A letter to the son-in-law?

Son-in-law is a title that refers to "the daughter's husband". Parents want their daughter to marry a good husband and give her a good life, so parents-in-law must keep their mouths shut about their son-in-law. Below I have compiled the model essays for your reference!

Fan Wenyi

Son-in-law:

You are our son-in-law from today. China has a saying; A son-in-law is like half a son. We only have one daughter, Dandan. Your marriage gave us a son instead of half a son. We will love and care for you as much as we love Dandan. From then on, we are a family. A family should care for each other, love each other and tolerate each other, so that the family will be harmonious and happy!

In this vast world, you are destined to come together, it is really destiny takes a hand. Dandan has no brothers or sisters, so you married her. From then on, she not only had a reliable husband, but also a brother. I hope you can love her, care about her, and build your family with your manly strength, sense of responsibility and generosity-let your family prosper! Your happiness is our happiness! Your happiness is our happiness!

Dandan is a smart, studious and responsible girl, but no one is perfect. I hope you can live in harmony, understand each other, learn from each other's strengths and reach an agreement through continuous communication, so that your family can become your happy harbor!

After getting along these months, I can see that you are a self-loving, careful and sensible young man. I can also see that Danny's father and I care about you. Although Dandan's father is a chief physician and a university professor, he is not arrogant at all. He loves his family and children, and he hardly thinks about the happiness of his children. You should know how to cherish all this!

Love is romantic and marriage is realistic. It is not easy for two people from different families and different life backgrounds to come together and live together. Running a family and marriage is a lifetime thing. You should be wise, loving and tolerant. I believe that with your maturity, tolerance and social experience, you will be able to resolve the contradictions and conflicts in your life with Dandan. These contradictions and conflicts will occur in all families, and the way to solve them determines things.

Finally, I will give you a passage from the Bible: Love is patient and kind; Love is not jealous, love is not boastful, not arrogant, not doing shy things, not seeking its own benefits, not getting angry easily, not being evil, not liking injustice, only liking truth; Everything is tolerant, everything is believed, everything is hoped, everything is patient, and love never stops. I like this passage very much. It always reminds me how to love my family.

I sincerely wish you happiness forever!

Love you forever!

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Fan wener

Dear son-in-law:

Our daughter grew up with our care and love. I'm in love with you. You should take good care of her. Love is beautiful, but it is not easy to get along. I hope you can understand and understand each other and work together to build your own small family. Others put forward several points on the internet. I will revise them and send them to you. They are only suggestions, not mandatory!

1 Be cautious about premarital sex and pay attention to contraception when you don't want children. Sexual behavior is one of the ways to express love. There is no question of who bullies who, but if my daughter doesn't want to, please don't introduce extreme behaviors such as SM.

It is best for both parents to meet before marriage. If your parents are old-fashioned and insist that your marriage is not to establish their own small family, but that my daughter is going to marry into your parents' house and become a member of a big family, we suggest that her daughter break up.

After marriage, you should live in Zhejiang instead of going to your hometown or other remote areas. Neither we nor my daughter can accept this. If you can't buy a house for the time being, you can live in the house I bought for my daughter. I may choose to live near my daughter after she gets married, so that I can take care of her. I don't think you will object.

The wedding will be held at home in the way my daughter likes. You can hold it again in your hometown according to your custom. No bride price, a certain dowry. The matter of buying a house and decorating it is decided by your husband and wife through consultation, and it is strictly forbidden for both parents to participate or make suggestions.

You can't live with your parents after marriage. Give birth to a child and have a confinement. Please take good care of the confinement. Under my supervision, your parents can come to see the child without paying.

My daughter and I supervise the nanny to take care of the children. My daughter may not be a stay-at-home mom. If she goes to work, she will ensure a certain time to interact with her children after work every day, and you need to do the same.

6. The child has your surname, but if your surname is Cao or Cao, the child will have my daughter's surname.

7. Your parents are served by you in their later years, and your daughter can only visit three times a year. My husband and wife don't need to support the elderly, but we hope to keep in touch with our daughter more.

8. Divorced children will always belong to you, not my family.

9, cheating, divorce, you may be murdered by me, such as adding estrogen to food, so don't cheat.

10, the family income is managed by you. You should make reasonable arrangements to ensure the normal implementation of the family.

1 1 The money for honoring parents should not exceed 5% of the income of small families.

12 in principle, only one child is born after marriage, and a daughter can be born if it is a boy.

13 daughter's right to further education needs to be guaranteed. If she needs to study and further study, you must not object. Divorce if you disagree

There are other requirements that I don't need to ask my son-in-law. These are the basic requirements for our husband and wife. If they don't meet the requirements, they can't become son-in-law.

1 People in or near the Yangtze River Delta cannot live in the countryside if their homes are not in the Yangtze River Delta.

2 The ideal height should not exceed 180, 170- 175.

3 Only child.

4 Regardless of parents' divorce.

5 parents can't have more than five brothers and sisters.

Close relatives should not have genetic diseases that are not suitable for marriage, such as schizophrenia and epilepsy.

7 I will slowly supplement the rest!

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Fan Wensan

Future son-in-law:

Hello!

First, let me introduce myself. I am the mother of your future daughter-in-law, your mother-in-law!

I am glad to have the opportunity to write this letter to you.

Maybe you will feel strange, why write a letter? You can call! Now the information is so developed, but unfortunately I don't know your phone number, so I have to adopt this old method, which is also more suitable for elderly people like us. I hope you don't mind, let alone feel that your mother-in-law is OUT, because retro is popular now! Fashion is samsara, I hope you can also like this way of communication.

Maybe I will be wordy, because when I am old, I often forget what I said and talk endlessly. I hope you can forgive me.

I can know, meet, get to know each other and fall in love with the apple of my eye. It's a rare fate * * * Note that I'm talking about fate and fate, not monkey's "ape dung" * * *, crossing the boat for ten years and sleeping for a hundred years. How many years have you been repairing this? I don't know if you like my way of speaking. If you don't like it, please understand, because I have been saying this for decades. Besides, you are a mistress, please tolerate me as an old woman! Hmm. How interesting

Thank you very much for your parents' hard work in raising you and cultivating you into a pillar of the motherland. You must be filial to your parents. Of course, I have taught my daughter the old adage that "filial piety comes first" since I was a child, and she will love your parents as much as her own. I also hope that your parents will love my daughter as a son. This is what I expect and hope to see. Of course, you need to do bridge work. Because I've seen too many sons who don't know the way of the world are all thumbs in dealing with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, I hope you can practice this skill first, because I don't want the apple of my eye to be wronged at all after marrying you. I will ask you to make a public commitment at the wedding. I hope you can understand how we feel as parents, because one day you will be a father and understand how parents feel.

My daughter is not very outstanding in appearance, but generous and decent; Although she doesn't have a high degree, she is knowledgeable; Although there is no solid family economic condition, she grew up under the care of her parents. She has the most wealth in the world, that is love! We gave all our love to her, this little tree watered with love, hoping to get more love and let her grow into a towering tree. You will continue to help us finish this task. Although she doesn't come from a powerful family, she has a kind heart. I believe you can feel the power of this heart!

Although she can be a little impatient sometimes, I hope you can tolerate her a little more. After all, she is a woman! Men should be born with the same mind as the sea, I think you must be like this!

I hope you can love my daughter wholeheartedly, because she chose you, because she loves you, and our parents will not object to your choice, because your future life needs you to go by yourself. You must remember that any decision you make now will determine your future journey. No matter what path you choose, you must bear the future results. When others give you advice, you can refer to it, because the ancients said, "Listen to others." ***。 I believe my baby chose you because he really loves you and wants to spend the rest of his life with you. I hope you love each other, help each other and go your own way. I hope that when we leave, we can leave with a smile and peace of mind. I hope you can take this as the most important mission in your life. I will be very grateful!

You still have a long way to go. I hope everyone can communicate more. Many misunderstandings and contradictions are caused by poor communication. I sincerely hope to see the loving scene of your mutual respect and love.

There is also a small request, I hope your home is not too far away from my home and your parents' home, so that I don't have to spend a lot of time on the road when I miss my daughter and parents, and it is convenient for you to come back and see us when you miss us occasionally.

Well, having said so much, thank you very much for your patience and tolerance.

I wish you smooth work, harmonious feelings and happiness every day!

Give my regards to my in-laws and wish them health and happiness!

mother-in-law

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