Your ex-boyfriend asked you out to dinner. Do you go or refuse?

First of all, my attitude is that if you have completely let go of this relationship and moved on, the answer is definitely no; If you just broke up and still have illusions and the slightest possibility about this relationship, you can also consider going to the appointment.

The choice of refusing or keeping an appointment can be considered according to the following circumstances:

1. Did you just break up?

If you just broke up with your ex-boyfriend, you are still in a state of breaking up. In fact, you can also consider going to the appointment at this time. After the appointment, there may be two results: first, you may resolve your misunderstandings and contradictions, and then make up; Second, it is possible to intensify contradictions and then completely separate them. But either result is more comfortable than the present one.

Second, it's been a long time since we broke up, and both sides have let go.

If you have been separated from your ex-boyfriend for many years, both of them have a new life and have completely put aside their past feelings, and they are just old friends for both sides. In fact, it doesn't matter if you don't keep the appointment at this time. You can ask your boyfriend or husband for advice. If they don't care, they can keep the appointment.

In fact, when you are struggling to keep an appointment or refuse, you already have a clear answer in your heart. The reason why you ask this question is because you need others to give you affirmation and courage.

Emotion itself is very complicated. Other people's stories are not your stories, as long as they are in line with your own heart within the scope permitted by morality and law!