Can I pay a New Year call during the mourning period?

When parents die, it is filial piety. No matter in the city or in the countryside, you should be filial for three years. This tradition is not only handed down by rural people.

So do people in the city. Maybe rural people pay more attention to it. After three years of filial piety, children are not allowed to wear brightly colored clothes. Don't wear too bright clothes, especially red clothes, even for the New Year. If the old man died that year, his children would be laughed at by others for being unfilial.

If parents die at home, there will definitely be some taboos during the Spring Festival.

The first thing is that during the Spring Festival, you can't post red Spring Festival couplets. Usually, on the morning of New Year's Eve, people will put up very festive red Spring Festival couplets and hang up red lanterns. However, if a parent dies at home, white couplets should be posted in the first Spring Festival, or not. Do you want to post blue Spring Festival couplets in the Spring Festival the following year? It is not until the three-year mourning period expires that the red Spring Festival couplets can be posted in the Spring Festival of the fourth year.

An old man died at home, and there is still one thing I can't do during the New Year, that is, I can't pay a New Year call to my relatives and friends. In our rural areas, it is about four o'clock in the morning in some places, and people start to go out and pay New Year greetings from door to door. If the old man in the family dies, you don't have to pay a New Year call during the three-year period of filial piety, and the neighbors won't choose this reason. People don't want you to go either, because you are very filial, and people will feel unhappy after you go, and people will think that you have brought bad luck. If there are seven aunts and eight aunts who need to visit in the first month, it is best to visit them in the twelfth month of the first year, and don't move in the first month.

It is best not to attend friends' parties and some avoidable public places during the Spring Festival. Don't say that others feel uncomfortable, even if they are in a bad mood, they will feel heavy. The Spring Festival is a reunion festival, and it is inevitable that you will think of your deceased relatives and feel bad, so it is best to close the door during the Spring Festival. This is our rule here. I want to know what I can't do during the Spring Festival after the death of the elderly in other areas. The first year is yellow, the second year is green and the third year is blue.

The New Year's Eve dinner is eaten two days in advance, that is, the 28th of the twelfth lunar month.

On the first day, don't visit relatives, because the first one is the greatest. On the first day, all your relatives will come to your house to worship, that is, under your mother's coffin.

As your father, you should be at home on the first day. If the main person in your family is not in Grade One, others will say that you are not, and especially the people in your mother's family will be very angry.

In addition, it is said that your mother will come back. When you have a reunion dinner in the twelfth lunar month, you won't leave until the third day of the New Year. Yang Huo: I asked, "Three years of mourning has been a long time. If a gentleman is not polite for three years, the courtesy will be bad; If you don't have fun for three years, have fun. The old valley has gone, the new valley is rising, and the time has passed. Confucius said, "A husband eats his husband's rice, and a wife eats his wife's brocade. How can he be at ease with a woman?" Say it, Ann. ""female Ann, for it! Husband and wife are in mourning and don't want to eat, listen to music and live, so they don't do it. This woman is safe, so do it! "Kill me out. Confucius said, "It's unkind to do it! The child was born for three years, and then he was separated from his parents. After the husband's three-year mourning, there is no mourning in the world, and there are three years to love his parents? "