I broke up with my boyfriend for a month. I broke up. In the meantime, I called him and texted him to get back together. He didn't answer. I thought he gave up, but it's over.

People only know that love is the source of happiness, but few people know that love and love are two different concepts.

Some people pursue love all their lives, but get nothing, just because they have gone into a misunderstanding. What he pursues is not love, but love!

There is a song that sings: What is love in the world? I'm dying! But this heartbreaking and tearful song didn't answer what love is.

Love is the smoke of the past, illusory and elusive. If someone wants to have a constant love, then he can only reap endless pain in the end!

How many seemingly happy marriages hide unknown helplessness, while those who think they are unfortunate often ignore the little things worth cherishing around them. ...

The marriage maintained by two of a kind alone is extremely fragile and always in a precarious situation. This may be an important reason for the high divorce rate of modern people!

As the old saying goes, "One day a couple is grateful for a hundred days" and "love" vividly explain the traditional concept of marriage:

The first "grace" is that only a marriage with "grace first and desire later" can be called a happy marriage. The "grace" here also tells the origin of the fate of husband and wife. Crossing the boat for a thousand years, sleeping on your pillow for ten thousand years. When a person accepts other people's kindness without thinking of repaying kindness, he (she) may sprout the desire to be his (her) partner to repay kindness in the next life, and his inner sincerity will also be realized in the last life. This is a type. Of course, there is also a kind of resentment, which belongs to past lives and has already hurt that person's heart. This life is to collect debts. This type was very rare in the past. However, with the rampant lust of modern people, the casual attitude of lacking responsibility for marriage has led to more and more doomed love. All the extra harm caused to others must be repaid by yourself, and the debt of love is the most difficult to repay!

Looking at the word "love" again, what I want to say is that no matter what kind of fate, it can only end with "love", otherwise, it will be endless revenge! Of course, the "love" here is not the love of modern people. It is a kind of love in a broad sense, and it has boundaries. You can call it "true love". In addition to emotional feelings, "true love" also includes kindness, commitment, responsibility, loyalty and tolerance ... This kind of "love" is to maintain human affection. With this kind of love, there will be Qi Mei's marriage, the friendship of high-five and singing from generation to generation, and there will be …

Love is a profound knowledge. On top of "true love", there is also "great love", which is omnipotent and has the ability to resolve everything. Whether it is repaying a debt or collecting debts, the root of everything is very clear! "Great love" is the truest and the best, and it is the unrequited effort and selfless tolerance. This kind of "great love" can not be achieved by ordinary people, but only through cultivation. "Great love" means great wisdom and great freedom. If you learn to love others, you will learn to love yourself. Lovers should love not only those who bring us joy, but also those who bring us pain. They are all distinguished guests in our life journey, and there is a vast sea of people. If it wasn't for some kind of origin, how could they come all the way to Wan Li? If a person loves his relatives and friends and all sentient beings, including those who have hurt him, then he is already in this realm. With such "great love", how can you stand the pain?

To sum up, love has three realms:

Emotional feelings centered on one's own preferences and worldly desires belong to the first realm. Their feelings are like autumn leaves in the wind, falling bleak; His heart is like swallowing fire, drinking ice, exchanging hot and cold, mixed with sadness and joy. He has been trapped by love all his life and is miserable.

Rational "true love" that regulates one's behavior with basic human moral concepts such as "benevolence, righteousness, courtesy, wisdom and faith" belongs to the second realm. He is either a modest gentleman or a man of temperament. Although he can't get rid of it, he is open-minded and worthy of others.

The "great love" of giving up who I am, selflessness, and loving yourself by loving others belongs to the third realm. His heart is pure and clear, turning the wheel of light and turning himself in and out. He is a real person.

The third realm is the highest realm. ...

Transfer from: China Wisdom Network