The leader sent me a text message today saying that he wanted to hug me! ! How should I reply? I just entered the institution and don't know how to face this situation!

The' hidden rules' are needles, which are everywhere and pervasive. Even the past cleaning industry has been patronized by' hidden rules'; Even the pure and arrogant female college students in the past, in order to get better jobs and higher treatment, will also encounter the so-called' hidden rules' of company leaders.

In fact, many things have two sides. While we sympathize with the job seekers, we should not forget the job seekers' attitude towards this job. When we condemn some company leaders, we should find out whether there are people who take the initiative to throw themselves at each other. Please note that the current social atmosphere has changed. Many job seekers have an unhealthy mentality in the process of job hunting, and some even exchange their bodies for some decent jobs. ?

In that case, why talk about "hidden rules" is voluntary!

However, I prefer to believe that most women still want face and know self-esteem and shame. Therefore, in this society, there will be more' hidden rules' exposed. This is a good thing, which proves that we are all challenging the unfair side of society.

But then again, why do many women have to encounter' hidden rules'? Why do female job seekers often stand up and say these words after encountering' hidden rules'? Is it out of sympathy or other purposes? Since you have the courage to expose the "hidden rules", why not expose them before being submerged, and why wait until after diving? Just like the Sammu case, why do we have to wait until a girl jumps out and says she was raped, and then more women jump out and say the same thing? Is this following the trend, seeking sympathy or having the courage to expose the first one?

This has to talk about the mentality of female college students when they apply for jobs. ?

Women are under great pressure to find jobs, and any one of us can understand and appreciate it. Therefore, in the process of job hunting, they encounter more difficulties and setbacks. Often in order to get a job, they have to be careful, even smile, and even accept some ambiguous actions and behaviors. Personally, I think that if this female college student has self-esteem and is not affected by work interests, she can slap him with a knife and let these abnormal leaders wake up. Why do you have to suffer from such cowardice and be wronged for a broken job? In a bad mood, how to talk about a good industry? If you are in a bad mood, where can you get a performance? If you can get everything you want by using the' hidden rules', you might as well give it directly to others.

So, no matter what kind of woman, you should think about it. Is our weakness giving these so-called leaders a chance, or are we too eager to get some benefits and give them a chance? If we are quite brave, if we are not afraid of rights, how can they' hidden rules' for you? If you find that the leader has bad intentions, you should leave him a message early to let him know your attitude towards this matter. Then why should he give you "hidden rules"? ?

The reason why women encounter "hidden rules" in various industries and departments is that they are too weak to resist and to take up the necessary weapons to protect their bodies and minds. When it is time to say "no", they should say "no". It is the weakness of most women to be submissive, passive and afraid of the east and the west.

What is a job? What is a small welfare? For a job, for a little profit, let your clean body suffer? You have to swallow it, you have to bear it silently. It's terrible, because women choose silence, so there are more hidden rules in society.

In fact, we should learn to say' no', especially women should learn to say' no' at an appropriate time. When you need to say' no', please say it bravely.

Let the' hidden rules' become history as soon as possible, and return a clean sky to our society. What we need is fresh air. To hell with turbidity.