My college roommate likes singing at night. How can I gently remind him not to sing?

You can gently remind him first. If not, I suggest telling him directly and boldly that this behavior is wrong.

I believe that every student who has stayed in school knows what to do and what not to do in the same dormitory without affecting the rest of other students. Everyone has his own ability to distinguish, but some students really lack this awareness, and they are still talking loudly in the dormitory in the middle of the night, which affects other students' rest, so we must find ways to prevent this from happening again.

1. Suggest him not to sing at night, but to sing during the day. You can talk to him first and ask him why he likes singing, or ask him directly why he doesn't sing during the day and comes up to sing every night. If he says he likes the evening, tell him directly, which will affect your rest time.

2. Find other roommates to discuss countermeasures. As the saying goes, many hands make light work. I believe your other roommates are also troubled by him. If there is, send a group to find him and tell him not to sing every night. Every one of you is influenced by him, and this is a dormitory, which is not suitable for singing. You can also suggest him to sing in a better place.

3. Make rules and write regulations. Fiona Fang can't be without rules, and so it is. You can discuss it with other roommates and discuss how to write properly. Although you know that this rule is mostly written because of him, everyone must abide by it, so he has no reason to say it.

A roommate's life behavior will reflect his personal accomplishment and quality. So it's no use telling him gently. It's wrong to try to get him to pay attention to him directly, which has affected the normal life of the rest of you.