She was chatting with someone else, and the man sent her an ambiguous message. When he found out, he was very angry and told her to get out. She really left. I sent him a message at night, but he didn

She was chatting with someone else, and the man sent her an ambiguous message. When he found out, he was very angry and told her to get out. She really left. I sent him a message at night, but he didn't answer. Women are weak in appearance, but their thinking is network and sensitive. Imaginative and suspicious. Sometimes I can't tell whether I'm dreaming or in reality. The transition between happiness and crying is a blink of an eye.

Therefore, men can't understand the behavior of women in quarrels:

I like digging up old scores so much that I can think of all the vicious words. How did the lady in the past suddenly become a bitch?

It turns out that women's logic is like this: they can only attract men's attention in extreme ways. She wants to express her position with the most decisive words and the most regretful words. She is actually reminding men that all I want is a little gentleness. I'm so embarrassed that you won't even agree to this. You quickly admitted your mistake. As long as you admit your mistake, I'll forgive you at once.

And women can't understand men's behavior in quarrels. Women always wishful thinking:

Although I like to compare you with others, it is not because I like you. Why else would I be with you! You don't love me.

A man's logic is: You say others are nice, so why do you want to talk to me? Since you don't trust me, there is no need for us to talk. Because you are in charge of everything, you are always in front of my friends, which makes me embarrassed. What's the point of us being together? The essence of love is giving, which has natural attributes. It pays attention to freedom and ideals, and pursues the harmony and fit of spirit and soul.

The essence of marriage is acquisition, which has social attributes. It pays attention to constraints and reality, and pursues material and physiological needs and satisfaction.

From the perspective of life cycle, the relationship between love and marriage is similar to the whole and parts. In other words, marriage is the social expression of love at some stages. In this sense, love covers marriage and does not depend on marriage; Marriage is only a content or part of the love movement. At the same time, marriage endows love with social color, provides a material support for love, and makes love icing on the cake and colorful; Therefore, love without marriage is not perfect.

Love is more free than marriage; Marriage imposes an objective constraint on love, but it also constitutes a realistic test of love.

Compared with love, marriage is obviously narrow. From the root, marriage is the product of social development, while love is the product of natural occurrence.