The girl I like sends her a message on holiday saying that I can't go out with boys.

First, she may be busy after the holiday, or playing with friends, and can't reply to you in time, or she may not have her mobile phone with her, or she is unhappy and doesn't want to chat with anyone.

Second, if she doesn't reply to you after the holiday, you should reflect on how your relationship is. We have a good relationship, but we haven't reached the point of falling in love, or you are very hot, and other girls have always been cold to you. You should think about it.

Third, how much do you know about her and what kind of girl she is. Some girls will chat with some boys on WeChat, because she is bored and lonely. She just regards boys as a tool to kill loneliness, so she won't reply to you because she doesn't need you.

Fourth, you can try to send a red envelope with the remark "Waiting for the goddess to appear". Note: The amount of a red envelope generally does not exceed 10. The common fault of modern people is obsessive-compulsive disorder at the sight of red envelopes. So in the next chat, you should chat with her in a humorous way: for example, after waiting for so long, your beard will turn white and your expression will be shy. Remember, don't pester or question too much.

Fifth, since she told you that she doesn't have a boyfriend, it means that you still have a good impression on her, but you just haven't reached her ideal. So you should establish your core attraction and value: including appearance, occupation or study, hobbies, emotional intelligence, personality background and sense of humor. The comprehensive score formed by these six aspects is your own value.

Sixth, in fact, you don't have to pay too much attention to her reply and make yourself like hurt locker. It is very worthless to follow the trend. There is a good saying: don't chase a horse, you spend the time chasing horses on planting grass, and when spring blossoms, there will be a number of good horses for you to choose from. Remember: it is better to enrich yourself than to judge others!

Finally, enhancing your own value is the right way. I wish you find your own happy life as soon as possible!