Married husbands stop texting.

You need to see what your requirements for marriage are. If you value the feelings in marriage, try not to live apart. The separation between the two places will make the feelings that are not deep enough more sparse.

If you are not very demanding about marriage, then he just needs to earn money to come back. You say yours, he says his. What's so boring?

He doesn't take the initiative to call and send messages, which means he doesn't miss you at all.