Can ordinary boys reply to girls' messages in seconds?

Seconds back may be one of the manifestations of liking a person, but it cannot be used as an absolute standard. Here are some possible reasons for a person's second return:

Anxiety or urgency: Some people may need to reply to information in a short time to avoid missing important information or events. In this case, it doesn't mean that a person likes each other.

Personal preference: Some people may prefer to reply to messages quickly because they like to keep in touch or feel that they will lose motivation if they wait too long. This behavior doesn't necessarily mean that they like each other.

Social etiquette: Some people think it is polite to reply to messages in time, which is a code of conduct that needs education in social occasions. In this case, it doesn't necessarily mean that they like each other, just follow the etiquette.

Liking: When a person likes another person, he may be more willing to keep in touch with them and reply to information as soon as possible to maintain interaction. In this case, a person's second return may be a way to express love, but this is not absolute.

People who do nothing all day: they will have time to come back.

If you want a second, you must first meet one condition, that is, you are watching your mobile phone every second. However, modern people are generally busy at work and have time to browse WeChat in their leisure time, which is simply impossible. The only people who can satisfy this are those who have nothing to do.

A person can answer you in seconds, not necessarily because he cares about you, but also because he is too idle. He plays with his mobile phone all the time, so he can always reply to your message as soon as possible and even talk to you all night.

Perhaps, you are just one of his chat objects. When you are busy with your work, he may have become someone else's soul mate, but you just didn't find it.

Therefore, we must be careful of those who come back every second to avoid meeting men who are not doing their jobs. Be more careful of those who reply to everyone in seconds, so as not to encounter people who are not experienced in feelings and let themselves suffer.

Likable personality: I will force myself to return for a second.

Many people will feel bombarded by all kinds of news and want to turn off all the chat tools at once, but as soon as WeChat rings, you will reply as soon as possible, because you don't want to offend anyone.

Psychologically speaking, this belongs to a pleasant personality category. They don't want to affect other people's impressions, and they are afraid of affecting their relationship, so they would rather force themselves to go back for a second.

But such people often do not treat others sincerely, but have to reply out of courtesy. In other words, in the other person's mind, you are not necessarily the most important person, but the object he wants to please.

A really good relationship should be relaxed, not flattering each other like wearing a mask. This kind of relationship lacks realism, and the feelings of each other will always stay on the surface, which is difficult to last for a long time and will not make you really warm.

Therefore, there is no need to be complacent when being answered by others, but also learn to judge each other's motives.

A pleasant person will please you in everything, repay you at all times, and take the initiative to obey you whenever possible.

To sum up, a person's second return can't be regarded as the standard of absolutely liking a person, because this behavior may be influenced by many factors. Therefore, if you want to determine whether a person likes you, you'd better observe their behavior and attitude in other ways, not just by the speed at which they reply to information.