How to politely refuse a blind date introduced by others

1. Tell the introducer directly

If the situation stated by the introducer is very different from our expectations, we might as well make it clear to the introducer directly in person and ask the introducer to go back Telling our blind date saves unnecessary effort.

2. Find a suitable excuse

It is not so easy to refuse after we have contact information, but we can still find excuses to refuse him/her. For example, our parents think that we Inappropriate, such as not having the same topic, etc. Appropriate rejection can make your own life more comfortable and not delay the lives of others. This is a skill that everyone needs to learn.

3. Send messages

If you feel embarrassed to refuse others in person, you can end the blind date as soon as possible, and then refuse directly by sending text messages or WeChat when you get home, such as Said: Sorry, I think we are not suitable.

4. Say politely that you don’t want to fall in love

Sometimes people may feel that direct rejection will hurt others, so at this time they can politely refuse. We can say: In fact, I went to the blind date party because of pressure from my family. My current focus is not on dating, falling in love, or even getting married and having children. And I also hope that my blind date can find a better person to spend the rest of my life with, but I am not suitable for my blind date. A polite refusal can express your thoughts and leave a better impression at the same time.

5. Say it directly

For boys, girls rarely take the initiative in blind dates. Cold treatment is not the best way. It is best to say it directly, or It's better to ask a girl out for a chat. Girls hate being treated coldly, which makes people feel irresponsible. In fact, you can tell your real thoughts directly. After all, this kind of thing is about your own consent.