We broke up, but last night I dreamed that she was talking! You sent me a WeChat. What do you mean?

For women, "ex" is a hurdle. If you say you love her, but refuse to draw a line with her ex, or even contact her ex often, such a man will make a woman feel insecure and make her not know how to continue this relationship.

Some men may think it's just a trivial matter. He just keeps in touch with his predecessor and does nothing else. How can he not tolerate it? When you say that, you are ignoring a woman's psychological feelings. What she cares about is not your predecessor, but your attitude towards her.

If you love her, you will naturally deal with your previous emotional entanglements, including your relationship with your ex, before you fall in love with her. If you don't love her so much, you won't think so much, just think that she makes a mountain out of a molehill.

You have to remember that a man's attitude towards his ex determines how much he loves you, really.

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He broke up with his predecessor, which shows that he doesn't care about your feelings.

I believe many girls have encountered such a situation. Obviously, he is his girlfriend, but he has been dating his ex, and he doesn't care about his feelings at all.

Whenever this happens, I will always be wronged. You mentioned it to him many times, but he didn't take it seriously. It just means he doesn't love you that much, so it doesn't matter.

Xinxin's last relationship was because her predecessor broke up. At that time, she didn't know that the other party had contact with her predecessor. Once she knew, the other party kept saying that two people were just ordinary friends and could not be partners or friends. There was no need to be a stranger, so Xinxin believed him.

However, the later situation made Xinxin doubt her vision. Did he break up with his predecessor, or did he not care about himself at all? Did he choose the wrong one?

If you only keep in touch with your ex occasionally, then every time your ex has something, he will find a happy boyfriend, and this boyfriend will quickly ask her for help and make her unhappy.

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He will tell you and your predecessor everything in advance, which shows that he cares about you.

Why do women care about their predecessors? It is not that she is stingy or intolerant, but that she knows that as long as there is an ex, there will be some threats that will make her feel uncomfortable.

If two people fall in love, the man never mentions his predecessor, and the contact with his predecessor is always secret, which will make her think more; She will be more considerate if you can tell her in advance and explain everything to her.

What she cares about is your attitude, not her predecessor. To a great extent, how you treat your ex also determines how you will love her. This is the point of her struggle.

He distanced himself from his predecessor, indicating that he only wanted to be with you.

I always feel that people who really loved can't be friends with their predecessors, and those who say they want to be friends.

Most of them are unforgettable old feelings, and they don't want to completely break contact, so they still keep her contact information. I hope that if there is an opportunity, two people can chat and meet like friends, but can you guarantee that there will be no problem in your chat and meeting?

If you are single, it is no problem for you to get your ex back, but when you already have a current job, you should handle the relationship with your ex well and don't let the current job misunderstand you.

Don't think it's a pity to lose contact with your ex, or that you can't forget it completely. It just means that you don't really love your present job. If you just want to stay with your current job wholeheartedly, then you will naturally draw a line with your predecessor, because you have your own happiness and there is no need to contact your predecessor again.

Many times, it's not that you can't do it, but that you don't love enough. If you really love her, you will think of her and don't want her to be wronged.

A man's attitude towards his ex determines how much he loves you, really.

If he still keeps in touch with his predecessor, it only shows that he doesn't care about you; If he tells him and his predecessor in advance, it means that he still cares about you in his heart; If he is completely out of touch with his predecessor, it means that he only has you in his heart.

Why do women regard their predecessors as a hurdle? However, it is because too many men let them down. They said it had nothing to do with their predecessors. They are just ordinary friends, but they are chatting behind your back. Even if anything happened to my predecessor, he was the first to help. How can such a relationship not make women think more?

People who really love you will definitely draw a line with their predecessors. The past is the past, and what he cares about is the present and the future. He won't ignore this more important person because of the past.