I quarreled with my parents, but my mother often sent me messages. Why?

Every parent loves their children very much, and there is no overnight feud.

Although you quarreled with your parents, the whole family didn't care so much. Your parents' deep love for you can't be shaken by a quarrel, and it is often because of the contradiction between you and your parents. As a mother, you may calm down and think better, whether you are both wrong and more careful, but you are more concerned about your life, whether you have life problems due to contradictions, and so on.

I remember I had several conflicts with my parents, one of which was in the morning. Maybe it was because my parents were not used to my life, so I had conflicts with them. I left in a hurry because I had to go to work. Maybe I calmed down and thought about it. Maybe I was wrong. My parents might feel too grumpy, so before I went to work, my mother called me and asked me how my trip was. At noon, they asked me how I was eating. In the past, maybe my parents didn't ask me every day, let alone call me several times a day. Maybe they found their own problems and called me.

In fact, your mother loves you very much. In order to live up to her love for you, I suggest you learn to put yourself in the other's shoes when you have a conflict with your parents next time. Generally speaking, you should consider the problem from the other side's point of view. As the saying goes, all roads lead to Rome, and everything has many sides, so you should understand your parents' thoughts more.

On the other hand, even if we have conflicts with our parents, even if our parents don't admit their mistakes, they will still care about our lives. I remember one afternoon, we had a conflict with our parents because of a matter about interpersonal communication, because our opinions were very different. However, our family didn't have the habit of doing things, and finally we broke up, but my parents also made my share at dinner, so I naturally sat down to eat together.

So in any case, parents' love for us is our nature, which cannot be changed. No matter how fierce the contradiction is, the love in our parents' hearts will never change.