After a woman cheats, even if her husband says he forgave her, she will be scolded or locked up at home at the thought of her cheating. The wife filed for divorce or was wanted

Nowadays, in this over-open society, it is common for men to cheat. Although many women don't want to meet a third-party marriage, the reality is so cruel. Once they meet unfortunately, should a woman save this derailed marriage? In view of this problem, we consider whether it is necessary to restore it from four aspects:

First, feelings for children.

No matter whether you are ready to hurt your child or not, no matter how well you do before and after the divorce, the breakdown of marriage can't avoid hurting your child. If the derailed husband has a strong sense of family responsibility and is willing to turn over a new leaf, or the pressure of survival and society after divorce makes you unable to raise children alone, and so on. These are all important considerations for you to decide whether to recover.

Second, feelings for men.

If a man just takes part in accidental amusement, or has had a brief affair with a third party, and the emotional foundation of husband and wife is still ok, then this marriage is worth saving. Generally, the marriage of a third party is due to the novelty of a man or the inability of a woman to meet her husband's needs. As long as there is a little affection between the two sides, it is worth making great efforts to save the marriage of a third party.

Third, are you angry?

This is one of the main reasons why many marriages end in mistakes. Many couples think that after divorce, their feelings for the other half are gone. In fact, they are just venting their emotions. After the divorce, they found that they didn't want a divorce at all. This is a very bad situation, but it is a common thing for many divorced couples.

There are many men who cheat with third parties. You are all jealous of me and think that you have finally found true love. However, it was not until the real divorce that I discovered that I didn't like mistress at all. This kind of man is in the so-called "brain madness period" and cannot make a correct judgment. So it is also a marriage case worth saving.

Fourth, do men and third parties really love each other?

If the husband and the third party really love each other, and the extramarital affair lasts for a long time, and the husband and the mistress have established a deep emotional foundation, this marriage lacks redemption value.

But in reality, the relationship between many men and mistress is just "dew love", and they will break up when it comes to real problems. It is not difficult for women to save their marriage as long as they solve the problem of men's infidelity according to the reasons of the third party in marriage. I am afraid that women don't know how to recover, use the wrong recovery method or blindly tolerate, and then let the marriage break down completely.

Regarding the coup to save the derailed husband, the tactics are different according to different situations. If you want to know more, you can consult your emotional tutor, make a "diagnosis" of your marriage, give your feelings a correct direction and make your life happier. Let's act.