How to deal with being harassed by someone of the same sex~~~

Category: Troubles gt; gt; Campus Life

Problem description:

I am a college student, male, 23 years old. Let me first declare that I am heterosexual. I have no interest in men and am very distressed now. . . Because I was actually harassed by a male classmate in class. . . Extremely distressed. . . Extremely depressed. . .

That guy follows me all day long when I have nothing to do. When I go to eat, he goes to eat and has to sit next to me (even if I am in the crowd and there is no room for him, he still has to sit Not far away, he watched me like a prisoner. Even if he had finished eating early, he would wait until I finished eating before following me. He also participated in club activities and played basketball, and would still watch me play from the side. (It doesn’t matter if it’s mm, it’s so disgusting to be followed by a man). There are countless boring little tricks that I usually do in class, and it makes me sick just thinking about it. .

I didn’t feel it at first, because everyone was a man and didn’t think about it. But as time went by, I felt more and more wrong. I felt like there were eyes staring at me, and it was cold. . .

It seems that things have gotten worse recently, and you have to call me from time to time. On QQ, there are more and more harassments via text messages. . . Since we are classmates and we are all adults, I don’t want to use violence to solve this problem (it won’t be an easy punishment). . . I don't know what to do, can anyone give me some advice? . .

Analysis:

You should not always avoid him, but should have a good chat with him.

This way you can know what he is thinking. Maybe what he is thinking is not what you think.

Only by understanding him can you know his purpose. Maybe I admire you, maybe I want to be your buddy, maybe I want to ask you something.

Even if he is really gay as you said, don't worry. It's easy to get rid of him.

1: Time-consuming method, let him participate in more club activities, let him play online games, trick him into finding a girlfriend, etc. This way he won't have time to follow you anymore, which will make him very busy.

2: Bullying and intimidation method. Every time he is with you, you always bully him and find trouble with him. Find a few people to scare him and tell him that if he follows you again, he will...*...*...*...so that he will feel bullied and scared when he sees you.

3: Psychotherapy, guide him to see a psychiatrist.

4:…………

5:…………

There are many ways, so I won’t go into details here.