What should I do if I encounter domestic violence?

1. Respond to the "first time" with the greatest resistance and madness.

In fact, many facts in real life tell us that the key to stopping domestic violence often lies in the "first time". If when we encounter domestic violence for the first time, we just respond like a dragonfly and let it go, then nine times out of ten there will be more serious second and third times.

Whenever we encounter domestic violence, we will respond with the greatest resistance and madness, especially for the first time. Be sure to let the other party wake up completely from this first "carelessness" and "recklessness", accept severe punishment, and conduct profound introspection, so that they can really suffer for a few days and remember for a long time. It is best to "talk about the tiger's color change" and dare not fall hard after raising your hand next time. The law of the jungle is an eternal survival law in the animal kingdom, which also applies to marriage and family. Timid people are afraid of courage, courageous people are afraid of death, and men have the strength to carry out violence, so women must also have the ability to fight back.

2. Timely communication+careful management

"When we face cold violence, we should patiently find out the real needs of each other, face the crux of each other's personality and communication barriers, and find that the other party has psychological problems and needs timely psychotherapy." Experts say that timely communication and exchange is the best way to solve contradictions.

Emotional experts believe that the starting point of the cold war is often hurt but unable to express it. When there is a cold war tendency of not talking, husband and wife should be vigilant, remain calm, analyze the reasons that may stimulate cold violence, feel the hurt of the other party, and resolve the cold war deadlock as soon as possible. If both parties don't want to talk, they can send text messages, write emails, etc. Or gradually communicate from less sensitive topics such as current affairs. Let the other person see his thoughts, put his concern into practice, and gradually eliminate negative emotions and negative cognition. If it's really irreparable, it's better to get rid of old ideas such as "Don't wash your dirty linen in public" and "compromise for perfection", make a brave decision and find your own happiness again.

3. Principles of gender equality and justice

Gender equality refers to the equality of people of different sexes in rights, responsibilities and opportunities; Gender justice refers to giving fair treatment to different needs of different sexes, including achieving gender equality with different treatment (such as adhering to the principle of victim-centered). ? Adhere to gender equality and justice and challenge "objectivity" and "neutrality?" Principle. Are there different interest groups and powers? /in a society with uneven distribution of rights, it is impossible to be absolutely "objective" and "neutral" (such as fighting each other? 50 ways to deal with domestic violence cases), and should distinguish between right and wrong. Adhere to the principle of gender equality and justice, and break the traditional gender concepts such as binary distinction between public and private spheres, male superiority and female inferiority, male superiority and female inferiority. The latter is the structural reason for the occurrence and persistence of domestic violence.

4, can not give up self-help.

If you are seriously injured, you must not give up your kindness to save yourself, sue him for injury to the court, and apply to the relevant departments for injury identification, which will be the most favorable evidence to judge the extent of his injury to you.