Raiders to save love: if you save love.

Lead: After breaking up, most people will be very sad, as if they have lost an important part of their lives. You tried to send a lot of apology messages and tell each other all the sentences you can think of to save them, but the effect was not satisfactory. You swore, begged and even launched a gentle offensive, and the other party left without looking back. Why can't you save each other after saying so many touching words? Why can others save each other's love by SMS, but you can't? Why do people change their minds just by saying a few words?

The answer to all this is because those people know how to send the right message at the right time, say the most effective words at the right time, say different words on different occasions and use different skills and methods. Let me share some ways to improve the effect of saving messages and sentences.

First of all, you can't send your saved text messages casually. It's not that you see some touching sentences or some sentences that others use to save, and then you copy them directly and send them to each other. Yes, you are really moved by these sentences, but only yourself. Can these sentences really touch each other? When sending these salvage messages, we must distinguish the situations, and the messages sent in different situations are different. Let me explain two common situations:

The first kind, fake breakup. Is when you have a conflict, but the other side is not as disgusted as you, you can still chat with each other, but the other side broke up with you for some reason, you can send a short message:

? I've thought a lot these days and found myself doing a lot of wrong things before. I understand how you feel, and I know I was bad to you before. You should take good care of yourself these days without me. If you are safe, it will be my sunny day. ?

In this case, the other party just wants you to give him more care and care, so that he feels that you care about him. As the saying goes, women chase men, and heavy yarn is separated. On the whole, you didn't make a big mistake. As long as you are willing to admit your mistakes, put yourself in the same position as the other party's point of view and say something that can impress the other party, there is basically no problem.

But be careful not to say anything pleading or angry, such as pleading? I beg you, will you come back to me? I really can't live without you. ? This kind of words shows that your value is very low, which is quite unfavorable for your future development. You will make the other person feel that you begged me to come back, so that I can challenge your bottom line more in the future; Negative words, such as? I don't want him to forgive me. I did nothing wrong. ? , may further aggravate the contradiction between you, on the contrary, it will be more and more detrimental to recovery, and even lead to your real breakup.

Second, the real breakup. This situation is that you have completely established a breakup relationship, and the other party doesn't want to talk to you, or even hates you very much. In this case, you can't break up in a fake way. You should say this:

? Reflecting on what happened between us recently, I suddenly found that my emotional intelligence was much lower than I expected. It turns out that you gave me so many opportunities before, so now you are determined to leave me, which I totally understand. I didn't pay enough attention to you and understand you before, and you gave me a chance. Now I think you were right to leave me. ?

This way can reduce the contradiction between you, make the other person less wary of you, or at least have a better impression of you, which will help you get along better in the future. Be careful not to expose too much sense of need, which will make the other person feel that you are pestering him. No matter what the other person says, you must agree with him.

The above is just a template, be careful not to copy it completely, because it will only backfire and make the other party think that you are a careless and perfunctory person. In addition, don't rely entirely on this kind of short message to save. This kind of text message just makes the relationship between you not so bad. If you want to save each other, you still have to follow the process of secondary attraction step by step. You should change your image and make yourself better. This kind of recovery is effective, otherwise you can use the recovered message to make the other party turn around once, and it may not be effective next time.

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