Children are unique to parents.

Children are unique to parents. Children will have different problems at different stages. The baby can't do something at this time. Let's work together to make children have more possibilities. Sharing children with everyone is the only relevant article for parents!

Children are unique to parents. At home, children are unique to parents. For children, parents have devoted all their love and placed infinite expectations. As the saying goes, "it takes ten years to plant trees, but it takes a hundred years to cultivate people." Culture and education are related to a child's life. Therefore, the cultural education of children has become the most important content in parents' daily life.

The shaping of colleges and universities, the cultural education of teachers and the kindness of parents are indispensable for children to succeed. It is said that "parents are their first teachers" and "children are parents' characters". Parents' role models and their own personality characteristics are very harmful to the development trend and individualization of children's psychological state.

Attach great importance to children's happy growth and shape high-quality habitual social morality.

Home is the key activity place for children, and the quality of family environment directly endangers children's health. Establishing a comfortable and warm family environment is the first step of cultural education for children, so that children can feel the warmth of true feelings and shape their mental health.

Although study and training are the key, children's mental health is very important. Don't let children get poor study, training and lifestyle. In life, you don't have to blindly compare and wear famous brands. We should put this psychological state of blind comparison on study, training and exam results. Today, I want to learn from anyone who does well in the exam, and dare to leap forward, so that I will have the courage to compete for the classroom atmosphere.

Children's moral cultivation is particularly important. As we all know, to shape children's moral cultivation, we must first cultivate children's good habits.

Ye Shengtao said: "What is education? A simple sentence is to develop good habits. " Habits are not formed overnight. Once bad habits are formed, you will be killed for life. On the contrary, cultivating a good habit will benefit you for life. Therefore, the formation of a good habit can not be produced by knocking sometimes, but can be gradually improved through long-term training. This requires everyone to work together with teachers and other aspects of energy, urge each other, find problems and deal with them immediately, and do not allow bad habits to grow.

Habit formation is a cultural education to shape good habits, and it is a lifelong cultural education. We know: "Ideas determine personal behavior, personal behavior determines habits, habits determine temperament, temperament determines fate, and fate determines the path of life!" "The power of habit is a powerful, unyielding and great force. Habit, once created, can't be changed in many ways without ten times and a thousand times of energy. Many people's habits can't be changed for a lifetime.

In addition, because parents' own words and deeds do great harm to children, children will also be hurt by them, so we should get rid of our bad habits. Culture educates children to respect the old and love the young, respect teachers, be honest and friendly, and shape the spiritual essence of children's helping others, caring for the collective, unity and cooperation.

Build children's self-confidence alone, with little work pressure and easy work.

It is the expectation of parents to "look forward to the success of children and the success of women". However, if such expectations are beyond the children's tolerance, they will become children's promises and hinder their happy growth. As parents, they don't expect their children to give them expectations and live. There is no need to let children develop at will. Children are under great pressure to study and train, but their parents demand to be the top leader, but they also require her to set goals and make progress hard. Test scores and rankings are always the most concerned things for parents. Since she has passed the exam, her parents should be very happy to celebrate her and tell her to keep on working hard. There is no best, only stronger! If you fail in the exam, you don't have to scold her blindly, motivate her, help her analyze the problem together and correct it immediately. Generally speaking, it is nothing more than ignorance and carelessness. If you don't understand, be sure to let her correct it until you understand; Carelessness can only be urged frequently. Then, the most important thing about carelessness is to correct it yourself.

An exam doesn't mean anything. The road of life is not smooth sailing, there will always be ups and downs. Sound the alarm at the right time and tell her:' There is a sky outside, there is a mountain outside' to usher in the next challenge with a more rounded posture! "

In the child's growth stage, both teachers and parents are children's navigators. In her unconscious situation, everyone should supervise and inspect in strict accordance with the teacher's regulations; When she was in trouble, everyone gave specific guidance. In addition, everyone noticed her shortcomings, strengths and hobbies, and gave correct guidance purposefully. Everyone's goal is not to become famous and have a family for love, but to be more confident and feel the joy of life in future daily life because of their working ability!

Children's hearts are more sensitive, and what seeds are sown, what fruits will be harvested. Therefore, I sincerely hope that my parents can sow beautiful, considerate and friendly seeds. Let beautiful, considerate and friendly flowers bloom in children's hearts, and don't let the psychological state of "expecting children to succeed and expecting women to succeed" become the work pressure of children. Let children learn and train easily, and firmly believe that gold will always shine!

Create a friendly and trusting relationship and correctly guide children to discover the beauty of life.

Make friends with children, play their favorite songs, watch their favorite TV and talk about their favorite topics. Pay attention to them, listen to their voices and open the children's heartstrings. Let her produce things on campus, want to enjoy it with herself, and have no bad feelings about her ideas.

After the study, we should pay attention to let the children release their stress moderately. We should spare an hour to walk and run with them on Sunday night, and use this time to master their spiritual essence, often talk with them and observe their mental and physical changes anytime and anywhere. Because the child is fifteen or sixteen years old, and is in adolescence and adolescence rebellious period. Children at this stage can no longer do what their parents told them as they did when they were young. They will get bored with what they say to their parents, and their communication with their parents will become lower and lower. They often stay alone in the house, playing mobile phones and reading books. Therefore, in communication, parents should pay attention to their children's appropriate suggestions, discuss with their children in urgent matters, slowly give them a lot of independent control, and clearly put forward higher regulations for their children. But one thing to remember: parents have "absolute rights" in some things, fairness is only relative, and children should know the standards that cannot be violated and the insurmountable boundaries.

Naturally, parents should be good at using trivial things in daily life, open their hearts, learn to treat their children with appreciation, be good at capturing the bright spots in her body, develop their children's present and past vertically without comparing their own children with others' children, handle and surpass all the exam results they get in time, let children feel everyone's praise and encouragement, and enhance their self-confidence and good reading habits.

Creating children's physical health and shaping their strong will have always been the top priority of everyone's cultural education. Only excellent people with good health can stand all kinds of tempering in daily life. Finding the beauty around you and being fascinated by it is of great benefit to shaping the noble character of children.

Songs, reading articles, holiday travel and other methods can promote a person's growth education. In the whole process of learning and training traditional musical instruments, we can cultivate children's persistent mentality, and more importantly, we can lead them into the palace of plastic arts, feel the charm of art, read articles-and follow the creators on a spiritual journey in the whole process of frying new articles. During the whole holiday trip, you can not only experience the customs of different personnel departments, but also broaden your children's horizons and minds.

Three generations of gentlemen. The success of children is a long process. In fact, it will take a long time, and it will take a long time. "Spring planting and autumn harvest", as parents, everyone needs to be careful and kind enough to wait for their children to grow up gradually, firmly believing that the whole waiting process is also the process of our common growth. Walking with love, everyone is brave to think about it!

Children are unique to parents. When I got this proposition about education, I thought for a long time before I started writing. Education is a very important topic, which is related to everyone's past experience and future development, from country to nation.

I am in awe of this topic, because my understanding of education is closely related to my family and life experience. I have been engaged in school education and enterprise education for many years, and I am also the father of a girl of 12 years old. I want to express my superficial understanding of this topic and share it with you.

Parents are the first responsible person for children's education.

Everyone receives different education in the process of family growth and social development, but the part of family education is the most important for a person's life. Parents, as guardians, are the first responsible persons for educating their children, and this responsibility will last for a lifetime and cannot be shirked. Any parents who have problems with this principle will not only ruin their children's future, but also regret it for life. As parents, we should do what we can, do what we can, strictly restrain ourselves and set a good example for our children's life.

Family education is an important source of a person's growth and development. The cultural inheritance of the family and the education of parents and relatives are the embryonic form and portrait of children's future adulthood. Today I want to share my two roles in family growth and education-son and father.

As a "son"

The first role (son): I was born in a very traditional China family. My father is a soldier and my mother is a teacher. My parents' personality characteristics and the division of responsibilities in the family are very clear (male is the master and female is the master).

My father's professional characteristics are very strong. He is a soldier, with strong comprehensive ability, outstanding interpersonal communication and work performance, resolute work, strong execution, clear family responsibilities and positioning, and set an example. In daily life, the procurement, handling and storage of household materials such as gas tanks and grain, water and electricity heating (central heating is provided in winter cities in the northern region), installation and maintenance of infrastructure such as furniture and household appliances, and family safety work such as fire prevention, theft prevention and public security in the living environment are arranged in an orderly manner, which makes the family feel at ease. What my father passed on to me is a positive family concept.

He taught me independence, self-confidence, perseverance, courage, decisiveness, courage to take risks, courage to overcome difficulties, enterprising spirit, enthusiasm, extroversion, cheerfulness and generosity, all of which are some excellent qualities that men should possess.

My mother is a senior primary school teacher with 35 years' teaching experience and a math teacher in my primary school. My mother takes her work very seriously. Although she has retired for 2 1 year, the picture of her correcting her homework under the lamp still often appears in my mind.

Maybe it's the characteristics of a math teacher. My mother is very strict in her work, and she has high demands on my study and life. If I have a dispute with others, no matter who is at fault, it is my fault. She will apologize to me and review herself again and again: as a mother, I didn't take good care of my children. My humble attitude, sincere words, and attitude in dealing with such incidents have made me not understand and recognize for many years.

Mother is very strict about the environment and hygiene at home. At that time, there was a sofa at home, and there was a white square "really cool" lace thin cloth embroidered with a picture of Yuanyang playing in the water on the backrest, armrest and cushion of the sofa, but these white cloths in my home were never oily and wrinkled. This state has been maintained for many years, and I still don't know how my mother did it so well.

In the 1980s, there were many children at home. In the era of planned economy, materials were scarce. Whenever the family buys fruit and snacks, the mother will call all the staff to the scene and distribute them according to the standard share. The principle of distribution does not distinguish between age and sex, and the standard is unified.

The unforgettable scene is the distribution of sunflower seeds and peanuts. Before the distribution, it was seriously emphasized that the elder sister is not allowed to eat the younger sister and the elder brother is not allowed to rob the younger brother. Keep the small ones after eating, and keep them for yourself. Brother and sister are not allowed to steal it. If there is any violation, you are welcome to complain, and offenders will be prosecuted. After the warning, we began to use containers of uniform size carefully, and each container was filled once. Several children sat around the table, looking forward to their share. ...

This era has been experienced by my peers, but what my mother passed on to me is the requirements and norms of taking responsibility, respecting rules, insisting on fairness, being generous, living with quality and having a bottom line in behavior. The education my family gave me in this way is practical, a principle that I still adhere to, and a wealth and memory that I can boast about in my family education.

As a "father"

The second role (father): My daughter was born in 2007, and it was a life gift when I was almost thirty years old.

I take the initiative to take care of the baby and nurse it twice a day at night. From the birth of the child until she is one and a half years old. After a long time, it becomes a fixed biological clock and a skilled process. I can open one eye and complete all the procedures quickly with one hand. There were times when I was in a bad mood, but every time I got to a fixed time, I would instinctively jump out of my sleep and finish my work mechanically and efficiently. Every time I want to avoid shirking, I will force myself to say, "This is my child and the continuation of my life. If you don't do it, no one will. "

My daughter left the city where she was born when she was very young and followed me to Shenzhen to work hard. After a busy day, the best way to relax is to play with her. Because I have been engaged in education, I always want to create some miracles in my children's growth.

Interesting educational methods

Since my daughter was two years old, every time before going to bed, I will write Chinese characters with simple strokes on the back of abandoned business cards. Through half a year's game training, she has mastered the recognition and pronunciation of more than 300 Chinese characters. This whimsical "experiment" has surprised me so far.

Since I was five years old, I have often played a game of "night outing" with my daughter, that is, turning off the lights in the bedroom, lying side by side in bed and roaming for several kilometers with the scenes I remember in my mind.

In the process of roaming, you will be asked many details, such as building billboards on the roadside, product categories sold by shops, and even some more detailed contents, including the number of trees and telephone poles, street lamps and banners pulled up on them.

For example, I am the leader of the game, and I asked my daughter as I walked, "Imagine that we start from home, go out of the house, turn right and walk down the first flight of stairs. What is a square red thing on the left side of the stairs at the height above your head? " The daughter thought about it and said that it seemed to be an iron box. Some small advertisements were posted on the door. The surface of the door is made of glass. My father opened the glass door when I was a child and told me what was going on inside. There is a long white water pipe in it, which is used to put out the fire. It was rolled up and hung on an iron post. ...

Broaden horizons and cultivate independence.

In the process of family education, I pay more attention to the practice of children's life autonomy and their cognition of humanities and technology.

On holidays, children will be invited to buy food, prepare ingredients, help cook, set the table, wash the pot and sweep the floor.

When I see a street lamp when I take my child for a walk, I will tell her about the power transmission system in this city; Through the sewer, we will talk about the principle of underground drainage system; On the plane going home for the New Year, we will discuss the influence of troposphere and stratosphere on aircraft safety. In the process of traveling to Inner Mongolia together, we will talk about the process of desert formation and movement; Before the brazier of ancestor worship on New Year's Eve, tell her about the traditional customs and operating procedures of Shaanxi people, and describe the portraits of great-grandparents and the hardships their grandparents experienced in war and life. ...

The significance of family education

Some of the above descriptions are fragments of my own life with my daughter. I wonder if they can inspire you on the road of family education.

Parents who care about family education may not get an excellent child's future, but at least it is beneficial and happy for him. The process of family education is always full of regrets, and it is impossible to perfectly realize parents' ideal wishes.

If children are compared to a blank sheet of paper, what parents can give them is careful writing and description, empathy, sincere friendship, equal respect, free and humble communication, sincere and clear recognition.

Let them easily find their own value and dignity in front of you, and let them gain a sense of security, dependence and affection from their parents effortlessly. This is what we should give as parents, because they are important and the only sustenance and inheritance in our lives.