Muscle man short message

Your attitude and image. Sincerity and frankness are the most important things. Confession is not only shallow, but also courage. After she knows who you are and what you want, even if you ask too much, she will rest assured. If she doesn't understand what you want, she thinks you are more dangerous.

You'd better appear as an ordinary person. Maybe you have read too many novels and movies and are not satisfied with appearing in this image. But I want to tell you: you are not superman. If you are too pretentious, it is unacceptable. Life has no script, and you don't know what will happen in the next second, because ordinary people's brains simply can't handle so much complicated information. If you pay too much attention to your glorious image, something will go wrong. Maybe you are standing downstairs, and the cool Star Master said, "It's a long night, I don't want to sleep …" The grandmother upstairs put a basin of foot washing water on your head. You are not a star. You don't know what to do in this situation, so you are short-circuited.

If you keep the image of self-control, even if she accepts you, you will affect the other person, and she will be very restrained in front of you. So MM will say, "I feel so tired with you." No matter how good you are, you really want to be cool, only once or twice. You can't always appear as a cold person. If you are not interested in her, she will not be interested in you. And your own image is often decided at the beginning of contact, and you can't change it if you want to. Have you always been very steady and mature? Have you ever envied little P children fighting with MM recklessly? By the way, you are just an ordinary person with flesh and blood. Lower your noble head and put down your reserved self-esteem. Is it easy for us to accept a MM who is more like a naughty child in front of us?

These should be put before you show your kindness, progress and perseverance, otherwise it will be meaningless. You have to be a man first, so that you can fall in love and be kind and enterprising. If you are a god, the earth is not for you.

B rushed up to chat up. You may have seen many pickup techniques. If you ask me, those technologies are novel but the effect is not optimistic. And different people, you can't use certain skills-not only can't you use them, you can't use them at all. For example, last month I went shopping with my friends and met a beautiful woman. My friend caught up with him, then turned around and took a puff at that beautiful woman ... and it succeeded. Isn't that cool? If you learn from him, if you don't keep your eyes correctly, you will have five more finger prints on your face.

In other words, simply learning other people's skills won't work. As we all know, a muscular man named Stallone was born with a pair of dead fish eyes. He practiced in front of the mirror for thousands of times before he could barely act in a movie. Once again: one minute on stage, ten years off stage. Eight years ago, when my friend and I were children, we chased MM together in the street.

We should not only practice, but also have correct theoretical methods. For example, judging whether a MM is a beauty from behind. Everyone often does such a thing, right? Do they often make mistakes as a result? It can't be done without correct theoretical guidance. The theory is: don't look at the figure, look at the bones. Isn't it amazing to infer appearance from skull? It can't be wrong to look at a thousand mm (literally, there are more than a thousand. )

If you don't know the theory, just learning skills is as useless as learning other people's fencing without a sword. Without the same individual, it is impossible to step into the same river twice. No matter how much you learn, how can you use the same skills for different people? You can't even use it on the same person under different conditions. Even if Chen Bite Jin only knows three axes, people know when to use which axe.

The theoretical premise of chatting up is to make the other party accept it. This is a common theory, even nonsense. But ordinary people forget this basic thing to pursue some fancy "tricks". What's the use of subtle tricks if the most basic goals can't be achieved? Let the other side accept it or make it easy for the other side to accept it. This is something that everyone should keep in mind.

And to make people accept you easily, you must first be natural and reasonable. What is nature? A nurse, MM, it is natural for you to go to the hospital to find her for an injection. A student MM, you said in front of her, "My name is XXX, and I am in which level and major." This is natural ... when I met my senior, I said impudently, "I want to chase you, I want to chase you." When I met my sister, I said, "I will protect you in the future." My friend is an old rascal, and that MM looks very open. Blow her a cigarette. It's a change of stability. Seeking novelty on the basis of nature, rather than pursuing nature on the basis of novelty; We can't be wrong about this relationship. If we are wrong, there is no hope.

Then the expression is simple, direct and effective. Let people know who you are and what you want to do. The best way is to introduce yourself and give a speech, but unfortunately MM won't appreciate it. Although Wang Xiaobo's simple word "take-off" is shameless and direct, it is much more effective and lovely than going around many corners. Of course, you can't say "take off" at the beginning, but this example can leave a deep impression on you.

Finally, we should also consider environmental factors. If a place is very noisy, you can't express it too delicately. Not in school, you can't use "my name is XXX", so people will think that you sell insurance. You can even express your intention without voice. For example, on the bus, a MM wants to get on the bus with a big box, so you can reach out and help her with the box without saying a word-provided you don't look like a robber.

These seemingly complicated methods and techniques, as long as you remember the premise and cooperate with environmental factors, you will know when to use which trick.

No matter how long the road is, it won't be long as you walk step by step. You should set the expected goal at the beginning of your relationship with MM. For example, when you contact you for the first time, you should have a goal in mind: let her say her name or ask for her contact information, even make her smile in front of you, and even you can chat for three minutes. If you waste your time aimlessly, you will not only get twice the result with half the effort, but also lose motivation. You may never find her again. )

Tips.

Your evaluation of others usually affects them. For example, an introverted MM, if you praise her warmly and generously, is likely to appear in front of you with a warm and generous image in the future. Since then, it has changed her character. However, it should be pointed out that this evaluation must be positive. If you say she is lazy ... of course, she may deliberately show that she will not be lazy in the future, but she will not like you. Such an assessment must also be made at the beginning of contact. When you know her well, it is hypocritical to say that she is warm and generous, so this is not affecting her, not just kissing her ass, but also kissing her legs.

You probably can't remember so many clauses, because other people's nature is a subconscious acquired in many battles, and you don't want to recite them before getting cold feet. In fact, you can think of the first contact as the second. If the embarrassing first time has passed, this is your second contact with her. This will make you more natural.

4 siege

No matter how effective your first contact is, as long as you are not beaten, strongly refused, or you are still motivated, you will meet the premise of the attack.

The hardest part is actually in the beginning You have finished the hardest part. What's left? But because the hardest part has been completed, you can still choose to give up. You've already practiced. Anyway, you are not interested in that city, so it is a good choice.

But I must assume that you choose to attack, because you say you are inexperienced. Before you decide to attack, I have two things to say.

A If you don't want to hurt others, then you must make her notice your three-point joke and careless attitude. Originally, our premise was to make everyone happy, and then you can get away easily in the future. If you let MM believe that you are serious at the beginning, you will run away after catching up, and you may be hacked to death one day. -If you walk for a long time at night, you will bump into ghosts. Not only that, but only with higher benevolence can we practice higher martial arts. These contradictions will eventually be unified, which I will talk about in the next section.

B it's not easy to chase someone, and it's even harder to chase someone without feelings. Not serious attitude is just for her to see, but your attitude towards this feeling, not the attitude you pursue. You must chase it honestly and seriously. Make sure the attack doesn't stop before you leave, at least not by the way. Persistence in anything will bring good results; Don't be like the college classmate I mentioned above. You can chase after him if you want, and wait for a few months if you don't want to chase him. In this case, you are doomed to catch up with anyone and waste limited resources.

Are you still going to attack?

The pursuit of theoretical guidance is to make her happy and make her feel. Is it easy to do? The easiest way is to let her talk and laugh. I told this method to a scholar in high school, and my cousin became his girlfriend. -The world is wonderful. This shows that life may be simple, but you see it as complicated.

There are two models in this respect.

It all started with friends.

It should be noted that the "friends" mentioned here are different from ordinary friends. In other words, you start with a lower posture than the pursuer, but you should let MM understand your intention properly.

I mentioned "How to chase MM written by a MM". The author said: "Girlfriend is a fact, not a promise." ... I know best that I didn't ask "would you like to be my girlfriend" until I went to bed. Finally, the girl was anxious: "why don't you ask me to be your girlfriend!" "Therefore, don't rush to break the enough paper. The more hazy the situation, the better for you."

If you notice this fact, who will stop you from giving MM some aphrodisiac? Of course, we should pay attention to the result, but we can't ignore the process. If you just want to have sex, isn't it easier and more reliable to find a lady?

Many years ago, I was fascinated by such a lasting love solution. I also think that "if you don't mention' chasing' at all, then girls have no chance to' refuse' you." The successful examples are Mr. and Mrs. Zhang Cuishan. After practice, I found that this theory has limitations. First of all, it is difficult for us to guarantee long-term coexistence unless it is my classmates, colleagues, neighbors, etc. Secondly, the other party can't be a beauty, and there can't be competition. So what is the value of such a theory? Our goal is to catch up with anyone you may catch up with, rather than asking you to choose a girlfriend among classmates, colleagues, neighbors, etc.

I have met many people, from "ordinary friends" to "good friends" to "very, very good friends who talk about everything". One sunny afternoon, I accidentally held her hand, kissed her, went to bed ... and finally broke up. If you play with MM on purpose, then you can't break up. What if it is serious? It is not a crime for a man to cry. )

I said the reason for breaking up at the beginning: love is a feeling first, and feeling is based on feeling. In the process of changing from an ordinary friend to a good friend and then to a very, very good friend who talks about everything, there is no feeling of love. If your love goes this way, then you must pay attention to giving each other feelings in the future. Otherwise, when someone like me stands in front of her and stubbornly says, "I'm here to chase you," you lose. Because she has never been chased by you, she has never had a strong heartbeat with you, she has never been excited and expecting ... I may object to this, maybe most people's love goes this way. Go back and ask your girlfriend, how many times have you appeared in her dreams?

In this way, the love with the result first and then the name, if not consolidated, is vulnerable in my eyes. If you give it to someone who has never felt strong sensory stimulation, it only takes 4 hours to catch up with the shortest record of one mm. The love story on Titanic should not be forgotten. Although it is a movie, it is reasonable to be accepted by people.

Not much nonsense, in short, remember that to start with friends, you can only start with special friends. Don't break the paper, don't talk about pursuit, but you must mean it. The advantage of starting with friends is that the difficulty ahead is very low and it is easy to get started. This mode is more effective for dealing with non-e-sports MM below the quasi-beauty, so it won't be too nervous. Don't underestimate this tension, if you are too nervous, you can't play it out.

Of course, nervousness is also a feeling. The reason for your heartbeat is that there are tension factors in it. It is not advisable to escape this feeling, so I suggest you use another model.

B was a suitor at first.

Starting as a suitor doesn't mean you have to say, "I'm here to chase you." Or start with the classic confession. In fact, all this is self-evident. Unlike starting with a friend, you have to break this paper and not confuse it. Seize any opportunity to express your feelings, even your love.

For example, when the sun goes down, MM stands by the window and her eyes wander. This is a good opportunity. If you are her ordinary friend, good friend and friend who talks about everything, you can't seize this opportunity. What can you recite at most: "The sunset is infinitely beautiful and buried by the coming night." In the worst case, you can only say, "It's getting dark and windy. Be careful not to catch a cold." But you are a suitor, and you have no such restrictions at all. So you can lean over and say, "Shall we watch the sunset together in the future?" She was shocked by your feelings first, and then she could react: "Bah. You are so cheeky, who wants to be with you? " In fact, you don't hate it. You often make her happy and comfort her, don't you? Then she's lying. Ignore what she says.

For example, if you "send" her home, it is actually your thick face that must be followed. At this time, MM had an opinion: "What are you always pestering me for?" This is another chance. MM, how can asking questions not be an opportunity? You've been on the mop for so long, it's time to start to understand. Give sb. a satisfactory answer quickly. If you are any of her friends, it will be difficult to seize such an opportunity. The best you can do is say, "I care about you. There are a lot of BT in the street recently. "You have to use your head to come up with such an answer. Since you are a suitor, you don't have to work so hard. I blurted out something I wanted to say for a long time, and even you were a little wronged: "Because I like you."

If there are many such things, MM will think, "Do you want to be with him? ... strange, how can I have such an idea. " MM will probably think of what you did to make her happy today before going to bed, or scold her with a smile: "this bastard." Or moved to extrapolate (see "Color Sky"). Either way, you gradually replaced the prince charming she expected. Quantitative change leads to qualitative change. She is used to having you around, and you gradually become an indispensable part of her life. She will call you when she is unhappy, and she will want to share it with you when she is happy. Once the relationship between pursuing and being pursued is established, you will stand at the starting line. If there is competition, you have to run. What if it's not? Without you, it would be the first, and the prizes are all yours.

Once MM admits or acquiesces in pursuing this relationship, catching up with her is like going from Xinye to Xiangyang and all the way to Ye Ping, which can be reached in one day by fighter plane.

Recommend the pursuer mode, mainly to exercise your thick skin. Indeed, it is difficult to start like this. The difficulty is that ordinary people can't stand such pressure. The thought of starting with a suitor makes you feel flustered and weak, doesn't it? In fact, no matter how good a pilot is, his body will react violently when climbing and diving vertically. At this time, if you close your eyes and let go of the joystick, can you shake it in the hangar? No In that case, even if you survive, you are not qualified to be a pilot. I have long said that you should exercise your psychological quality in order to wait for the day when you are hit or even insulted.

No matter which pattern you like to practice, you should consider retreating when you get it in her hands. Holding hands is the last fortress in front of you. What's left after that is not pursuit but love. Now Enemy at the Gates, conquering it is a piece of cake. This is your best and last chance to escape. If you continue to develop, you will have feelings. If you have a little love, you will not earn it.

Slaughterhouse It's not necessary. Don't hurt anyone unless necessary. Finding a MM you don't love just bears some responsibilities and causes some troubles for no reason. Why waste your time and energy? Now don't worry about this MM, you have another friend of the opposite sex, and your capital is stronger. This may be harmful, but for her, contacting you is also an exercise. Besides, happiness is far more than disappointment. We caught up here. We go back and prepare to attack the next one. Your long-cherished MM is waiting for you. No? Remember, lack is better than abuse, and you will always meet it.

four

Kindness and invincibility

In fact, I should put this section in a toolkit and solemnly give it to everyone and say, "In a few years, when you meet a MM that you can't catch up with, take it apart and have a look. Remember to remember. "

This is because: without considerable experience, there will be no relevant understanding. When we were young, we recited Tang poems and saw this sentence: "People don't know where to go, but peach blossoms still smile in the spring breeze." If you want to break your head, you won't understand it. When we walked out of the ivory tower and returned to school after many years, it was still delicious and colorful; In those days, those young cherry trees also became lush and colorful. The name you carved on the tree is still clear, but the person you first fell in love with will never be found again. At this time, watch it again: "People don't know where to go, but peach blossoms are still smiling in the spring breeze." Such a sentence, you don't want to, don't want to understand and can't understand.

By the same token, only after the tempering I mentioned above can you really understand what I am going to say next. Because if you haven't experienced many things I want to say this time, you will think that I am inconsistent.

On the internet, I can't wait for three or five years to update this post, so I can only assume that this is many years after I first taught you to chase MM. Now that you have gone through many battles, you can keep pace with many lovers. You are no longer satisfied with walking in the park with these insensitive MM, you want to find a MM that makes you feel good, so you can stop pretending to be romantic.

So you found a good MM, unfortunately, she is not only beautiful but also has temperament, and there is a dignity in her temperament; That is something similar to GG that is not angry and arrogant, which makes people afraid to face it. For example, in Zhang Yide, Guan Yunchang, people like Zhou Yu dare not scratch their brains when they stop there, but timid people will be scared to death. In addition, this MM has been killed for a long time and has been read by countless people. So in front of her, you are just better than a child who is at a loss. You can say a few words completely. You can't summon up courage, you are either arrogant or deeply inferior, and you can't find your past feelings. Moreover, your attacks have been skillfully resolved by the other side, and there is no effect at all. Just as good as you? Not exactly. )

Congratulations on your good luck in finding such a MM first. Good idea, too. Once you have such a MM, you want nothing more. However, in order to pursue such a MM, you must be in a leading position in your game.

When it comes to Kung Fu, I think of Taiji, Xingyi and Bagua, which are called Shangsanmen and can be said to be the most powerful martial arts. All roads lead to the same goal. These are just different forms of attention. Kung fu itself has no advantages or disadvantages, but individual cultivation has its advantages and disadvantages. ... if I want to use it as a metaphor, I want to say it is more like Tai Chi.

Now that I am old Zhang Sanfeng, you are naturally a generation of young Xia Zhang Wuji. I'm going to teach a set of Tai Chi for chasing MM. Of course, I dare not compare with the real Tai Chi. I changed the order.

Nothing. Where does it cause dust?

The first step is to make you forget.

Forget everything I told you many years ago, forget some of your own opinions, forget your achievements over the years, and forget your hard-won status as big brother. You are still the little boy who knows nothing. In your eyes, there is no "right" or "wrong" in this world. You know that love is infinite. You can express it or understand it, but you can't. For example, when I told you to start with a suitor, it was for exercise. Why do you have to start with the pursuer? You can kneel down and propose to her, or you can say, "Tomorrow you will be my bride."

If you forget these things, you will reach the realm of not crossing the line. Everything you did in front of MM was unexpected and reasonable.

The wind is rustling and the water is cold.

The second step is to unify the contradictions and generate courage.

When you forget these things, I will tell you why it is said that only higher benevolence can practice higher kung fu. Taiji gives birth to two instruments, and everything is contradictory. There was nothing in this world, and the concepts of "right" and "wrong" came into being at the same time. If you don't know what is right, then you won't know what is wrong. If you pursue this contradictory aspect alone, you will encounter obstacles and bottlenecks when you go far enough. Just as you have been pursuing truth, goodness and beauty, but you have no deeper understanding of falsehood and ugliness, then your truth, goodness and beauty can only stay at a certain height. This is why a playboy GG is more single-minded than a person who has always been single-minded. Why does a person who knows how to repay kindness practice such deadly kung fu? Peace-loving people invented more terrible weapons.

I told you from the beginning: if you like someone, you will openly conquer and hunt. This is because the education of "fearlessness and great sacrifice" we received contradicts this naked pursuit of true self. I said this at that time because ordinary people attach too much importance to fearlessness and self-sacrifice in love, that is, they have done too much in that respect and have reached the bottleneck.

Yes, these are two contradictory aspects. Believe me, for so many years, you have gone too far in pursuing interests and satisfying your own desires, so you should pursue the spirit of selflessness and sacrifice in turn. Only when you completely abandon your own interests and forget success or failure can you have the courage to die like a moth. And only this kind of courage can ensure that you will not flinch when standing in front of the final BOSS-level MM.

It is meaningless to emphasize this point before you have experienced a lot; At that time, you wouldn't believe it at all: self-sacrifice and pursuit of interests will eventually be unified, and even anything contradictory can be unified. What will happen if we are unified? In front of MM, you also feel inferior and painful. But that feeling is separated from your thinking, as if something is separated by a layer, and no matter what kind of blow, it can't touch your heart. Your spirit transcends your own feelings, and in your eyes, there are only facts as simple as lines. Don't you believe in this state? Have you seen Braveheart? As a true warrior, he may be more afraid of death than many ignorant people. However, only those who combine this cowardice with courage will finally say, "I am a hero again after eighteen years!" " "

After understanding this, you see disdain and disgust in MM's eyes. Your body wants to retreat, and your spirit objectively tells you: "How to change her view of me?" How long can I stay in front of her? "You have to do this first. On the premise of ensuring that you won't be killed, you can be said to be a big competition in strength.

By doing this, you won't shrink back at any time in your life. You have reached the same height as those legendary heroes. If necessary, you can plug the leak and blow up the bunker. Of course, I'm not asking you to make unnecessary sacrifices. You should find comfort in danger and excitement. You are very confident, aren't you? If you are hit, you will never die. At this time, your courage is no longer limited by your psychological quality, and you can completely exceed your normal level like Li Xunhuan. The greater the pressure, the more outstanding your performance will be, and the stronger you will be. The more MM attacks you and despises you, the more it can set off your unshakable quality.

I also like to paint peony with rouge.

The third step is to let you practice again.

Chinese painting pays attention to artistic conception and verve. It is a leap from form to spirit, and it is also the most important criterion to measure you. Painting peony must be glamorous, painting cold plum must be aloof, painting pine and bamboo must be full of integrity ... A good work meets this condition. If you can only achieve modeling, then you will never create a masterpiece handed down from generation to generation. Reciting other people's theories is only a means, not an end.

There is a saying: double cultivation is for personal use. The meaning of this sentence is: the body should be cultivated in two ways? I appreciate your idea, but the original meaning of this sentence is: "Everything in the world is tangible, and there is a body in the form." Body is quality, and users are the wonderful use of quality. Words are used to support the body, which is the Tao. "used here means: on the one hand, it is the cultivation of abstract theories, on the other hand, you must apply all these theories. Just saying that "the stone will open when you are sincere" is only useful for understanding. You must carve it into your brain and become a subconscious. If you think of this sentence every time you do something, you won't be a mediocre guy anymore. If you really know the method of double major, your reaction will be faster than your thinking, so it doesn't matter even if you are born with poor qualifications. (What we say: "Diligence can make up for mistakes" also means something. )

Under this premise, with the continuous understanding of the pros and cons of a thing, we will constantly enrich ourselves in depth and breadth, and finally reach the realm of light desire and heavy desire. To do this, no matter what happens, you can react faster than others and do it better than others. When MM feels cold and others are still thinking about what to do, your coat has been put on her shoulders.

This moment should last forever.

The last step is to ask you to give up.

I understand that you are serious this time and don't want to give up. But there are MM in this world that you can't catch up with. Not those you can't touch, like any twin. You can't see a shadow, so where can you catch up? Or maybe you have coMMitted a crime, been raised by the government, and there is no mm around you. Everyone has learned the immortality theorem of matter, and you can't make it out of nothing anymore.

We are talking about the goals you can achieve. Even if you are good at kung fu, there are still people you can't catch up with. As I said before, talent, strength, experience and skills. I also said that in the end, you and MM started a strength competition. You have talent, experience and skills, but you have no strength. This strength is more likely to refer to money, which is a helpless move. You have chased many people, and you know that you don't need anything to chase MM, but you need everything. For example, before that, you read so many books, have so many hobbies and have many friends ... all these can be counted as needs and your strength. Rome was not built in a day. You meet a MM now, which means you are not strong enough. If you barely catch up, it is likely that you will overdraw and still can't catch up or afford it. For example, MM wants a notebook, but you can't afford a good one, so you can only reluctantly buy her a second-hand one ... Instead of leaving this regret, it's better to give up at the beginning, try to accumulate your own capital and don't miss the next one.

Besides, this is due to factors beyond human control. One possibility is that you play as a player and the referee is not you. No matter how well you do, if you win everyone, you may not win. The reason why MM may not choose you is God knows. This is what "hit eight feet, hard to find a foot" said. Another possibility is that MM is going to another city, and it is unrealistic to pursue it in different places. -Why didn't Alexander go to America? Once such a thing happens, there is no need to pester it any longer. If we compare human power with nature, it is like a candle trying to change the cold of the whole winter; The spirit is commendable, but the result can be imagined.

Giving up for any of the above reasons can only show deep sympathy. Although giving up like this is very painful-it's not that you can't catch up, but that conditions limit you. But in any case, you must let go of what you can't catch: you must wait in the afterlife and then set foot on the beginning of each other's stories.

By the way. It is precisely because of these factors that some people say that they don't want to last forever, but just want to have it. It's not that I don't want to. It's really the second best thing I can't get. Little p children don't know that lasting feelings are also holding the attitude they once had and giving up the people they should cherish at will.

After completing the above four steps, you can be awarded the degree of lover old rascal. The class of chasing MM is over. At that time, when you look at what others say, "What must be done to chase MM" or "What is the necessity of chasing MM", you will easily understand them.

First of all, it is indispensable. It's right to chase like this, and it's right to chase like that. No matter what you do, you can find a reasonable reason. Followed by seeing mountains or mountains, seeing water or water. MM angry is angry, happy is happy, there is no need to get to the bottom of it. No matter how beautiful the MM is, it is just an ordinary person. You won't feel anything special about them, and they can't have any bad influence on you. Finally, these theories and all your experiences are deeply rooted in your subconscious, and your every move is murderous. Nothing can hide your sharpness, which is too sharp for ordinary MM to resist. The same thing, the same words, what little P children do and say makes people feel artificial and ridiculous, but you will show a kind of harmony. Any opportunity you seize is a series of attacks. Unless you stop yourself, MM will have to respond to your every step. And her reactions fall into your calculation, even your reactions are faster than hers. The old man said: at this time, you go after MM, which is no different from my personal arrival. What you owe may just be the temperature.

However, all this soon became boring. Just like when I was a child, I saw people riding two-wheelers, which was wonderful and felt good; I was black and blue all over, but I seldom rode it after I learned it.

five

appendix

I have been reluctant to make things too specific, just pointing out the premise and direction. Just like writing a strategy, I think many details should be left to the players to explore. If you write down how to pursue arrogant MM and how to pursue introverted MM, your thinking will be easily limited. Because of this, something seems to be missing.

Love letters Now you know that love letters can exist or not. If you must write, you must aim at everyone. Tell me your true feelings about her. So I never write love letters to others, because I don't like the MM he likes, and it is difficult to impress MM by writing love letters against my will. I won't help him write it if I like it. Love letters are usually used as "hidden weapons", but in fact they are not as effective as face-to-face attacks. In black and white, you still praise what MM doesn't like in your letter, which is not as flexible as have it both ways's face-to-face observation.