My mother passed away two weeks ago, and my daughter from the same city didn’t find out. How can I take care of them if she doesn’t live with her parents after marriage?

Two weeks after her mother passed away, her daughter in the same city didn’t even notice. The news broke online two days ago. This also reflects some problems between children and parents. Today we are going to share with you how to take care of your parents while not living with them after marriage.

1. Regular contact

The first is to visit and contact more. In this news, it was because the daughter had not contacted her mother for a long time that her mother's death was not discovered for two weeks. Therefore, if we want to be filial to our parents and take care of them, we must contact them more often. We should call them at least 2 to 3 times a week, and come back to visit them once a week. If the distance is far away, we can come back once a month. But there must be no less phone calls 2 to 3 times a week. This can not only let them report that they are safe, but also reassure them about their life outside.

2. Install surveillance at home

The second is to install surveillance at home. Because electronic products are now very developed and there are many types of them, if we really don’t trust the elderly to live at home by themselves, we can choose to install several monitors for them in our parents’ homes and then control them remotely ourselves. What’s the point of this? Things can also be discovered in time through monitoring, and parents can be helped to deal with unexpected things.

3. Entrusting neighbors to take care of the elderly

Whether parents live in rural areas or in urban communities, there will be some neighbors around them. We can ask these neighbors to help take care of the elderly. If something happens, you can give us a call in time. You can buy something for your neighbor during holidays, or recharge his phone bill on weekdays. In this way, your neighbor will be more willing to help, and with the help of your neighbor, you will feel more at ease.

So from the above points, if we don’t live with our parents, there are many ways to take care of them. As long as we want to be filial to our parents, distance and time are not enough to be a stumbling block for us.