I want to ask someone else to help me find a job, because I am embarrassed. Who can help me? Thank you very much.

If you want to beg others, you must be sincere, even if they say on the surface, "You don't have to be so polite." You should also answer: "Nothing, this thing is nothing."

It's better to tell your family that it's more sincere to ask in person with a gift. If the other person is far away from you and not in the same city, then calling and texting are the worst, and the success rate is very low. First, call people to ask how they are doing recently, where they made a fortune or how much money they earned.

Since you talked about inviting people to dinner, it means that you are in the same place as other people, so you should call them first and invite them out to dinner, not invite them to dinner after work. Isn't this a success? So who dares to help you? Failure has no face. Therefore, whether it is successful or not, you can't say, "Please eat after you finish." If you don't say it, it means that the relationship will get worse. Who can guarantee that you will find a job? You can only try. You must invite people to dinner first, so that people will take action. People will take action instead of calling or texting, and they must pay in advance. This is called investment. He owes you a favor for eating your meal. If you want to repay him, he will help you find a job. Do you see it?

I hope I can help you and wish you success!