How to deal with students who give gifts to teachers on Teachers' Day?

Teacher's Day is coming, are you also considering one thing-do you want to send some gifts to the teacher to show your heart? Today, I will share some practical skills and minefields with you.

1 Skills of building a good relationship with teachers

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Teacher's Day is a natural gift, but you can't give it every holiday, which will make your wallet very nervous.

A better way is to choose two festivals to give gifts to teachers besides Teachers' Day, such as Dragon Boat Festival and Spring Festival, because the time span between these two festivals and Teachers' Day is relatively balanced and not too concentrated. Some parents will change the Dragon Boat Festival to the teacher's birthday, which is more thoughtful. During the winter and summer vacations, school teachers will visit their homes, which is not bad at this time. The reason is well known.

In short, gifts don't need to be sent too often, but it also makes teachers feel that parents are passing on their hearts all year round.

2. Scale

The scale varies from person to person. Shou Shoujun suggested that giving gifts to teachers should not be expensive, but it must be innovative.

There is a simple reason. If the price is expensive this time, it will only be more expensive next time. Expensive gifts will make teachers feel hot. Therefore, the value of gifts should not be very high at first, just follow the market and then rise slightly.

So what is the scale of "going with the market"? The economic situation varies from place to place. According to Shoujun's survey among parents in Shanghai, Beijing, Guangzhou, Hangzhou and other big cities yesterday, it should be no less than 500 yuan. Of course, if you are a local tyrant, it is out of the scope of discussion. Shoujun has heard that his parents take one brand-name bag at a time, or send his teacher's whole family on an outbound tour.

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As I said just now, the gift doesn't have to be expensive, but it's better to be original.

This sentence can be understood from two levels:

First, if you can't think of innovative gifts, then shopping cards and gift certificates are the best choice, with wide application, small size and clear price.

Second, if you know the teacher's preferences (intellectual work is very important), for example, female teachers of literary models can send tickets for popular performances, bags and scarves of cutting-edge designers can send fashionable and great tickets for parent-child amusement, and male teachers can send dazzling digital products ... In short, within your budget, the gifts you send also represent the teacher's taste, and you are absolutely happy to send them right.

Step 4: Method

This is very important! The first three points are correct, and this mistake is not a success.

Xiao Fanma's son is in the second grade of primary school this year. Her practice is to ask her son to draw a greeting card for the teacher personally every year on Teacher's Day, and then quietly put a 500 yuan-denominated transportation card in the greeting card and let him take it to school and give it to the teacher. It's been going well.

However, once I met a teacher. She received a greeting card, but put the transportation card in a small notebook for her son to bring back, which made Fan Xiao's mother very headache. In a few days, it will be the Mid-Autumn Festival. I wanted to buy a box of moon cakes, but I thought it was too big and my son was too ostentatious to carry it. She thought about it, tried to buy a can of high-quality tea with exquisite packaging, wrote a greeting card herself and sent it to school by express delivery. Only the mobile phone was left in the sender column, and the name was scribbled to ensure that others could not recognize it. That night, she received a thank-you letter from the teacher, indicating that the gift had been accepted.

In Shou Jun's survey, many parents and even teachers think that "express delivery to school" is a better way than "sending children to the teacher" and "sending them directly to the teacher". The reason is very simple. If you deliver it in person, it will be awkward if you push it around. If children are allowed to take them to teachers, on the one hand, they will be exposed to the more secular things such as "gift giving" prematurely; On the other hand, children who are not sensible are likely to seize the bad opportunity given to them and put the gifts on the teacher's desk with a big smile when the office is noisy. "My mother asked me to give them to you." Do you think the teacher will accept them?

Come on, to sum up, how can we give gifts in a more subtle way ~

You can put it in your child's schoolbag, and then send a text message or WeChat to the teacher for him to pick it up. This method is more suitable for kindergartens. If the things are still there when the children come back, it means that the teacher may have fallen, and there is no need to force it.

Pick up the baby after school at night, stay and chat with the teacher, and give the gift to the teacher when no one is around, but be careful not to let the children see it.

Express delivery to school, never write your name, the more vague the information, the better, and the teacher will naturally know who sent the card when he sees it.

Put it directly in the guard room, write down the name and phone number of the receiving teacher, and don't sign it. Send a message back to the teacher to remind her to accept it.

Generally, teachers' day and Mid-Autumn Festival are close each year, so you can choose to send them in the Mid-Autumn Festival.

If there is more than one teacher, you can entrust a more familiar teacher to send it to you. This method is more suitable for kindergartens.

However, even if it is a face-to-face gift, remember not to say the following words when giving gifts-

1. "Teacher, you must accept this gift. I heard that miyoshi students will be selected soon. Do you think you can help our children fight for it? "

2. "Teacher, I think you are much better than my children's kindergarten teacher. I also give them presents. I have always respected my teachers, but they are not much better for my children after accepting them ... "

3. "Teacher, our family's economic situation is very ordinary. I bought this supermarket card in 500 yuan specially. You must keep it! "

2 Seven principles of giving gifts to teachers

1. What to give is secondary, and the attitude of giving gifts should be correct. Everything you send is secondary, whether you send it or not is secondary, but you really respect the teacher in your heart. Really cooperate with teachers' teaching work and really cultivate children's basic quality and study habits. Although the salary of teachers is not high now, they will not value and care about your gift/shopping card.

2. Gifts are forbidden by the school and the Education Committee, so be clever. Here we share the experiences of several mothers we interviewed for your reference. Send seasonal fruits and flowers to teachers and send them directly to school/home through the shopping platform. Parents don't come forward, just call the teacher/send a WeChat before placing an order. Don't send a lot of things to school in a big package. Even if the teacher doesn't mind receiving gifts, you will make everyone feel scared.

3. The class teacher is very important, but it must be "rain and dew". It is said that the head teacher is important, but isn't the teacher important? If you want to send it, you need a bowl of water. Experienced mothers do this: buy good things for teachers, send them to the school by courier (in several copies), and the class teacher will convey them to the classroom teacher. That is to take care of the face of the class teacher and the feelings of all teachers.

Don't let the children know about the gift. The smartest gift-giving parents won't let their children know that they are giving gifts to their children. These days, parents are paving the way for their children's world and the world (or a little bit). When you give a gift to the teacher, you respect the teacher, but don't tell the children in a big way, and don't complain and criticize the teacher's immorality. Do you not accept gifts in life? You are tougher than the teacher in everything others ask you to do, aren't you?

You and your teacher are strategic allies, don't follow others' advice. You and the teacher are strategic allies, and cooperation can better teach children. Parents cooperate with teachers, teachers take care of children, and children get more opportunities. Never pretend to be grovelling in front of the teacher and call the teacher inhuman/uneducated/uneducated behind his back. Why send your children to school when you have the ability to do it yourself?

6. Why do you want to find out the fundamental problem of giving gifts? Why did you send it? Taking care of the children for the teacher? Or do you feel uneasy when you look at others? Find out why, and you won't have to send it on Teacher's Day. Mid-Autumn Festival, National Day and even every day. After all, isn't giving gifts just to make teachers remember you, remember your children, be more tolerant of your children and help your children get more opportunities?

7. courtesy is light and affection is heavy, and long-term fishing is big. It takes a long time for children to grow up, and so does communication with teachers. You can't take care of your whole primary school by spending a lot of money at once. The strategy of long-term fishing for big fish is the most suitable in communication with teachers, not only in communication with teachers, but also in falling in love, being a customer and accompanying children to grow up.