Am I a little strange? When you like a boy, you may send him dozens of short messages a day, sometimes not for half a month or a month.

When a woman falls in love, she wants to be the only one for a man. How to make him only love you and how to make him only have you in his heart is the answer she wants to know most.

For a man, his world is vast. He won't focus on feelings, and he won't just focus on you. He will pursue the world he wants.

And women, in order to catch him, usually take a humble way, that is, please. She mistakenly thinks that as long as she is kind to her without reservation and asks for nothing in return, he will naturally regard himself as his only one, but is this really the case?

More often, the more you please, the more disgusted he is, the closer you get, the more he evades, and your flattery becomes his burden.

In fact, if you want a man to love you only, you don't need to please him. These three points are enough.

First, keep the mystery.

In love, you need something fresh and mysterious. You may think that you love someone without reservation. That's true, but there's no need to show all your cards at the beginning of love. You can let him know your kindness slowly, so that he will cherish it more.

Don't let him think that your eyes are everything. Everyone likes new things, and you are no exception. When he is tired of this relationship, this is the beginning of your disillusionment. The only way to keep fresh is to remain mysterious and let him see surprises forever.

Second, don't get too close to him.

Many women forget a truth. The more inseparable he is, the less he will cherish it. The less you care, the more afraid he is of you leaving.

Love requires skill. You can't just rely on brute force to make him love you, and don't feel attached to him every day, so as to keep his heart. In fact, if he wants to leave, he will leave anyway. Instead of sticking to him, let go, don't get too close to him, keep a proper distance, and let him see your goodness.

Like two people together for a long time, always feel bored. When you go out for a period of time, or travel, or business trip, and then go home, you will feel very cordial when you see him, and you will be reluctant to leave.

So, give love a holiday from time to time, and you may get more surprises. You can try if you don't believe me.

Third, release him.

What do men fear most? Be restrained, even if he loves you again, restraint is a bad experience, especially when there is no room at all.

Smart women don't do that. She knows how to give each other a certain space and give him the freedom he wants. When he should be bored together, when he should have his own circle, he should play with friends, so it will be easier to get along.

Don't always think about it. Leave him alone. What if he leaves you? Leave him alone. What if he likes others? But you forget that being too tight is also an inappropriate way, which often backfires and makes him feel that he is not free in this love. How can he cherish you?

In fact, two people in love are independent, giving him freedom and giving you freedom. Even if you are in love, you are an independent individual and need to have your own life. The more independent you are, the more he likes you.

If you want a man to love you only, it is useless to be humble and please, he will only take it lightly.

Only when you learn some love skills, will he regard you as the only one, will he be reluctant to leave you, keep his mystery, don't get too close to him, and let him be free at the same time, and you will reap different love.

Feelings are mutual, and no one is going to please. When you understand this truth, you will know how to do it.