My brother-in-law has lived for two years and wants to get married in my new house. I decisively refused, and my wife divorced. Should I leave?

My wife and I went to college together. After graduation, we stayed in the provincial capital to work together. My family's economic conditions are better. When we got married, we bought a three-bedroom new house in full. My wife's family is in the rural area on the outskirts of the county, with average economic conditions. When we got married, her brother happened to be admitted to a university in the provincial capital.

After learning that my brother-in-law was admitted to the provincial capital, my wife told me that I would let my brother-in-law live in my house in the future. But I pay more attention to personal space, so I refused. My wife was very angry about it and didn't talk to me for a long time.

Two years after we got married, the company moved to a new location and gave some people small apartments, and I also had a share. For the convenience of going to work, my wife and I moved to an apartment together. After moving there, my wife took the opportunity to ask me to let her brother live in my house.

I think I can't live for a while anyway, and it makes no sense to refuse again, so I promised her. Her brother moved in soon after we moved out. I told her that her brother could only live in the guest room and had to move out after graduation.

Because of my busy work, I seldom go after moving out. It's that my wife goes to have dinner with her brother every once in a while, and I go occasionally. I'm relieved to see that her brother keeps the room tidy.

Later, when there were more projects in the company, I became busier and busier, and there were fewer and fewer things in the past. Sometimes I even forget that I still have a house by stages, and I don't remember it until I call to ask about the water and electricity property text message every time.

My wife told me that her brother was going to graduate soon. He wanted to find a good job and move out, but he wanted to stay for a while because there was no suitable job for the time being. I think he has lived for almost two years, and there is nothing wrong with staying for a few more months.

Not long after that, my wife suddenly told me that her brother was getting married after work one day. I was shocked and asked her why she was so sudden. I haven't graduated. Did you find a job? How to decorate the wedding room?

The wife said she didn't want to get married in such a hurry, but the girl was pregnant and refused to abort the child anyway. She had to marry her brother, and marriage was a last resort. It is because of the hasty marriage that she intends to let her brother get married in my house, which has another meaning, because the girl always thinks that the house belongs to her brother.

After listening to this, I refused without thinking, saying that this is our new house, and it would be good for him to live for two years. You said that the girl thinks the house belongs to your brother, which means that he often takes her to live there, which is unacceptable to me. Now you still let them get married there? !

The wife said, but I have promised, and the girl is pregnant now, so I can't wait any longer!

I said, didn't you say you had to? It's just an excuse that the house is not his. In short, I will never allow them to get married in my house. And we agreed to move away after graduation, and now it's almost the same!

Who knows that my wife threatened to divorce, saying that I don't like her brother, but I just don't love her! I ignored her, divorce is definitely impossible, but it is absolutely impossible for her brother to get married there! But my wife seems to be possessed by a ghost, and she is annoying me every day!

What should I do?