My stepmother treats me badly. What should I do?

You need to be self-reliant, and whoever is strong in this society will get the most respect. Have you ever found that in a family, whoever earns the most has the highest prestige. You and your lover should try to live a better life, and your stepmother will change her attitude.

Parents' divorce is an unfortunate thing for children, but the decision on this matter lies with parents, and their choices should be respected. It takes time to get along with your stepmother. After a period of time, you have learned something about your stepmother. In this case, you should eliminate the misunderstanding.

I suggest you keep a good attitude and gradually agree with your parents' choices from the heart. You don't have to communicate with your stepmother Sometimes, just a small move can clear up misunderstandings. For example, you can send her a message of blessing when the New Year comes. When you see this message, she will definitely understand your heart.

Everyone has shortcomings, which we must admit. Since she is married to your father, it is inevitable that you are legally obligated to honor her. I know you reject her, but your relationship has become a reality. Try to get used to her and be humble to her. If your father likes her and you love your father, then you should love her appropriately.

In fact, your stepmother's attitude towards you also depends on your father's attitude. If your father is weak and everything is left to your stepmother, you can only bear it, because no one will support you. Unless your mother still loves you and is willing to take you to his family, you can only live like this.

If your father is the stronger party and your stepmother keeps everything from your father, you can confidently tell him these things. Of course, it's better to be tactful, otherwise it's not good for you to cause conflicts between them.

I think if your father still loves you and is very reasonable, then your stepmother will restrain her attitude towards you in the future. Of course, don't expect too much. If she can give you everything you deserve, that's the best result. I hope your family is harmonious.