When I got married, I urged my family to get married, but I didn't want to get married. What should I do?

Blind date is only an effective way to solve the single problem, but it may not solve the single problem. Feelings are mutual, not commodities that cannot be bought or sold. Only good feelings can be maintained. In fact, I believe there is a saying called "Love grows with time". In this case, I will do it.

Different ages have different ideas. When I was in my twenties, my family kept urging me to have a blind date, but at that time I was bent on starting a business and thinking about tossing my own career. So it is very difficult to communicate with parents. They want me to live in peace and stability, but young people always have dreams. Of course, now that I have failed, I find that my parents are right. I regret not listening to my parents. If I had gone to work in the bank safely, I wouldn't be so down and out now, my job was unstable and my deposit was almost zero. The blind date is getting older and older, and I have never regretted all kinds of disgusting things.

Try to communicate with your parents and talk about your own ideas. Parents' urging marriage is just worrying about you. Some things will be difficult without stepping on the time node. You can communicate with your parents more and express your thoughts, so that your family will understand you better. It is their attitude to urge marriage. At least you should give them an attitude that you want to get married, but if you haven't found the right person, you can talk to them about your feelings. I often talk to my parents about the feelings of blind date girls, and many parents can understand. If not, I'll switch to the next one and continue the blind date.

When I was young, I always felt that I was alone and always wanted to do something big. After 30 years old, you find yourself just an ordinary person. When you begin to accept the reality, you will be really happy to find that girls like you. Try to change your mind. I believe I can have love with time.

Lower your requirements, try to communicate with each other more and cultivate feelings as much as possible. Good feelings are all run-in. No one is so perfect, and everything satisfies you from the beginning. Try to change your mind more, try to step on the time node of life and do something at what age. For example, I am now in my thirties, and no one cares whether I want to get married or not. You are very happy now, because you have a girl who is willing to talk to you. Don't waste your chance.

Marriage is different from love. Marriage is a lifelong event, and there are many things to consider. If you want to get married at home, you can tell your family that you are still young and spend more time with girls. Slowly find more common interests and hobbies, and strive to develop in a good way. If two people really don't get along, they can only forget it and change to the next one. After all, I still have a long time in my life, so it will be more interesting to find someone who will really get along with me all my life. Otherwise, we can only be like the older generation. Because of family responsibilities, two people can barely get together, and life seems to be passable.