We graduated, and our girlfriend who has been in love for one year is going abroad.

There are too many variables in the future. Everything is changing. She is far away in America. You are in China. The distance between time and space cannot be ignored. You know it yourself. Your concern is completely reasonable. No one can guarantee anything.

Two years. Not long, not short. No one knows whether the initial pain will gradually become acceptance. This will be the biggest test for both of you. There are too many temptations in this world. So are we. Let it be.

I am studying abroad. Fortunately, I met him in this country. But many friends around me have your problems. They are thousands of miles apart. I have been idle for a long time. After all, it broke up in discord. We are all young people. I don't even know what I want. Too many such temptations have shaken the original end of time. It's just that one side is often more easily shaken than the other. Injury is inevitable. Of course. There are also friends I know. Four or five years can't change the feelings of two people. On the contrary, it is more stable and firm. The final result is bound to be related to the external environment and self-awareness. It ended badly. Double the damage. Pass the test. Double happiness. There are only two endings.

Different people hold different mentality. Some people think that lovers in two places will eventually separate. Still together, just didn't meet a more suitable candidate. That makes sense. Even if you don't go abroad. This kind of situation is still possible. Just going abroad. People around you will be more diverse. The chances of wavering are even greater. I can understand you. I believe that there are definitely not a few people who have the same problem. But ... there's really not much we can do.

Before you go, sit down with her and have a good talk. Don't be too stressed. Don't promise anything. Just relax。 Say something. She went to that strange and fresh country to realize her dream. What you can do now is to believe in her and yourself. Keep a normal heart. Work hard at home while waiting for her to come back. I just want to give myself a burden. Two years is really fast. I hope you can make it to the end. Bless you.