What if someone on the bus doesn't wear a mask?

When someone does not wear a mask in public, there are two situations. One is that he doesn't want to wear a mask, and the other is that he doesn't wear a mask.

In the case of 1, he doesn't want to wear a mask because he may be infected and feel broken. Or not afraid at all, not afraid is to feel strong.

The second case is that he doesn't have a mask. If he doesn't have a mask, you can give him one if you do. If he still doesn't wear it, that's the case with 1 Stay away from him or have someone check him out. When we are tolerant, we may be able to think from the other person's point of view, even if the other person's point of view seems unreasonable. Think about it carefully, will my sister have her own reasons for not wearing a mask? It may be that the mask is dirty, lost, not bought, reluctant to buy, uncomfortable to wear, and lucky to think that others make a mountain out of a molehill.

What exactly should we do?

Persuade each other with understanding and care:

We don't know what others are like, but this doesn't prevent us from communicating with others in a tone of understanding and concern. You can also add a little humor and self-deprecation, which may make it easier to resolve the embarrassment and preparedness of strangers. For example, "Hey, I feel sulky when I wear a mask, but I respond to the government's call"; "There are dozens of masks, which are really expensive, but they can only be treated in special periods."

Try to avoid criticism:

Even if you are sure that the other party is doing something wrong, try not to criticize and convince others, because this will activate the other party's psychological defense and increase unnecessary communication difficulties. After all, as a citizen with a big picture, our purpose is not to criticize, but to ask the other party to wear a mask. We must defeat the pneumonia virus. So don't put the cart before the horse and forget the original intention, but pay attention to your own mentality and take the ultimate goal as the guide.

Persuade, but don't force:

As ordinary passengers, we have the right to suggest, but we have no compulsory authority. When our persuasion fails, we can ask the subway security personnel to handle it. Although it is true that you can't enter without a mask, it is still the same sentence. It may be much better for security personnel to say it than for us to force others. After all, this is their right.

Do not forget the purpose of persuasion:

Originally, we set out from the truth to achieve a positive goal, but in the end we may forget this initial intention, and the focus will unconsciously become I want to win. I want to prove that I am right. You must listen to me. This kind of subconscious change may not be noticed by ourselves. In dealing with people, if we want to achieve positive intentions, we must follow the laws of human nature. So try not to activate the other person's psychological defense wall, because strong emotions will force the other person to retreat, which is more difficult to convince.