How to ask girls out to meet?

The purpose of asking a girl out is to let her know you, and the two people have a good impression through chatting. Therefore, you must have a good chance to meet a girl. There are many ways to ask a girl out. Today, I will introduce some problems that need to be paid attention to when asking a girl out. In the process of chatting, observe more, ponder more, guide more, and use suggestive actions to attract each other's attention.

1. Use hints skillfully

When asking a girl out, don't directly say "I'm going to ask you out" or "I'm going out to play", which will make the girl feel that you have a strong sense of distance from her, that you don't respect her very much, and that you are a very casual person. Moreover, if you directly ask the girl if she wants to go out to play together (for example, to eat together), the girl may answer you "yes" or "I'm going" more directly, so she will ignore you. So, if you want to ask a girl out, don't just say "you want to go to dinner together" so that the girl doesn't know what's going on. You seem to really don't want to talk to you, but she won't understand you until you explain to her. Naturally, it's hard to believe that you want to ask her out.

2. Use your circle of friends to ask her out

We often see some boys posting photos of their recent situation or topics they want to try in the circle of friends, so we can take this opportunity to ask a girl out. Of course, you can also choose yourself as a topic, for example, you want to lose weight or make some new friends. At this time, you have to share with a circle of friends. This will not only let the girl know that you are forwarding and praising for her, but also increase the goodwill and familiarity of some new friends who have known you for a while. The most important thing here is that you have to know how to "go with the trend" in order to get it right. Many boys like to make friends because they think it can show themselves and interact with girls. But if you send a circle of friends just to show yourself or chat with each other, it's all wet! Because if you send a circle of friends just to show yourself and just to give each other a message, instead of giving yourself a chance to share it alone, then you will definitely have the opposite effect on the idea that you want to share and communicate with her, thus making the woman feel disgusted. It is understandable!

3. Create an atmosphere in the chat, so that she has the impulse to take the initiative.

When we ask a girl out, we can say "I'm too busy recently, I haven't seen you for a long time" or "I have nothing to do today, and I want to chat with you", which creates a relaxed and pleasant atmosphere. If you can't get her attention immediately, you can say, "I have a friend who is on a business trip in Shanghai today, and now he invites me out to play" or "I'm working late tonight because a friend wants to play with me". In such a chat atmosphere, you will naturally enter the chat.

4. When you make an appointment to meet, you can ask her where she will be, or she can say that she is busy and has no time.

when she says she doesn't have time, you can say that she doesn't have time to go out because of her busy work. Then, after making an appointment for the meeting time and place, you can tell her that it is Monday and Saturday. Ask her out to play several times on this day or Saturday. If you finish your appointment with her on this day or Monday, she may not call you again. The time and place of the appointment must be determined in advance, and girls should not be kept waiting for a long time.

5. Give her some expectations and ask her out, so that she will know that you care about her very much.

This is your trick to ask her out. How can you express your love for her? For example, you can say, "I want to go shopping for dinner, and then can you go with me?" (If not, then don't give me any specific suggestions.) You can say, "Is that okay? If only you could go to dinner with me; If you can go shopping with me, I want to go to the amusement park with you! " Then you will easily enter the conversation, because you know you will have a good chat and you will have a good chat! This is an important point in asking a girl out to meet: you should let her know that you are a very thoughtful person!