I had a quarrel with my girlfriend. I apologized. She said she wasn't angry. But she ignored me for 20 days, and kept sending messages and not returning to me, for fear of her.

I can guess some realities. First of all, the frequency of your quarrel should not be very low, and second, the reason for your quarrel. Do you feel bloody and unnecessary, or even say that you, as a man, need to be wronged like this? I'm just recalling my past. No matter who is right or wrong, if you can't contact for a long time, you must want to let go. You can also call it observation first. But even if it is a long-distance relationship, as long as the feelings are there, it will not be out of touch for a long time.

For you, you must not want to let go now. But I'm sure that if you want to get her back now, you must make a change that will make her shine. For men, this so-called change of women is basically self-motivation, or the ability to change their lives. Judging from your performance, you must feel very young. A lot of things, learn slowly.

Now you can meet her face to face, take her out for dinner, bring some petty bourgeoisie, and show more concern and gentleness, but don't mention the matter of getting back together, otherwise she will either say that she has not decided yet, or she will be impatient, and then you will quarrel again and break up directly.

Take her for a walk after dinner. Try to hold her in the hands of a lesbian. If she doesn't want to, try to accompany her home and shout out her love at the gate when she goes upstairs. If you are still so cold, you should consider changing your future and learn to let go of this relationship.

good luck