the collar of her clothes and threw her out of the house: "Yan Qinghe, I don't care which bastard you want to marry." If you come back to harass me and my grandmother again, I will chop you to death! "

However, this shameless woman, despite my threats and warnings, still comes once every once in a while. Grandma always advised me: "Don't treat your mother like this, it's not easy for her."

My grandmother must be confused, she actually speaks for this woman.

four

I feel like an orphan when I have parents. After my father died, I was completely alone. No one raised or taught them, and they made trouble at school all day. I did badly in the college entrance examination in 2009. I don't want to go to college either. I just wanted to earn money early to support my grandmother. But that smelly woman in Yanqing River came again. She wouldn't give me money to go back to school and let me go to college.

She wants me to study, but I don't want to! I went my own way and killed Shenzhen. I feel at home outside. The only thing I don't feel at ease is my grandmother. I have to call her every few days. Every time on the phone, grandma always said, "after you left, your mother often came to see me and asked for your news ... she missed you very much." Please give her a call. "

After grandma said too much, I finally couldn't help getting angry with grandma on the phone: "She killed my dad, so you forgot to care about me since childhood?" And speak for her! "Grandma said with a sigh. I feel that grandma has something to say, but I don't know where to start. Later, she mentioned Yan Qinghe on the phone, so I took care of it first.

Before the spring festival of 20 13, I counted the money I earned in these three years and prepared to decorate my grandmother's old house. When I got home, the old house was completely new! Grandma happily told me that Yan Qinghe found an engineering team to help rebuild the house. This bitch really has ulterior motives, and even knows how to attack the old, the weak and the sick! I didn't appreciate it at all, and even told my grandmother to stay away from her.

Unexpectedly, years later, I suddenly got a phone call from my grandmother, saying that Yan Qinghe was seriously ill and unconscious. I was afraid that she would die soon and must come back to see her. I don't want to. Grandma called me several times a day and begged me on the phone. I really can't bear to go back to my hometown.

I rushed to the municipal hospital and met Yan Qinghe. Yan Qinghe has been in a coma because of lung infection, persistent high fever and severe fatty liver. She was lying in a hospital bed with a ventilator and a face like a plate. She is completely different after she is dressed up in her usual way. Such an aboveboard strong woman just collapsed? I have mixed feelings in my heart.

During the two days in the hospital, grandma took my hand and cried and said, "Lele, your mother was confused when she was young and did a lot of wrong things." Now, she thinks the same way as your grandmother. She is looking forward to your marriage and family. Neither your mother nor that man has any great skills, but at least they can help you. Don't be so stubborn. "

After two days in the ward, Yan Qinghe finally woke up. I left without stopping.

At that time, I was discussing marriage with my girlfriend Zhang Qiong. Yan Qinghe and grandma were very happy when they found out, urging me to prepare quickly.

I met Zhang Qiong when I went to Shenzhen the next year. She is beautiful, considerate and has a nursing diploma. She works as a nurse in a private clinic in Shenzhen. After meeting her, I finally understood my dad. It's just that I was luckier than my dad and met a good girl.

On the eve of the Spring Festival in 20 14, I visited Zhang Qiong's parents to discuss the marriage. However, the two old people turned me away: "Yes, we are very satisfied with you, but you have no parents and no house in the city ..."

I am very depressed. A big man came home crying with his grandmother in his arms. Grandma was anxious: "Who said that you have no mother? Your mother is in the city, you wait, and the conditions her family wants must be met. " I get angry at the mention of Yan Qinghe. If it weren't for her, how could I not have a father? How could I be forced to separate from the girl I love?

A few days later, Yan Qinghe, who I hate, came back with a smile, sat directly opposite me and took out a real estate license from my bag with my name written on it. At first glance, it's a 130 square meter house! She said, "I know you don't need me as a mother, but you must need this house."

She really didn't take me, so she didn't know me. I proudly threw the real estate license on the table: "Take it away, don't!" " "Yan Qinghe not surprised. She picked up the real estate license and touched it. "I didn't buy this house for you, but your father gave it to you." "

I'm surprised. Yan Qinghe said, "Your father bought this house with his life. After your father's car accident that year, someone else lost a sum of money. Grandma is old and you are underage. The court ruled that the money should be kept by your uncle and me. I took a fancy to this house, found someone to get a preferential price and bought it for you. I know you hate me, but you can't lose the woman you love because of the house. Like your father, I'm looking forward to you. "

Knowing the origin of this house, I shed tears in front of this woman. Yan Qinghe added: "My mother was not worthy to be a mother when she was young, nor to be your father ... Lele, I know you won't listen to me, but my mother wants you to remember that marriage must be because two people love each other ..." She choked up!

It was lunch time that day, and grandma said, "I won't cry for the New Year. I'll pack some jiaozi and let's have dinner together. " Yan Qinghe gave me a look and quickly stood up and said, "It's noon, talk. I should go. " Grandma quickly hit me and said, "Le, let your mother stay for dinner."

That day, the three of us had dinner together for the first time after her divorce. The air is always suddenly quiet, but Yanqing River is full of joy.

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After Yan Qinghe left, my grandmother told me that my dad got 420 thousand compensation for a car accident. In recent years, we have spent money to decorate the house, leaving less than 300 thousand, while this house in the city is nearly 800 thousand. "Your mother bought a house of more than 400000. She took me to see it before buying it. It's really good. "

Yan Qinghe came again before I returned to Shenzhen and drove my grandmother and me to see the new house. I walked behind them and was shocked. I was a lot taller than them, and Yan Qinghe's head was mixed with a few white hairs. Yan Qinghe chattered as before, introducing the advantages of this house to grandma. Grandma nodded repeatedly and told me to go back and keep up from time to time.

Looking at the scene in front of me, my eyes were hot and I was in a trance. After seeing the house, she drove me and grandma back. When she left, I stopped her and stubbornly said, "I heard what grandma said." I will pay you back the money you posted. "Her eyes suddenly dimmed, and then smiled like a flower:" Anyway, mom just wants to make you happy. "

June 20 14, grandma was hospitalized with fracture. After learning this, I immediately ran back to my hometown. Seeing grandma so thin and old, I cried. My grandmother rubbed my hair and said, "Please, please don't hate your mother. It's not easy for her. Grandma said she was leaving. When I leave, she is your closest relative. "

That day, grandma told me the story of Yan Qinghe.

Yan Qinghe is the second child in the family, with a sister on it. Because there is no son, the eldest daughter is married, and parents hope that she is smart and beautiful and can recruit a reliable and capable son-in-law for them. But Yan Qinghe fell in love with the poor and white flood peak.

Hongfeng is a foreigner and an orphan. But he is tall, handsome, talkative and talented, and a harmonica can make Yan Qinghe beat his heart. But in the eyes of grandparents, such a man is not reliable. However, Yan Qinghe is bent on being with Hongfeng. In desperation, grandparents can only agree.

At the age of 2 1, Yan Qinghe was engaged to Hongfeng, who had been in love for three years. One day, Yan Qinghe and Hongfeng went out on a date, and her beauty caught the attention of a small punk next to her. Small bludger looked at Hongfeng dressed very politely and went forward to tease Yan Qinghe. Hongfeng was young and energetic and hit a punk. Unexpectedly, the gangsters called a group of people. Hongfeng was besieged and stood up to defend herself, but she accidentally injured and disabled the other side.

That day, it was less than three months before Yan Qinghe's wedding. Because of the seriousness of the case, Hongfeng was sentenced to excessive defense and imprisoned 14 years. I don't like Hongfeng's grandparents, forcing Yan Qinghe to have frequent blind dates. Hongfeng also advised Yan Qinghe to plan for his future and forget him.

Yan Qinghe, no, every month on the visiting day, she wears exquisite makeup and grand clothes and squeezes the bus to Zhengzhou prison to see the flood peak. Hongfeng advised her not to come again and find a good man to live a good life. YanQingHe didn't speak, just cried.

I realized that Yanqing River was dressed up and went to visit the provincial capital on a fixed day every month.

Time flies, three years have passed. Yan Qinghe is 25 years old, and his parents sigh in gossip all day. 1990, Yan Qinghe met my dad on a blind date. My father is three years younger than Yan Qinghe, with fine features, hard work, reasonable family and close at hand. Most importantly, my father fell in love with Yan Qinghe at first sight. Grandparents are very happy. Yan Qinghe doesn't like it.

Relatives and friends repeatedly advised my dad that Yan Qinghe was difficult to serve and asked him to look again. But my dad didn't agree, so he married Yan Qinghe. He thought that his love and dedication could warm Yan Qinghe's heart.

However, just as no woman can replace Yan Qinghe's position in his heart, no man can replace Hong Feng's position in Yan Qinghe's heart.

At the age of eight, Hongfeng was released from prison early because of her meritorious service. A few months later, Hongfeng suddenly flashed marriage with a vulgar older woman. Yan Qinghe sings, teases the baby and cries in the cultural station of the community all day.

Two years later, Yan Qinghe learned that Hongfeng was divorced and had a long talk with my dad behind closed doors. Grandma doesn't know what they talked about. Anyway, my dad finally agreed to divorce.

She went back to grandma's house with her luggage. The family knew that she was divorced, and grandpa gave her a slap in the face. Grandma didn't scold her, but said, "You will regret it one day!" " She didn't refute, and soon moved out and started a coal business with Hongfeng.

This is business, but it is actually selling dry briquettes on the street. Grandma said that she had bumped into them, and Yan Qinghe was still so fat and loved beauty. Under the dirty blouse, there were still neat and beautiful clothes. ...

My father is partly responsible for car accidents, because big trucks are usually overloaded. With this, the perpetrators refused to pay compensation according to the amount. Yan Qinghe told Hongfeng about it, and Hongfeng invited a lawyer. Finally, my dad got 420 thousand compensation. Grandma and uncle have been afraid to tell me for fear of stimulating me.

Yan Qinghe may also feel sorry for my dad. It was not until my father died more than two years ago that he married Hongfeng. Hongfeng is also a capable person. In a few years, he changed from a vendor selling briquettes to a small coal mine owner.

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It turns out that she is such a Yan Qinghe.

There was so much information that I couldn't digest it for a while, so I went back to Shenzhen with my grandmother after two weeks.

My sick grandmother called me again and again and told me that Yan Qinghe and Hongfeng often went to see her and took her to Zhengzhou to see a doctor. Grandma said, "Lele, even if you think I'm selfish and realistic, I'll just say one word." I'm going to be buried. You have no education, no background and no family background. This needs your mother's help. You still have a lot of important events to be presided over by your mother ... "I gradually understood that I hated Yan Qinghe so much in adolescence, but my grandmother had to speak for her and advised me to forgive her.

I just can't accept it at the moment.

Yanqing also contacted Zhang Qiong from time to time and sent me short messages occasionally, so that I must care more about Zhang Qiong and not let her suffer with me.

In August of 20 14, Yan Qinghe found an opportunity for Zhang Qiong to study in the province for one year. Zhang Qiong was embarrassed when he learned that. She wants to study, which is her career ideal, but the opportunity is given by Yan Qinghe, and she must respect my thoughts and opinions. I really don't want to accept Yan Qinghe's help, but I can't stop my girlfriend from pursuing life and career.

This time, I willingly compromised.

At the beginning of 20 15, Zhang Qiong and I decorated the house together. In July, Zhang Qiong successfully obtained the certificate of completion. Yan Qinghe and Hong Feng helped Zhang Qiong win an application opportunity. Zhang Qiong did well and was hired by a hospital in the city.

I often think of what Yan Qinghe said when he gave me the room book: "Mom doesn't want you to forgive me either. If you really like that girl, you must fight for it with all your strength, and your mother will fully support you. "

Yes, Yan Qinghe has been trying to help me win Zhang Qiong. Maybe I'm not a junior high school student anymore, and I know love. Maybe blood is thicker than water, or maybe I am more realistic. I enjoy the help and care from my mother to my son. When I faced Yan Qinghe again, I was no longer so resistant.

20 15 national day is my wedding. Grandma and grandma came forward to talk to me and invited Yan Qinghe and Hongfeng to attend the wedding. They said, "Marriage is a big deal. You have a mother. Don't let so many relatives and friends of Zhang Qiong's family feel strange. When they come, you are a relative. " I have no objection.

That was the first time I saw the flood peak. He is a little fat, but he is handsome and elegant when he was young. He greeted and talked with relatives and friends of both sides kindly and generously. Yan Qinghe is obsessed with him for a reason.

At the wedding, they were arranged by their grandmother to sit next to her. When I propose a toast to Zhang Qiong, Yan Qing smiled like a flower like grandma. Over her forehead, I saw a little white hair on her head, more than before.

I held up my glass and didn't know how to speak. Zhang Qiong gave Yan Qinghe a clever cry: "Mom!" I hesitated, so I called my mother. With a sigh, she picked up her glass and gulped it down. I saw her wipe away her tears with her hand.

That was the first time I called "mom" for many years. The moment I shouted it out, it was in my throat. For more than ten years, I have been eager to jump into my mother's arms. I even fantasized that if her name was not Yan Qinghe, I could call her mother and throw herself into her arms. But every time she comes to see me, I always turn my head and leave, no matter how my relatives and friends persuade me.

Now, I have experienced and loved the society, understood the love and hate of my parents, and finally understood that Yan Qinghe also has the right to pursue his own love.

There is no forgiveness, no forgiveness, only getting along with nature and finding the blood that was once connected.

Now, my son is almost two years old and will mutter "grandma". And Yan Qinghe always promised loudly: "Hey!"