How to save your predecessor after breaking up?

First, the chat skills of breaking up 1, take the initiative to find a topic If your predecessor can respond positively when interacting with you, he will also take the initiative to find a topic to continue chatting, indicating that he also has the desire to communicate with you and wants to know more about you. Because it is very important to judge whether the other person is willing to get back together with you, whether the other person is willing to share life with you, whether he is keen to talk with you, and whether he takes care of your emotions. It is very important for him whether you are happy or not when chatting with him. Love is like this from the beginning! 2. Attract each other When you are willing to save each other successfully, the important point of successful rescue is to attract each other twice. In this unique link of breaking up, how can we attract each other twice? First of all, you must manage your sense of need, please don't expose it to each other. In addition, we must improve our own use value and re-attract each other's assets for ourselves. 3. Pay attention to the frequency of chatting. At the beginning of the recovery, the emotions of both sides have not completely calmed down, and ta is not in the mood to listen to those long speeches. As mentioned in the last article, you need to listen to you with peace of mind and share your current situation and topics with you. This is a way to invest in you. But if you think about your current relationship, does he have an obligation to listen to what you say? Rory talks a lot. Who has so much time and energy to read? Moreover, you are now in a state of breaking up, even if you don't break up and send messages, it is also a taboo. At first, he replied that your mood may be calm, even because you haven't spoken for a long time, fresh. Of course, you have learned some ways of chatting through self-improvement, and your chatting atmosphere is still very pleasant, but don't be careless. You should learn to judge the state of your chat. Second, the best time to break up and get back together is to save each other after breaking up, so I suggest you prepare first. The scope of this preparation is to judge whether the other person still likes you, secondly, you should determine the emotional state of the other person, then analyze the reasons for the two people breaking up, and finally, when the right time comes, you should save the other person, just be careful not to delay the recovery for too long. 1, breaking up for 3 days, in fact, many people say that breaking up is just to get the attention and care of the other party. The biggest feature of this kind of person is that he has no sense of security. From time to time, I will ask if I love you, care about you and so on. These people say that the breakup is a fake breakup. In fact, they have long wanted to come back, but they just need a step. Wait three days, buy a redemption gift, send it to her, and say something about redemption. It's bound to succeed. 2, just broke up for a week, lovers have a kind of psychology called unwilling. Generally, people who take the initiative to save are unwilling except for nostalgia and love for each other. The more unwilling people are, the more they want to recover, and they will take action first. So many people are clamoring to get back together just after breaking up, but at this time, the recovery will almost fail. First of all, at this time, both sides have not been freed from the previous contradictions, nor have they completely calmed down. To save at this time is an act of pushing each other further and further. The other party will only think that you are unreasonable and unreasonable, and you will never look back. But a week after breaking up, both of them are already in a calm period. This is also the time when I miss each other the most, and suddenly I have changed from two people's lives to one person, and no one will get used to it. 3, a month, a month's time is not long or short, but it can be changed very well, and you can no longer take the initiative to find the other party to save it. It can be because of your own change that the other party will automatically come to you and say that it is compound. This month's time is to guide each other, constantly change themselves, as well as internal changes and changes in the way we get along. Wouldn't it be better to let the other person tell you about getting back together with some cautious routines? Third, the trick of breaking up to save your predecessor When saving your predecessor, you should be careful not to use some wrong methods that will make the other party feel disgusted. To save a person, we must first adjust our mentality, and then make the correct way to save according to the situation between two people. Just be patient when saving, and don't rush to save each other. 1, do a good job in mentality construction. This thing is actually mysterious. If it is done well, it will play a role in pushing the boat forward. If you don't do it well, it will make your already bad life more trivial. Many girls have a really bad attitude after falling in love, and that feeling is not much different from the sky falling. There are three specific manifestations: the first situation is stalking and chasing, and they will try to appear in all places where they can meet their predecessors: downstairs in the community, at the door of the company, in the gym, in the parking lot, etc. It can be said that they are caught off guard, and may surprise their predecessors anywhere and even give them friends. In fact, just broke up, the other person's feelings for you are extremely low, and his dislike for you is unprecedented. At this time, your continuous beating will arouse his rebellious mentality, and he will hate you even more, even if he sees you, he will be afraid to avoid it. Look, a relationship with room for recovery has been cornered by your entanglement and harassment. 2. Enhance your attraction. Your ex will break up with you, which means you are no longer attractive to him. So if you want to save this love, you must change your bad shortcomings, improve yourself, and make yourself more attractive, better and more attractive than before. Both internal promotion and external image should be vigorously promoted. Only when you become better will you attract his curiosity and you will have the advantage to save it. Don't rely too much on your predecessor. Things that are too easy to get will not be cherished. You should have your own principles and bottom line, so that your predecessor will respect you. 3. Re-cultivate feelings At this stage, your relationship should have broken the ice. In addition to greeting each other every day, we can chat and joke like friends and further deepen our relationship. Time is running out, we should properly handle the relationship between two people at this stage, spread out the reasons for breaking up before, let the other person know your changes, and then put forward the idea of getting back together after these problems are solved, so that the feelings after getting back together will be stronger. How to save your predecessor after a breakup 2. How to save your predecessor after a peaceful breakup 1. Learn to change men are conquering animals and always like to pursue excitement and freshness. He loved you before. If you want him to love you again, you must change from scratch, change your attitude and expressive ability, improve your temperament and appearance, and increase your attraction to him. 2, learn to stand on the other side of the problem. Men and women look at things from different angles, and it is easy to cause contradictions because of different views on the same thing, so we should learn to look at things from each other's perspective. For example, a woman said, "You haven't been shopping with me for a long time!" Her subtext is actually "Can you go shopping with me?" She's just expressing her feelings. If you only pay attention to her complaints at this time, refute her and say that you just went shopping with you last week, which means that you don't think from her point of view, and it is easy to cause contradictions and quarrels. In the process of getting along with your girlfriend, when you encounter a problem, you should consider it from her point of view. Don't just pay attention to the surface of the problem, see the essence of the problem through the phenomenon, and find out what she really wants to express. Only by reading a woman's heart can you save her. 3, affectionate confession to save a relationship is like that stew. Although it is cooked, every process is still intact. To put it bluntly, it is necessary to have a sense of ceremony. Therefore, even if you save a relationship, you should be as affectionate as you just pursued each other. You still have to confess, that is, you can't lack the step of confession. Only by paying equal attention to each other will you give them enough sense of security and convince them that you are not just talking. 4. Re-cultivate feelings At this stage, your relationship should have broken the ice. In addition to greeting each other every day, we can chat and joke like friends and further deepen our relationship.